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I live in a major metropolitan city in california. I have to admit that I really look at women as if they are a different species or to borrow a common analogy, from a different planet. (yes, I am sure they view us men with the same baffling vexation).

In this city, and having been with lots of women, I've noticed the same patterns over and over again, and while every woman likes to view themselves as unique and different, there are many patterns of behavior that are common across the board.

I am compiling a list and I would welcome feedback, adding or subtracting things about what you've noticed as well. All these observations come from countless repeated experiences in the field.

1. women love to plan - every potential date i've been on, has ended or begun based on planning. Women hate spontaneity. And view a man that can't plan as a huge red flag.

2. women love to hike - it baffles me how EVERY woman I talk to wants to go hiking on a date. Not my thing, as you can tell. But it's fascinating to me how across the board this is. If you put that you love to "hike" on your dating profile, women will stuffing your inbox.

*women also love farmers markets and any kind of market too. They love going out and browsing and gathering things.

3. women love yoga - Every woman here loves to go to their yoga and spin classes. However, don't be fooled, as much time and effort as they put into their bodies, always remember, they want to be appreciated for their minds.

4. women want to be appreciated for their minds - you can tell them they're beautiful, but don't be surprised if they are offended by it. I can't tell you how many women i've told how amazingly beautiful they are, only to be upbraided for it. And reprimanded that they want to be appreciated for their minds (despite spending all their free time going to yoga and shopping for cute outfits."

5. women love to travel - every woman i meet wants to go someplace. it's pretty strange to me, they want to be whisked off to paris, or a weekend in Big Sur or Hawaii. It's pretty shocking to me how women hate to stay inside and relax. they always need to be going somewhere or doing something. When I work all week, all i can dream about is going home to relax; yet every woman I meet has to go off doing somethin so I assume she can take a picture of it and share with her friends on instagram. Hence the trope of the man cave.

6. women have to get to know you first - women will want to talk to you and get to know you first before any kind of sex. Even if you're with an escort (watch the Fleiss documentary on amazon) they want to have a drink, "get to know you" and then MAYBE they'll have sex with you.

7. Women hate dick pics - despite the entire foundation of porn and concept of this entire site - women don't care about size. they don't want to see your dick. they don't care. it's the last thing they want to see.

8. Women are not bisexual - Yes, I know women claim to be bisexual. And i've talked to them too, but every time i press them about it, and they resist, they always say how "picky" they are. when you hear how "picky" they are, that's usually a flag. I've had several threesomes but it comes at great cost and is always by chance. I could have had hundreds of threesomes with women but they all wanted money. so I guess you can put an asterisk by this one * they are bisexual if they get compensated.

9. women want serious monogamous relationships - women constantly say how they want serious monogamous relationships. no hook ups. they're not looking for multiple partners. Sex is not a priority for them. The lifestyle swinger scene that involves women is always because they are in it with their husbands. If there is a single woman involved, they are called unicorns. they are called "unicorns" for a reason. because they are rare and don't exist.


will you please add or subtract to this? These above observations are based on my experience and I also realize that these are all negotiable if the women are properly compensated it seems.

I'm just getting started. thanks!
 
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waiting.

also, just curious if there isn't anything that doesn't offend you?

1. All women are not the same

2. All women are not the same

3-9. see 1&2

10. I like farmers markets, travel and hiking despite not being a woman. Women have told me to be MORE spontaneous. Bisexual does not equal threesome.

11. Would you appreciate being pigeonholed into the cliche you are thought to be?

Just getting started
 

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why don't you just say that "nothing is the same" and then end your argument? I'm in awe and envious of your mastery of platitudes. it must be delightful to see the world through such a dull prism.

1. All women are not the same

2. All women are not the same

3-9. see 1&2

10. I like farmers markets, travel and hiking despite not being a woman. Women have told me to be MORE spontaneous. Bisexual does not equal threesome.

