What women want (not sex or a big dick)....

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Check out this article by Ann Lamont on Slate, who went on Match.com for a year. I happen to own and love Ann's "Bird by Bird." If you haven't read it, you should. But notice the things she articulates she wants. I bet most women would agree. Notice she does not mention anything about size, or sexual gratification... quite the opposite. I am sure most women echo her feelings. This is one of the reasons I wish I was gay.

"I had loved the sleeping alone part. I rarely missed sex: I had tiny boundary issues in all those years of drinking, and by my early 20s I had used up my lifelong allotment. I over-served myself. I do love what Wodehouse called the old oompus-boompus when it happens to be in progress, but wouldn’t go out of my way. Additionally, I have spent approximately 1,736 hours of this one precious life waiting for the man to finish, and pretending that felt good. And I want a refund.

What I missed was checking in all day with my person, daydreaming about him, and watching TV together at night. There, I’ve said it: I wanted someone to text all day, and watch TV with.

I am skittish about relationships, as most of the marriages I’ve seen up close have been ruinous for one or both parties. In four-fifths of them, the men want to have sex way more often than the women do. I would say almost none of the women would care if they ever got laid again, even when they are in good marriages. They do it because the man wants to. They do it because it makes the men like them more, and feel close for a while, but mostly women love it because they get to check it off their to-do lists. It means they get a pass for a week or two, or a month."

My year on Match.com - Salon.com
 
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So...question....

Does Ann Lamont represent all women? Im just asking for clarification. Because you did title this "What women want", so I want to be sure we're on the same page. Is Ann Lamont speaking for all women?
 

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Yes, I think so. This is the same sentiment I encounter on all the dates I go on. Women want to talk, go hiking, go to yoga, the farmer's market, go out for coffee and shop for reasonably priced handbags. So, to answer your question, yes.

I have been looking for the unicorn of women who just want sex, but they do not exist. in fact, i posted this article to prove again that i am right....

if i am wrong, will you please introduce me to the women who just want a guy with a huge cock? as i have not found one in over 30 years.

Did you read the article? I posted it because it is written by a woman who i know and respect and she further proves my point.

So...question....

Does Ann Lamont represent all women? Im just asking for clarification. Because you did title this "What women want", so I want to be sure we're on the same page. Is Ann Lamont speaking for all women?
 
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Yes I read it. It was stupid. Ann Lamont does not think anything like me or anyone I know.

You're like the freakin' Mark Twain of LPSG. A very prolific writer indeed. In fact AYC let me save you some trouble and I'll go ahead and come up with your next 5 thread titles. I'm very generous like that.

1. Women are all the same, now agree with me

2. Women hate dick

3. Why women suck

4. Why women won't suck my dick

5. Why you suck if you don't share my views


Youre welcome!! :)
 

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I get the hyperbole, but i think a more accurate, succinct compilation of titles would be why women don't want a big dick or just sex.


Yes I read it. It was stupid. Ann Lamont does not think anything like me or anyone I know.

You're like the freakin' Mark Twain of LPSG. A very prolific writer indeed. In fact AYC let me save you some trouble and I'll go ahead and come up with your next 5 thread titles. I'm very generous like that.

1. Women are all the same, now agree with me

2. Women hate dick

3. Why women suck

4. Why women won't suck my dick

5. Why you suck if you don't share my views


Youre welcome!! :)
 

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Yes, I think so. This is the same sentiment I encounter on all the dates I go on. Women want to talk, go hiking, go to yoga, the farmer's market, go out for coffee and shop for reasonably priced handbags. So, to answer your question, yes.

I have been looking for the unicorn of women who just want sex, but they do not exist. in fact, i posted this article to prove again that i am right....

if i am wrong, will you please introduce me to the women who just want a guy with a huge cock? as i have not found one in over 30 years.

Did you read the article? I posted it because it is written by a woman who i know and respect and she further proves my point.
There is probably an equal number of guys and girls that just want sex. I don't understand why you have the "with a huge cock" qualifier in there (kinda sticks out as an insecurity really). The article is a single persons viewpoint. You can not write something that expresses the viewpoint of everybody. There are differences in everybody... whether it be from cultural differences, how you were raised, who you hung out with, or even what you watched on TV. They all influence us and what we want.
 

