What would you do if her vagina was....

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Hate to disagree wolverine but yeah...once in a while they can be a little too big. My wife now is an E cup. I think that its a good size on her 5-6 135# frame. However i didnt marry her because she had big tits. I married her because she treats me well and shes a joy to be around and she likes a lot of the same things i like. My cock size or her pussy tightness or boob size doesent enter in to any of the equation. Ive seen some women with boob jobs and they looked awful.

BIG FAKE DDD bOObs and a tiny waist make me happy! My girl is DDD and a size O

 

[halcyondays]

No wonder why all the women are lining up for Donald Trump.

Not all women, no, but let's take a look at Mr. Trump. Whether or not you like his personality and politics (I sure don't):

He's been married to one actress and two supermodels--successful and wealthy women in their own right, but not as wealthy as he.
He's had children with each.
He's been a ladies' man since he was in military boarding school.
He was born to wealth and increased that wealth.
He won 53% of the white female vote in the general election.
Many who interview him say he's quite charming in private--the complete opposite of his abrasive public persona.

He's another data point which proves the principle of hypergamy: wealth attracts women of lower means.

Tell me rtg: would you marry or have the children of a poor man just because he has a great personality?

Speaking for all women you say women just want a great guy. Define that for all women.

 

[TexanStar]

Tell me rtg: would you marry or have the children of a poor man just because he has a great personality?

You'd have to draw a distinction between poor and unemployed.

There's a world of difference between someone who's working but struggling to earn a good living at it -vs- someone who's out of work completely. For those out of work, you'd have to break that out between those who are jobless in the short term (between jobs), and those who've been jobless long term.

If your point is just to say that generally speaking male income is of greater consideration to women than a woman's income is to men, that's a fair statement and would be hard to argue against the statistics.

 

[KennF]

Tell me rtg: would you marry or have the children of a poor man just because he has a great personality?

Reminds me of a line from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: "Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn't marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness, doesn't it help?"

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

Not all women, no, but let's take a look at Mr. Trump. Whether or not you like his personality and politics (I sure don't):

He's been married to one actress and two supermodels--successful and wealthy women in their own right, but not as wealthy as he.
He's had children with each.
He's been a ladies' man since he was in military boarding school.
He was born to wealth and increased that wealth.
He won 53% of the white female vote in the general election.
Many who interview him say he's quite charming in private--the complete opposite of his abrasive public persona.

He's another data point which proves the principle of hypergamy: wealth attracts women of lower means.

Tell me rtg: would you marry or have the children of a poor man just because he has a great personality?

Speaking for all women you say women just want a great guy. Define that for all women.

Just stop it! Next you will be trying to tell me the earth is round and revolves around the sun!!!

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Reminds me of a line from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: "Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn't marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness, doesn't it help?"

Reminds me of the quote, "You can't find happiness with money, but it sure helps you look in more places."

 

[halcyondays]

Reminds me of a line from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: "Don't you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn't marry a girl just because she's pretty, but my goodness, doesn't it help?"

lol... There's a university study which backs this up.

When asked to rank a list of characteristics of a potential male mate, 65% of women ranked how much money a man has as number one. That means 35% of women ranked something other than money as number one but over 80% of those 35% ranked how much money a man has as number two.

When asked to rank the same list of characteristics for a potential female mate, 85% of men ranked how good looking a woman is as number one. That means 15% of men ranked something other than good looks as number one, but over 80% of those 15% ranked how good looking a woman is as number two.

Wealthy men. Beautiful women. Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend and Gentlemen Prefer Blonds satirized us for being this way.

Other characteristics in the list included personality, sense of humor, intellect, education, athleticism and common interests.

Given these results is it any surprise we have a multi-billion dollar beauty industry for women? Hair, cosmetics, clothes and shoes--even cosmetic surgery--are the result of the competition between women for men.

Given these results is it any surprise we have a glass ceiling for men at the top of the professional world? This the result of the competition between men for women. So is unequal pay.