11. Would you appreciate being pigeonholed into the cliche you are thought to be?

Just getting started
 

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why don't you just say that "nothing is the same" and then end your argument? I'm in awe and envious of your mastery of platitudes. it must be delightful to see the world through such a dull prism.
I’m actually being serious, despite the flippancy

Im still not sure if you are. Is this to help you and/or others try to understand women?
 

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You borderline described me in your list yet I'm not a woman.

My PLANNED vacations alway involve either hiking, yoga, or something spiritual. I love going to farmers markets so much that I built a custom radio flyer wagon to take with me when I go.

Have you ever considered going to a "I hate hiking, spontaneous only, dick pic liking, vacation hating, yoga hating speed dating"? They have to have something like that on eventbrite.

I think of the Little Rascals with their He-Man Woman Haters club.
 
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1. women love to plan - every potential date i've been on, has ended or begun based on planning. Women hate spontaneity. And view a man that can't plan as a huge red flag.

2. women love to hike - it baffles me how EVERY woman I talk to wants to go hiking on a date. Not my thing, as you can tell. But it's fascinating to me how across the board this is. If you put that you love to "hike" on your dating profile, women will stuffing your inbox.

*women also love farmers markets and any kind of market too. They love going out and browsing and gathering things.

3. women love yoga - Every woman here loves to go to their yoga and spin classes. However, don't be fooled, as much time and effort as they put into their bodies, always remember, they want to be appreciated for their minds.

4. women want to be appreciated for their minds - you can tell them they're beautiful, but don't be surprised if they are offended by it. I can't tell you how many women i've told how amazingly beautiful they are, only to be upbraided for it. And reprimanded that they want to be appreciated for their minds (despite spending all their free time going to yoga and shopping for cute outfits."

5. women love to travel - every woman i meet wants to go someplace. it's pretty strange to me, they want to be whisked off to paris, or a weekend in Big Sur or Hawaii. It's pretty shocking to me how women hate to stay inside and relax. they always need to be going somewhere or doing something. When I work all week, all i can dream about is going home to relax; yet every woman I meet has to go off doing somethin so I assume she can take a picture of it and share with her friends on instagram. Hence the trope of the man cave.

6. women have to get to know you first - women will want to talk to you and get to know you first before any kind of sex. Even if you're with an escort (watch the Fleiss documentary on amazon) they want to have a drink, "get to know you" and then MAYBE they'll have sex with you.

7. Women hate dick pics - despite the entire foundation of porn and concept of this entire site - women don't care about size. they don't want to see your dick. they don't care. it's the last thing they want to see.

8. Women are not bisexual - Yes, I know women claim to be bisexual. And i've talked to them too, but every time i press them about it, and they resist, they always say how "picky" they are. when you hear how "picky" they are, that's usually a flag. I've had several threesomes but it comes at great cost and is always by chance. I could have had hundreds of threesomes with women but they all wanted money. so I guess you can put an asterisk by this one * they are bisexual if they get compensated.

9. women want serious monogamous relationships - women constantly say how they want serious monogamous relationships. no hook ups. they're not looking for multiple partners. Sex is not a priority for them. The lifestyle swinger scene that involves women is always because they are in it with their husbands. If there is a single woman involved, they are called unicorns. they are called "unicorns" for a reason. because they are rare and don't exist.


will you please add or subtract to this? These above observations are based on my experience and I also realize that these are all negotiable if the women are properly compensated it seems.

I'm just getting started. thanks!

1. Yes, many do; embrace it. Nothing sucks more than to be with a female that you lock everything in for only to say "nah lets go to a movie instead" at the last minute. There are a more than a few women that are much like men, whom if it weren't for the "last minute" would never get shit done. I hate people that waste my time with indecision.

2. Walking is good for you. Learn how to walk longer, faster and harder if you want them to ratchet it down.

3. Not into yoga myself but if she isn't trying to convert you, why worry. Anything that makes her happy that isn't any skin off your nuts why let it bother you. Ask her if she wants to go to the gym and lift weights or...ask her to go for a hike.

