Some women say size doesn't matter. And I know there are 400000 posts on this subject elsewhere, but my question is going to dig a little deeper towards a possible depressing truth, basically, when you say size doesn't matter, is it because size really doesn't matter or is it that you settle for less in the face of not wanting to be alone. With that possibility, I am pressed to suggest that more attractive women know they can bag the more choice penis and are prone to hold out for a larger organ. I am the small end of average. 6 inches bone pressed. Does this mean, for the most part, I will end up with average women. Or are there truly other factors that really awesome women look at. Because I feel extraordinary in other areas.
What woman prefers smaller penis?
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There are many women who are quite content with an average sized penis.....I think other traits such as ( intelligence, compassion, honesty, etc are all things women look for equally or not more." I think your attitude will affect the type of woman you will attract. If you have low self esteem most lilkely you will not attract a woman who is confident, self assured etc.
I think for myself, I need all of the components listed above, intelligence, compassion, honesty, and yes in all honesty a large dick.
Physically and sexually I tend to be attracted to very very endowed men my minimum is 9x 6 however my preferences are certainly not the norm.
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deb
9X6 ?
Just out of curiousity, if it is the minimum, do you get laid much?:biggrin1:
(BTW, nice tits)
Yeah, I know there are women who are content with it. And therin lies my question, are they just settling? I know it is insecure of me to ask, but hell, if I don't talk about it, I'll never get over it. Do you think most women are secretly like you and would prefer 9X6? But where other women say screw it and settle for an average guy like me, you know you are attractive enough to find a 9X6 every time and leave behind the tiny 8 inchers? Do women pass up 9X6 out of laziness, or feeling unattractive, or do some women really really like average just as I like average breasts. (I know that breasts and penises are different)
8 inches isn't tiny, it is well above the norm, given that I will not speak on behalf of all women.
I know for a fact that my best friend can not take more than a 7 inch dick, ( she told me it hurts, and it's very uncomfortable) so it really varies on the woman.
As for me, I just like larger men, I can not explain why I just do. I know physically my vagina is made deeper than most women, ( gyno confirmed this) hence my ability to accomedate larger men.
I know alot of men who love average breasts, and find my DD's way too big, and I think the same resonates for women in regards to penis size. Some women are content with average sized cocks and some like me, are not.
I am sure other women on this site will give you their opinons as well.
hope this helps.
JustAsking
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Nrets,
I know that it is a woman's perspective that you are looking for, but let me put in my two cents. I think you insecurity about penis size is not unusual. However, one aspect of it is that it will cause you to lose your objectivity when trying to find out if your insecurities are warranted or not. A trick that a counselor would do if he senses a person is not being objective bout their self-image is to set up a hypothetical scenario that is equivalent but doesn't have the subjective impact the real scenario has on the person.
So here is mine: Suppose there is this woman with average size breasts. For some reason she is convinced that all men really want women with extremely large breasts. She is also convinced that the only men who would like her are men who are not attractive enough to "bag the really big game" and would "settle" for her rather than being alone.
Then suppose she went to an Internet forum called Large Breasts Support Group and polled all the men who were hanging around there if small breasts were ok with them.
Suppose you were on that forum also, and noticed her anxious postings. What advice would you give her?
B_Think_Kink
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I am an anti-size queen. I reject the idea that bigger cocks are superior... or that they are better at whatever it is they do. I am very stuck in the idea that anything over 6.5 is useless to me... It's purely preferance though. It hurts to use anything bigger than 6.5 and not in a nice way.. I don't strecth to accomodate well so I am more than happy to learn a guy isn't well hung.
If I could accodate better would I? no... I still prefer smaller size wize, and preferance wise.
If I could accodate better would I? no... I still prefer smaller size wize, and preferance wise.
Well, I'd guess that quite a few women like average sized dicks. I have one and I haven't exactly had any problems attracting extremely wonderful women.
silverheart
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maybe it all depends on how a woman associates the fullness feeling. I know from reading that for a lot of women it's not something they think about. They are much more emotional than physical when it comes to sex, where as men are more physical.
I would reject a good percentage of the male population before I got anywhere NEAR their cock. Also, most of the men I've dated I was pretty into them as people before I slept with them. If I then saw his cock and it wasn't huge, it wouldn't make much difference.
I find the whole settling for less thing to be somewhat ridiculous. Are you implying that a woman will fall in love with a wonderful, loving, smart, kind successful man and then see his cock and say, "no sorry, too small, let me not settle and get with this jerk who has 9 inches?"
I am assuming by attractive you mean physically attractive. Tell me, is that all you're looking for in a woman? The whole tone of your post is very superficial-- hot girls and big cocks. That may be how porn movies work, but not the real world.
Anyway, I am sure there are many attractive women out there that have far from "settled" even though they are with someone with an average or small cock, and would be insulted if you said such a ludicrous thing. If a man's worth were only the size of his cock... well, that's what dildos are for.
Forget about your cock and work on yourself both inside and out so you can attract a woman who is beautiful both on the inside and the outside. Go to school, work hard, get in shape, dress well, take care of yourself emotionally, etc. In terms of attracting women and having a life that's not average, concentrate on making yourself a better person.
And by the way, many women you may see as "average" may not be so to another man. It just depends on what you consider important. A woman with average looks may be extremely smart. A woman with average intelligence may be kind, caring, and a good mother. You never know.
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This is perhaps true, but it does not take the place of the physical sensations that a thick dick causes when it both stretches the vagina and pressures against the 'legs' of the clit that originate at the clit and descend on either side of the vagina.
Speaking for myself only..
But i am one who says size dosent matter. However as most things in this world that is within reason. I wouldnt like the end up with a man under 5" but i am not that physical based that i wouldnt look at other traits to see if they compensate for his lack of size. And sure i class sex as a big part of a relationship so he would have to be quite amazing to over ride that lack of size and still keep me fully satisfied.
