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I live in a major metropolitan city in california. I have to admit that I really look at women as if they are a different species or to borrow a common analogy, from a different planet. (yes, I am sure they view us men with the same baffling vexation).
In this city, and having been with lots of women, I've noticed the same patterns over and over again, and while every woman likes to view themselves as unique and different, there are many patterns of behavior that are common across the board.
I am compiling a list and I would welcome feedback, adding or subtracting things about what you've noticed as well. All these observations come from countless repeated experiences in the field.
1. women love to plan - every potential date i've been on, has ended or begun based on planning. Women hate spontaneity. And view a man that can't plan as a huge red flag.
2. women love to hike - it baffles me how EVERY woman I talk to wants to go hiking on a date. Not my thing, as you can tell. But it's fascinating to me how across the board this is. If you put that you love to "hike" on your dating profile, women will stuffing your inbox.
*women also love farmers markets and any kind of market too. They love going out and browsing and gathering things.
3. women love yoga - Every woman here loves to go to their yoga and spin classes. However, don't be fooled, as much time and effort as they put into their bodies, always remember, they want to be appreciated for their minds.
4. women want to be appreciated for their minds - you can tell them they're beautiful, but don't be surprised if they are offended by it. I can't tell you how many women i've told how amazingly beautiful they are, only to be upbraided for it. And reprimanded that they want to be appreciated for their minds (despite spending all their free time going to yoga and shopping for cute outfits."
5. women love to travel - every woman i meet wants to go someplace. it's pretty strange to me, they want to be whisked off to paris, or a weekend in Big Sur or Hawaii. It's pretty shocking to me how women hate to stay inside and relax. they always need to be going somewhere or doing something. When I work all week, all i can dream about is going home to relax; yet every woman I meet has to go off doing somethin so I assume she can take a picture of it and share with her friends on instagram. Hence the trope of the man cave.
6. women have to get to know you first - women will want to talk to you and get to know you first before any kind of sex. Even if you're with an escort (watch the Fleiss documentary on amazon) they want to have a drink, "get to know you" and then MAYBE they'll have sex with you.
7. Women hate dick pics - despite the entire foundation of porn and concept of this entire site - women don't care about size. they don't want to see your dick. they don't care. it's the last thing they want to see.
8. Women are not bisexual - Yes, I know women claim to be bisexual. And i've talked to them too, but every time i press them about it, and they resist, they always say how "picky" they are. when you hear how "picky" they are, that's usually a flag. I've had several threesomes but it comes at great cost and is always by chance. I could have had hundreds of threesomes with women but they all wanted money. so I guess you can put an asterisk by this one * they are bisexual if they get compensated.
9. women want serious monogamous relationships - women constantly say how they want serious monogamous relationships. no hook ups. they're not looking for multiple partners. Sex is not a priority for them. The lifestyle swinger scene that involves women is always because they are in it with their husbands. If there is a single woman involved, they are called unicorns. they are called "unicorns" for a reason. because they are rare and don't exist.
will you please add or subtract to this? These above observations are based on my experience and I also realize that these are all negotiable if the women are properly compensated it seems.
I'm just getting started. thanks!
In this city, and having been with lots of women, I've noticed the same patterns over and over again, and while every woman likes to view themselves as unique and different, there are many patterns of behavior that are common across the board.
I am compiling a list and I would welcome feedback, adding or subtracting things about what you've noticed as well. All these observations come from countless repeated experiences in the field.
1. women love to plan - every potential date i've been on, has ended or begun based on planning. Women hate spontaneity. And view a man that can't plan as a huge red flag.
2. women love to hike - it baffles me how EVERY woman I talk to wants to go hiking on a date. Not my thing, as you can tell. But it's fascinating to me how across the board this is. If you put that you love to "hike" on your dating profile, women will stuffing your inbox.
*women also love farmers markets and any kind of market too. They love going out and browsing and gathering things.
3. women love yoga - Every woman here loves to go to their yoga and spin classes. However, don't be fooled, as much time and effort as they put into their bodies, always remember, they want to be appreciated for their minds.
4. women want to be appreciated for their minds - you can tell them they're beautiful, but don't be surprised if they are offended by it. I can't tell you how many women i've told how amazingly beautiful they are, only to be upbraided for it. And reprimanded that they want to be appreciated for their minds (despite spending all their free time going to yoga and shopping for cute outfits."
5. women love to travel - every woman i meet wants to go someplace. it's pretty strange to me, they want to be whisked off to paris, or a weekend in Big Sur or Hawaii. It's pretty shocking to me how women hate to stay inside and relax. they always need to be going somewhere or doing something. When I work all week, all i can dream about is going home to relax; yet every woman I meet has to go off doing somethin so I assume she can take a picture of it and share with her friends on instagram. Hence the trope of the man cave.
6. women have to get to know you first - women will want to talk to you and get to know you first before any kind of sex. Even if you're with an escort (watch the Fleiss documentary on amazon) they want to have a drink, "get to know you" and then MAYBE they'll have sex with you.
7. Women hate dick pics - despite the entire foundation of porn and concept of this entire site - women don't care about size. they don't want to see your dick. they don't care. it's the last thing they want to see.
8. Women are not bisexual - Yes, I know women claim to be bisexual. And i've talked to them too, but every time i press them about it, and they resist, they always say how "picky" they are. when you hear how "picky" they are, that's usually a flag. I've had several threesomes but it comes at great cost and is always by chance. I could have had hundreds of threesomes with women but they all wanted money. so I guess you can put an asterisk by this one * they are bisexual if they get compensated.
9. women want serious monogamous relationships - women constantly say how they want serious monogamous relationships. no hook ups. they're not looking for multiple partners. Sex is not a priority for them. The lifestyle swinger scene that involves women is always because they are in it with their husbands. If there is a single woman involved, they are called unicorns. they are called "unicorns" for a reason. because they are rare and don't exist.
will you please add or subtract to this? These above observations are based on my experience and I also realize that these are all negotiable if the women are properly compensated it seems.
I'm just getting started. thanks!
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