4. They do. Ask them things. They usually like that. It's OK if they know shit you don't know, they really like that (shit if they give you stock tips you might get rich). Sometimes I can be an attentive dumbass just to help them build confidence in conversing with me. This also works with other people you are trying to interact with, not just women your chasing. It's very useful later if you deal with the offspring.

5. Travel is good; but the Instagram Facebook shit is staggering across the board. It has migrated across the age/generation gap as well. Travel but tell them to stop taking selfies with the lobster. Red Lobster shit looks the same everywhere. Once you establish a LTR the travel will usually drop. Go see stuff, you only live once, it won't hurt you (unless you just have to go see the Coast of Somalia during pirate season or Pyongyang to steal a poster)

6. Personally I am an asshole, i would want to know me before getting in my pants.

7. If you did well with 1-6, they will usually enjoy your dick with or without the pic. Remember the Instagram thing above? They get sick of the shit like I get sick of seeing pictures of deviled eggs or some dude showing me his new George Foreman fat guy thing cooking a nine pound burger

8. Most people are not bisexual. Many women are bisexual some many more are not. Maybe you read to many stories or watch too much Pornhub.

9. Monogamy isn't bad, it's what most people want...men and women. Most relationships that come to an are usually a result of not practicing it, when you supposed to be or expected to. I used to swing. Many people that swing avoid solo women and solo men. Again most people don't swing. Most of the solo women that used to swing were actually trying to find something stable as well and most of them vanished after finding a LTR. Ditto solo males though in many cases
 
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I live in a major metropolitan city in california. I have to admit that I really look at women as if they are a different species or to borrow a common analogy, from a different planet. (yes, I am sure they view us men with the same baffling vexation).

In this city, and having been with lots of women, I've noticed the same patterns over and over again, and while every woman likes to view themselves as unique and different, there are many patterns of behavior that are common across the board.

I am compiling a list and I would welcome feedback, adding or subtracting things about what you've noticed as well. All these observations come from countless repeated experiences in the field.

1. women love to plan - every potential date i've been on, has ended or begun based on planning. Women hate spontaneity. And view a man that can't plan as a huge red flag.

2. women love to hike - it baffles me how EVERY woman I talk to wants to go hiking on a date. Not my thing, as you can tell. But it's fascinating to me how across the board this is. If you put that you love to "hike" on your dating profile, women will stuffing your inbox.

*women also love farmers markets and any kind of market too. They love going out and browsing and gathering things.

3. women love yoga - Every woman here loves to go to their yoga and spin classes. However, don't be fooled, as much time and effort as they put into their bodies, always remember, they want to be appreciated for their minds.

4. women want to be appreciated for their minds - you can tell them they're beautiful, but don't be surprised if they are offended by it. I can't tell you how many women i've told how amazingly beautiful they are, only to be upbraided for it. And reprimanded that they want to be appreciated for their minds (despite spending all their free time going to yoga and shopping for cute outfits."

5. women love to travel - every woman i meet wants to go someplace. it's pretty strange to me, they want to be whisked off to paris, or a weekend in Big Sur or Hawaii. It's pretty shocking to me how women hate to stay inside and relax. they always need to be going somewhere or doing something. When I work all week, all i can dream about is going home to relax; yet every woman I meet has to go off doing somethin so I assume she can take a picture of it and share with her friends on instagram. Hence the trope of the man cave.

6. women have to get to know you first - women will want to talk to you and get to know you first before any kind of sex. Even if you're with an escort (watch the Fleiss documentary on amazon) they want to have a drink, "get to know you" and then MAYBE they'll have sex with you.

7. Women hate dick pics - despite the entire foundation of porn and concept of this entire site - women don't care about size. they don't want to see your dick. they don't care. it's the last thing they want to see.

8. Women are not bisexual - Yes, I know women claim to be bisexual. And i've talked to them too, but every time i press them about it, and they resist, they always say how "picky" they are. when you hear how "picky" they are, that's usually a flag. I've had several threesomes but it comes at great cost and is always by chance. I could have had hundreds of threesomes with women but they all wanted money. so I guess you can put an asterisk by this one * they are bisexual if they get compensated.