Remember that science does not make moral or ethical judgements about men and women for being this way. Nor does science judge society for profiting from or perpetuating these behaviors. Nor does science say where you as individual fit in this study. Surveys are population studies. You, dear reader, are a population of one. You might be a statistical outlier, but I doubt it.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

What if you really liked someone but her vagina was too tight or too loose? Would you dump her? Would you cheat? Would you constantly be looking for "the perfect fit"? Does she get insecure that you'll do those things because her vagina isn't perfect?

If the answer is no to these things... then have a good think about that. I'm talking to the men who believe that dick size is the be all and end all... turn those questions around to be about women and their thoughts on their partners dick. Can you see that the door swings both ways and that women don't care about cock size as much as men do? It's been pointed out so many times before (especially recently) that even size queens don't select a man purely based on his dick.

TOO tight or loose implies that it cannot be accepted. Looser of tighter than ideal may work better for this analogy.

Yep. I get it. You have to sort through a lot of facts and opinions and be able to gauge who to listen too, but after that, most would agree with your position. It doesn't matter very much.

It really comes down to accepting one's self more than anything.

I feel pretty good about it all, but who knows how I would answer if I actually had a small wang.

 

[rtg]

Not all women, no, but let's take a look at Mr. Trump. Whether or not you like his personality and politics (I sure don't):

He's been married to one actress and two supermodels--successful and wealthy women in their own right, but not as wealthy as he.
He's had children with each.
He's been a ladies' man since he was in military boarding school.
He was born to wealth and increased that wealth.
He won 53% of the white female vote in the general election.
Many who interview him say he's quite charming in private--the complete opposite of his abrasive public persona.

He's another data point which proves the principle of hypergamy: wealth attracts women of lower means.

Tell me rtg: would you marry or have the children of a poor man just because he has a great personality?

Speaking for all women you say women just want a great guy. Define that for all women.

Just because some women may be gold diggers or may even find him attractive because of his power or whatnot, this does not mean that all or even the majority of women do. I stand by my initial statement that he does not appeal to me at all. I prefer the quiet achiever types and don't care for status.

And in response to your question, yes I would marry or bear children with a "poor" man. But as has been pointed out, there is a difference between a poor man and a bum. I would not have a relationship with a man who did not want to work, merely because that does not match up with my own work ethic and values. The love of my life does not have a career and just flits through life doing whatever he pleases but does earn money. I would not consider him wealthy and he would not be able to support me and a family. However, I have a successful career and earn good money and I would be happy to be the breadwinner if it meant that I got to have him in my life, and he was mine. My career is important to me and I'd be happy to work while he stayed at home and took care of the kids. Because I love him for him and not his status or money (or lack thereof).

This is the 21st century, we are not stuck in the 1950s.

 

[Jckd_co]

Douchey moment: I make some decent money, work in an intellectual field, in a leadership position. If I may say, have a pretty good body, have modeled before (ok, some of it was porn, which is not reaaaaal modeling), have a, at the very least, large penis (which men seem to be convinced that it's the most important attribute), consider myself to be very sexually competent (subjective, so there's a big risk I'm lying here).
When I met my wife,I was not working, coz I didn't fucking want to (early mid life crisis, decided to go get another degree). The only thing I led was my ass from the couch to school or a hike or something. She couldn't see me (no details why, sorry lol), so my body counted for nothing. She did not inspect my cock until a good 4 or 5 dates and most definitely hadn't fucked me until then, so dick size and sexual prowess were pretty irrelevant. I dressed (and still do) like a fucking slob (I've been described as sporting the "homeless look") unless I absolutely have to for professional reasons. The car I drove when we met was 12 years old. Little reliable Japanese car. What I drive today is the car we bought together in 2011, when it was new.

Anyway, all that to make this point: before all the shallow bullshit some men here think women want, she wanted to be with me and I wanted to be with her.

Sure, it's anecdotal. But on top of my anecdote, there are several females here stating the same irrelevance of money or dick size, yet some male folks insist in educating us what is important to all (or most?) Women.

If you're hunting for random pussy, sure, get a loan or a lease to get that brand new beamer and find some pussy that happens to be attracted to that. But these generalizations that women definitely want a big dick,a guy with money,a cool car or whatever you're telling yourself are, aside from misogynistic, ignorant.

