I decided I'll spell it out for you. Well, what I want anyway. As a straight woman. From my experience, I want a guy who - contrary to what I saw in a thread here - wants to have sex. For media imposed reasons, men think that if they hide their desires to have sex women will somehow feel more trusting. Ok, if you're not reaching up my skirt after "hello", yeah, that helps. But otherwise... During the summer I was involved with a guy who was so damn closed in. He totally didn't come on to me. I mean, even in the initial stages of a relationship, I like the guy coming on to me in subtle ways - or at least knowing he's thinking of me that way. I.e. touching my thigh once in a while, his firm grip, etc. Making jokes about that, and them actually being funny. (I know that's hard) You see fellows, women WANT to be WANTED. We want you to appreciate us. To be able to read between the lines, or guess them when they're not even there. I know it's impossible, but it's what we want. We want to know that you want sex with a woman and you've chosen us - because we're perfect. But not because you're crazy...not because you're insane and that's why our faults don't bother you. While all of this, we want you to do your own thing. Be interested and do something career/work/hobby wise. Something we don't understand. Something you'll be able to teach us, and even after you will we won't completely understand...b/c you're the man who understands it better. We also want you to be gentlemen. I.e. for us to know that you feel it's your responsibility to walk us home and protect us. I know how this sounds. But it's the truth. Maybe it'll help someone out...who knows.