9. women want serious monogamous relationships - women constantly say how they want serious monogamous relationships. no hook ups. they're not looking for multiple partners. Sex is not a priority for them. The lifestyle swinger scene that involves women is always because they are in it with their husbands. If there is a single woman involved, they are called unicorns. they are called "unicorns" for a reason. because they are rare and don't exist.


will you please add or subtract to this? These above observations are based on my experience and I also realize that these are all negotiable if the women are properly compensated it seems.

I'm just getting started. thanks!
One question, only because any time i read a post like this , it tends to be by the same types of people focusing on the same types of things...
Realistically who, or rather what type of woman are you out here sexing with?
 

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1. Yes, many do; embrace it. Nothing sucks more than to be with a female that you lock everything in for only to say "nah lets go to a movie instead" at the last minute. There are a more than a few women that are much like men, whom if it weren't for the "last minute" would never get shit done. I hate people that waste my time with indecision.

2. Walking is good for you. Learn how to walk longer, faster and harder if you want them to ratchet it down.

3. Not into yoga myself but if she isn't trying to convert you, why worry. Anything that makes her happy that isn't any skin off your nuts why let it bother you. Ask her if she wants to go to the gym and lift weights or...ask her to go for a hike.

4. They do. Ask them things. They usually like that. It's OK if they know shit you don't know, they really like that (shit if they give you stock tips you might get rich). Sometimes I can be an attentive dumbass just to help them build confidence in conversing with me. This also works with other people you are trying to interact with, not just women your chasing. It's very useful later if you deal with the offspring.

5. Travel is good; but the Instagram Facebook shit is staggering across the board. It has migrated across the age/generation gap as well. Travel but tell them to stop taking selfies with the lobster. Red Lobster shit looks the same everywhere. Once you establish a LTR the travel will usually drop. Go see stuff, you only live once, it won't hurt you (unless you just have to go see the Coast of Somalia during pirate season or Pyongyang to steal a poster)

6. Personally I am an asshole, i would want to know me before getting in my pants.

7. If you did well with 1-6, they will usually enjoy your dick with or without the pic. Remember the Instagram thing above? They get sick of the shit like I get sick of seeing pictures of deviled eggs or some dude showing me his new George Foreman fat guy thing cooking a nine pound burger

8. Most people are not bisexual. Many women are bisexual some many more are not. Maybe you read to many stories or watch too much Pornhub.

9. Monogamy isn't bad, it's what most people want...men and women. Most relationships that come to an are usually a result of not practicing it, when you supposed to be or expected to. I used to swing. Many people that swing avoid solo women and solo men. Again most people don't swing. Most of the solo women that used to swing were actually trying to find something stable as well and most of them vanished after finding a LTR. Ditto solo males though in many cases

It doesn’t really do any good to debate these “known characteristics of women” and how to accommodate or cope, if the characteristics posited are cliche and the assumption is that they apply to any/all woman you may be interested in

Rather than a have list of cliches about women (ladies please formulate one about men to illustrate the inaccuracy and offensiveness for OP) it would be better to learn about the individual(s) you are interested in
 
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It doesn’t really do any good to debate these “known characteristics of women” and how to accommodate or cope, if the characteristics posited are cliche and the assumption is that they apply to any/all woman you may be interested in

Rather than a have list of cliches about women (ladies please formulate one about men to illustrate the inaccuracy and offensiveness for OP) it would be better to learn about the individual(s) you are interested in

I am not trying to, sometimes the only way to deal with stupid is to blow it off.
 

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I am not trying to, sometimes the only way to deal with stupid is to blow it off.

Tsk tsk, “stupid”

We oughtn't think so poorly of the well hung gentleman from a major metropolitan area of California who wishes only to add to his list of Things Women Want

In all seriousness, I hope (they) communicate what it is that (they) want and I hope (we) also try to find that out

On a case by case, individual basis
 
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Stupid is so politically incorrect.

I probably should have said mentally challenged