What Women (and their Mothers) should know about the Male Orgasm(Or at least mine).

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  1. B_spiker067

    B_spiker067 New Member

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    Possibly Part One of Three: Since We've talked about Women's O's


    There is no such thing as PE.

    Or that PE is a problem.

    There its said.

    Up through my early to mid twenties I was a walking hard on. If you wanted to have a conversation with me you’d have to surgically remove it, place it in a box, and put it in another room, and then maybe, just maybe we could carry on a conversation that wasn’t gibberish on my part (no cracks here this is my personal CUT experience).

    Since I thought with the ‘little’ fucker at the time I’m sure that he remembers more Linear Algebra than I do. I should talk to him about it or can someone recommend a good book to bone up with :)

    Even now if I come first and quick!?! No big deal. If I’m inside and I don’t get soft too fast I can (golf term now) “play(ing) through” it (the orgasm) sometimes a woman may not even know. The thing is you have to be sized matched. Playing through involves being able to really go balls to the wall fucking or near to it, if she's not ready. Oversized on little women can’t play this way I’d guess. Then again according to local (LPSG) legend they don’t PE. Now walking off the “pain” of the moment, another sports metaphor, is no big deal because it wasn’t a built up, hold it back orgasm, and even then… (those who don’t know where erections come from should look it up).

    If I’m not inside her and she is a lover she nows that she can rub and squeeze the ‘little’ fucker a la heart massage back to full health, or at least not laugh too loud while I do;-) If I’m stressed, not interested, she better snap her ass around quick or she’ll lose the second erection. Then again there really is no such thing as stess either only not interested or a urological disorder of some sort…


    I'm sure many men are just like me :)


    Part Two: The LPSG.Org Woman’s guide to getting her man/lover over PE.
     
  2. Chrysalis

    Chrysalis New Member

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    I'm glad you brought this issue up. I agree with you.

    I am very fortunate in that my husband is multiply orgasmic, with a quick recovery time. His first one usually doesn't take long, but after that he turns into the Energizer Bunny... :smile:

    So I wouldn't really call that first one PE. I think the words "Premature Ejaculation" are rather ridiculous, anyway. Premature to what? Is there some arbitrary time goal?

    I would say the goal should be pleasure; his and hers.

    Sometimes, he'll go down on me until I orgasm, then penetrate me. In that situation, his first climax and my second one usually happen simultaneously.

    However, nothing gets me hotter than fucking right at the start! Even if he cums and then switches to another way of stimulating me for a few minutes, I will orgasm in less than half the time than I would have if he didn't fuck me first.

    I think it's really interesting that for me, the first one takes a while, and the rest are very quick and easy, whereas for him, the first one is quick and easy, and the rest take a while. It is probably this way for most male/female couples.

    He is able to "play through," but it's not really my favorite thing. We only do that if we are really short on time. I like his cock to be hard, hard, hard! Not just mostly hard.

    Finally, I will say that when a man comes quickly, it is a form of flattery, in my opinion -- as long as he realizes he is not done yet -- not by a long shot. :wink:
     
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    My gf tells me not to hold back but if I didn't I'd cum within ten minutes or so, or two if I really let go. As is, I can go for ages but she gets sore (apparently I fuck her too hard lol...if she weren't so hot, we wouldn't have that problem).

    BUT then when she does get sore I can ask her to let me finish (cum inside, she has a coil) and I can be done within like two minutes.

    I can keep going but I'm usually tired and it feels a bit funny. Maybe one time though, when we go all night :wink:

    I think my girl would be flattered if I came fast and she really wants me to but I just won't let myself :p

    I'd be kind of ashamed and I want to make sure she cums at least once before I bust a nut :D Takes a lot to make her cum though...
     
  4. happyfeet

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    Newbie question #1:

    What is PE? Premature ejaculation?

    I think it is, so I'll reply thus: It may not be a problem for the guy, but if the woman needs hours of penetrative sex and he can't get it up, again, after the first ejaculation, that *is* a problem, regardless of why. And, a man who has such a woman and disagrees that it's a problem is an asshole, so the woman needs to find another partner.

    You know...I have had men cum, then go soft, and not tell me...just keep playing through it, as you say. I could tell. Always. It feels more like you're being stuffed than getting fucked. I don't always mention it, b/c I like penetration. But, I definitely notice.
     
  5. B_spiker067

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    <Turn on gay level to 1%>
    Ha! Holder of the only cock worth penis envy on LPSG.ORG
    </Turn off gay level to 0%>

    I get that but learning about getting over PE and then holding off for a mind blowig experience are two different things as part two may explain.
     
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    Happy,

    You misunderstood. It either stays hard or gets very hard quickly and stays hard. Sorry for you on those other experiences :frown1: .

    Spiker

     
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    Damn "<blank> machine"!

    Consistantly the best come back posts :)

     
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