And no, i dont think in the slightest that a woman that ends up with a smaller man is settling. It does mean that she isnt shallow and can see beyond physical and can accept a man that isnt 'perfect' by social standards.
Which brings on the point ..... We have been taught that a bigger penis is desirable, but should we generalise that all women want big and that to accept smaller is settling for less than perfect. Maybe perfcet for some women really is small or average
But i am one who says size dosent matter. However as most things in this world that is within reason. I wouldnt like the end up with a man under 5" but i am not that physical based that i wouldnt look at other traits to see if they compensate for his lack of size. And sure i class sex as a big part of a relationship so he would have to be quite amazing to over ride that lack of size and still keep me fully satisfied.
And no, i dont think in the slightest that a woman that ends up with a smaller man is settling. It does mean that she isnt shallow and can see beyond physical and can accept a man that isnt 'perfect' by social standards.
Which brings on the point ..... We have been taught that a bigger penis is desirable, but should we generalise that all women want big and that to accept smaller is settling for less than perfect. Maybe perfcet for some women really is small or average
You know, I considered that my post was extremely selfish before I posted it. I realized how chauvinest saying that I will end up with an average woman sounded. It's really that I am a 23 year old virgin and just went to a school dance with this frat I might join and this girl who was way prettier and already successful was my date. Afterwards I noticed that she hangs out with jocks most of the time. One roommate said she prefers black dudes. I know that that might have to do with personality besides penis size, but still, It made me question my penis along with many of the other things you mention. (I suddenly wanted to take better care of myself and be more successful)
I went with the comment anyway because of exactly what you suggested ...That a woman might fall in love with me and end it if I didn't have a big enough dick. Now that I wrote it out, I guess not
Guys prefer physically attractive women. They just do. It's one of the major reasons they decide to walk up to that chick and try to talk to her even though their heart may be pounding in their chest with anxiety.
To try to brush over or deny that men have this tendency is pointless. It's not the only one they have and they know that of course. But the typical man is much more driven by external beauty in factoring in whom he will try to date and mate than the typical woman. I doubt you'll find any man on this board who will deny physical beauty is one of their more important initial attractors to a woman.
I don't PREFER a smaller penis.. but I've never turned one down. And it's not because I don't want to hurt their feelings, but it's just because I'm always willing to give a guy a chance! Just because it's smaller doesn't mean it doesn't work.
If this is 100% true, there are a ton of ugly women that get laid by and married to decent men for no apparent reason.
Everyone's standard of beauty is different. Some value physical more than others. I do think it's important for women and men to take care of themselves physically, but that's a lot different than "OMG I only want to fuck hot chicks.' Also, people's personality and make them look or more or less attractive to others physically.
While your premise about a man talkin to a chick in a bar is probably true, I'd have to say a lot of people don't meet that way. In fact, I'd venture that most people don't meet that way.
Really, though, that wasn't the point or intent of my original answer.
rob_just_rob
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Please see point #5 here:
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/47176-all-women-does-size-actually.html#post782593
http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/47176-all-women-does-size-actually.html#post782593
Belly_Dancer
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Regardless of what has or has not been discussed on this topic, I'm posting because I've realized what I said some time ago (when I was Chrysalis) didn't really turn out to be true.
My overall conclusion was that size mattered, but not that much...I was trying to convince myself and everyone else that I could be satisfied with an average penis, but the reality is...I want to have my cake and eat it too.
What I mean is...I'm an intensely sexual woman, and very physical in that aspect (maybe more than most women?), as well as emotional. And when I actually got up the nerve (sometime after joining this site) to buy a 6" girth dildo and try it, and came in less than 3 minutes, I realized that there was something to this size queen thing...
Snooz is absolutely right in that finding a wonderful man is paramount.
And I definitely didn't leave my ex because of his cock. There were many other factors involved.
But now I'm thrilled to have a man who really understands my mind, heart and body...who likes many of the same things I do, is witty and fun to be with, adores me, and...just happens to have a large penis.
Am I more sexually satisfied than I would be if he were less well-endowed?
Frankly, yes.
His size, especially his girth, provides intense sensation, which is "icing on the cake" of his being a fabulous human being.
So, I guess I got to have my (cock) and eat it too. :wink: :biggrin1: :tongue:
But I also know that there are women with smaller vaginal capacity (I'm referencing Think_Kink's post) who prefer an average penis...so I think what is really needed is just to make as good a match as you can, mentally, emotionally, and sexually.
My overall conclusion was that size mattered, but not that much...I was trying to convince myself and everyone else that I could be satisfied with an average penis, but the reality is...I want to have my cake and eat it too.
What I mean is...I'm an intensely sexual woman, and very physical in that aspect (maybe more than most women?), as well as emotional. And when I actually got up the nerve (sometime after joining this site) to buy a 6" girth dildo and try it, and came in less than 3 minutes, I realized that there was something to this size queen thing...
Snooz is absolutely right in that finding a wonderful man is paramount.
And I definitely didn't leave my ex because of his cock. There were many other factors involved.
But now I'm thrilled to have a man who really understands my mind, heart and body...who likes many of the same things I do, is witty and fun to be with, adores me, and...just happens to have a large penis.
Am I more sexually satisfied than I would be if he were less well-endowed?
Frankly, yes.
His size, especially his girth, provides intense sensation, which is "icing on the cake" of his being a fabulous human being.
So, I guess I got to have my (cock) and eat it too. :wink: :biggrin1: :tongue:
But I also know that there are women with smaller vaginal capacity (I'm referencing Think_Kink's post) who prefer an average penis...so I think what is really needed is just to make as good a match as you can, mentally, emotionally, and sexually.
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