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There are tons of cuckold couples who just want a big dicked guy to bang the girlfriend/wife, why don't you find some of them?
 
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Two points about that. Probably it is true that in most relationships men want sex more than women do, and women agree to sex for various reasons. But I don't think that men want sex way more times than women do.

Secondly Ann Lamont is quite happy never to have sex again, which is not what women are about. Women enjoy sex, they have sex drives that need to be satiated and they need to have real sex on at least a semi-regular basis. If not then they fantasise or even contemplate chasing men down for sex, even if they are in a relationship. A woman's desire or need for sex can be that strong.
 

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I didn't bother to read the article, however I did read the quoted part in the original post and it doesn't surprise me. What she says confirmed a lot of things I already know. Women really aren't that into sex.

I was actually talking to a friend of mine about this the other day and I think a lot of what drives it is the lack of physical attraction women have for men. The convo started because of this video how women don't want penis pics - No More Penis Pics - YouTube. Even though there is some acting involved, there are other videos that highlight the disgust women have for this practice. Whereas you have to ask yourself, would a guy be offended if a woman sent him a vag pic? Most likely no. Why? Because men have an appreciation for the female body. Just look at the amount of average (and below) looking women on this site that get bombarded with compliments. Men like it. The same appreciation doesn't exist for women as many claim to not care what a guy's dick looks like or demand no shirtless pics in their dating ads. Not saying that's wrong, but it's my opinion of what drives their lack of sex drive.

And of course some women may be attracted to guys who are really ripped, nice body, huge dick or some other outstanding physical attribute. But even those don't have a sex drive that can compare to the average male I find. I recall having a fuck buddy when I was younger who appeared to be insatiable. Even asked me for shirtless and dick pics. Quite the rarity out there. She ended up trying to get married to a guy where they had a sexless relationship. And he dumped her haha! Another lady who I was fuck buddies with who claims to love sex yet she was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who rarely fucked her and suffered from pre-mature ejaculation. The stories go on. Point being, women have low sex drives and even the ones who claim otherwise I'm skeptical.
 

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Probably because this is the LPSG = "Large Penis" Support Group. A group that supports men with a large penis, so it seemed fitting. No?

Large penis = Huge cock.

There is probably an equal number of guys and girls that just want sex. I don't understand why you have the "with a huge cock" qualifier in there (kinda sticks out as an insecurity really). The article is a single persons viewpoint. You can not write something that expresses the viewpoint of everybody. There are differences in everybody... whether it be from cultural differences, how you were raised, who you hung out with, or even what you watched on TV. They all influence us and what we want.
 

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I recall having a fuck buddy when I was younger who appeared to be insatiable. Even asked me for shirtless and dick pics. Quite the rarity out there. She ended up trying to get married to a guy where they had a sexless relationship. And he dumped her haha! Another lady who I was fuck buddies with who claims to love sex yet she was in a 5 year relationship with a guy who rarely fucked her and suffered from pre-mature ejaculation. The stories go on..


what stories?? one woman was "insatiable" and the other one had a BF who suffered from premature ejaculation and now that proves your point that women don't want sex.?
 

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Probably because this is the LPSG = "Large Penis" Support Group. A group that supports men with a large penis, so it seemed fitting. No?

Large penis = Huge cock.
Except that isn't at all relevant. A woman that is only interested in sex won't care if the penis is huge or average (as long as the guy using the penis is using it right), she wants sex.
 

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Ah, you lost me as soon as I hit the word "Slate."
Slate, the site that trolls it's own readers.

From what I gather, absolutely nothing in this world will make Ann Lamont happy, except maybe more people reading her self-absorbed posts.

Some examples:
"My Year on Match.com"
"Me...The Overly Sensitive Child"
"Why I Hate Mother's Day"
"My Son, The Stranger"
"I am Cuckoo, But Hope Is Coming"
 

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Ah, you lost me as soon as I hit the word "Slate."
Slate, the site that trolls it's own readers.

From what I gather, absolutely nothing in this world will make Ann Lamont happy, except maybe more people reading her self-absorbed posts.

Some examples:
"My Year on Match.com"
"Me...The Overly Sensitive Child"
"Why I Hate Mother's Day"
"My Son, The Stranger"
"I am Cuckoo, But Hope Is Coming"

You forgot "I'm a Narcissistic Moron"