I find it interesting they used a man's profession or lack thereof as a gauge and not some aspect of his personality. I think that would be more telling.
Some people are that shallow. I am sure we have all met some of them.
And women are not programmed to find men attractive and bed them? I'd like to see the studies on that.
I do not find that part to be true either. Women DO have attraction for handsome men and will go for one night stands.
I could care less about how much money a man makes as long as he's happy. I could care less about what he does for a living as long as he's not a pimp or a manwhore.
I did not say ALL women were that shallow. You can find quite a few who are, though. You happen to be a lady who is not that way...good for you.
You seem very sincere about this too.
I hate to say it but some men are kind of stupid this way. They only care about what a woman looks like until they're knee-deep in a relationship and find out she's their worst nightmare. Women who are looking for a long-term relationship are going to be smarter than that and get the scoop on their potential mates. I still hold that women who aren't looking for a long-term relationship won't care that much about the heft of man's salary.
What about the women who are looking for long term? How does wealth figure in their evaluation of men?
Yep, it is all that testosterone talking instead of the brain. My shyness and small endowment has kept me from this. I stayed away from one night stands and casual sex because of it. If I had a bigger ego I would have most likely have done anything I could...no use lying about it. I just never had the nerve to try...I have had enough rejection.