What works on dating apps for you?

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i am a nice guy when it comes to online dating ive never been a creep never said "DTF" never sent nudes or a dick pic to unsuspecting women. YET they all tell me that almost every guy does this. Now Im not going to try it cause I think thats creepy but what works for you on a dating app that would make you say I want to meet this guy beyond just looks. Does sending a dick pic do it for you? From what I gather it doesnt for most women
 
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I'm guessing the lack of response previously is due to your use of the phrase "nice guy". this kind of sums it up. The Difference Between a Nice Guy and a Good Man

To answer your question: I suppose it depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for sex, it might work (since you're a member of this site). If you're looking for a relationship, this would start things off on the wrong note.

I am a good woman. I am looking for a good man. An unsolicited dick pick would not work for me. When I'm on dating sites, I rarely get dick pics because of how I present myself... there are no suggestive photos, no innuendos, and I explicitly state that I am looking for monogamy. I think filters out a lot of the BS of people looking for hookups. Obvi by my being on this site, I've got a healthy attitude toward sex, but I don't lead with that because it's not what I want to build a relationship on. I see you've been around this site for years... if you've perused this forum and WI, you'll see that penis size ranks pretty low on the list of reasons we'd date a man. If all you have to offer is a big dick, I'm going to look elsewhere.
 
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I'm guessing the lack of response previously is due to your use of the phrase "nice guy". this kind of sums it up. The Difference Between a Nice Guy and a Good Man

To answer your question: I suppose it depends what you're looking for. If you're looking for sex, it might work (since you're a member of this site). If you're looking for a relationship, this would start things off on the wrong note.

I am a good woman. I am looking for a good man. An unsolicited dick pick would not work for me. When I'm on dating sites, I rarely get dick pics because of how I present myself... there are no suggestive photos, no innuendos, and I explicitly state that I am looking for monogamy. I think filters out a lot of the BS of people looking for hookups. Obvi by my being on this site, I've got a healthy attitude toward sex, but I don't lead with that because it's not what I want to build a relationship on. I see you've been around this site for years... if you've perused this forum and WI, you'll see that penis size ranks pretty low on the list of reasons we'd date a man. If all you have to offer is a big dick, I'm going to look elsewhere.
I enjoyed reading the article very much, sums up the difference between the 2. I'm with the good REAL guy & treasure him
 
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Claiming you're nice is a huge fucking red flag. I never believe it when people do that. Your post history shows me I'm likely correct in continuation of my general assessment that people who claim to be "nice" rarely are.

People who are genuine, with shared interests, and a modicum of manners are what caught my eye when I used a site to look for people to date. Well written, interesting profiles piqued interest too.