During a conversation concerning the increasing occurance of unsimulated sex in films e.g. Nine Songs, Shortbus I asked my partner if she would ever consider having unsimulated sex of any kind. My partner had been a model and actress for a number of years before we met. I knew she had done the odd 'glamour' photo shoot and once appeared topless in a scene in a stageplay.
To my surprise she said if the part called for it she would. She cited Kerry Fox in 'Intimacy' where she takes a guy into her mouth and gives him oral sex. She said she also had admiration for Margo Stilley (Nine Songs) saying it was a tender, intimate moment when she also participated in several scenes of real sexual acts, including fully penetrative intercourse and oral sex.
I have to admit I was shocked and jealous. I couldn't get my head around the fact that she was prepared to be intimate with another guy. She said she could separate the two things and having unsimulated sex with a fellow actor if the part required it wouldn't affect how she felt for me. I have to say that sleeping with her knowing that a few hours earlier she had sex with another guy felt surreal to say the least.
What would be reaction?
To my surprise she said if the part called for it she would. She cited Kerry Fox in 'Intimacy' where she takes a guy into her mouth and gives him oral sex. She said she also had admiration for Margo Stilley (Nine Songs) saying it was a tender, intimate moment when she also participated in several scenes of real sexual acts, including fully penetrative intercourse and oral sex.
I have to admit I was shocked and jealous. I couldn't get my head around the fact that she was prepared to be intimate with another guy. She said she could separate the two things and having unsimulated sex with a fellow actor if the part required it wouldn't affect how she felt for me. I have to say that sleeping with her knowing that a few hours earlier she had sex with another guy felt surreal to say the least.
What would be reaction?