 

[941691]

What if you really liked someone but her vagina was too tight or too loose? Would you dump her? Would you cheat? Would you constantly be looking for "the perfect fit"? Does she get insecure that you'll do those things because her vagina isn't perfect?

If the answer is no to these things... then have a good think about that. I'm talking to the men who believe that dick size is the be all and end all... turn those questions around to be about women and their thoughts on their partners dick. Can you see that the door swings both ways and that women don't care about cock size as much as men do? It's been pointed out so many times before (especially recently) that even size queens don't select a man purely based on his dick.

I have a penis size on the smaller end of average. Sexual compatibility is important to me but if I had a woman who was too lose and I loved her I wouldn't see it as a reason to dump her or step out on her. Of course there is a more to relationships than just sex.

 

[halcyondays]

My career is important to me and I'd be happy to work while he stayed at home and took care of the kids.

That's right out of the 1950s!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

For me, bigger is too painful. I'd rather have painless sex.

 

[sizehungry]

Size in men definitely matters for me , and yes , i have been with women , both tight , and loose , and yes (again ) , there have been occasional extremes . One was too tight for me to get into , and a few others have very large indeed . What is important , is that when we find a potential partner with whom we feel that there is no sexual future , we do our best to be tactful , and considerate of that persons feelings as we extricate ourselves from what could well become a nightmare of insecurity and mistrust . We are all as we were born , and none of has the right to destroy another's sense of self worth . Sexual satisfaction can be one hell of a minefield .

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Everything I'm reading here points to *acceptable levels* of the various attributes a person may possess. Few of us want a bum, or a hag, or a total douche, no matter what other positive attributes they display. The uber-rich guy who sucks in bed will still be rejected by many women, but will find happiness with the woman who isn't into sex anyway. The total stud with the personality of rock will land a woman who doesn't need a lot of personal interaction...or who is also lacking in personality. Car salesmen have a phrase for this: "there's an ass for every seat", and it's very true.

There's a lot of focus on these extremes of attributes, but the vast majority of people fall well within the bell curve...we are decent looking, have average sexual prowess and genitalia, make pretty good money and get along with most people.

 

[TexanStar]

Everything I'm reading here points to *acceptable levels* of the various attributes a person may possess. Few of us want a bum, or a hag, or a total douche, no matter what other positive attributes they display. The uber-rich guy who sucks in bed will still be rejected by many women, but will find happiness with the woman who isn't into sex anyway. The total stud with the personality of rock will land a woman who doesn't need a lot of personal interaction...or who is also lacking in personality. Car salesmen have a phrase for this: "there's an ass for every seat", and it's very true.

There's a lot of focus on these extremes of attributes, but the vast majority of people fall well within the bell curve...we are decent looking, have average sexual prowess and genitalia, make pretty good money and get along with most people.

I feel like there is some gap between the percentage of women who want a long term monogamous relationship and the percentage of men who do.

I'm not saying "all men are dogs" or anything like that, I just feel like it's a numbers game and while there is likely a woman for every man, there is not likely a man for every woman (here in the USA)

 

[286798]

I feel like there is some gap between the percentage of women who want a long term monogamous relationship and the percentage of men who do.

I'm not saying "all men are dogs" or anything like that, I just feel like it's a numbers game and while there is likely a woman for every man, there is not likely a man for every woman (here in the USA)

I think that may be because there is gender inequality when it comes to sexuality. A man can sleep around because "he has needs" but if a woman does, she's a slut. We are conditioned to think we (women) must be in a monogamous relationship in order for it to be "ok" to have sex. I just wish embrace what they wanna do and everyone else would mind their own bizness.

 

[soren10]

I think that may be because there is gender inequality when it comes to sexuality. A man can sleep around because "he has needs" but if a woman does, she's a slut. We are conditioned to think we (women) must be in a monogamous relationship in order for it to be "ok" to have sex. I just wish embrace what they wanna do and everyone else would mind their own bizness.

well it's a matter of choice , people can do whatever they want, but there are some men that don't want to date and or settle down with a girl who is the " village bicycle ". also there are women who don't want to date and settle down with the " playa " kind of guys.. all i'm saying is that we as people can do whatever we want , but sometimes our actions have consequences. i'll speak as a man and share my opinion, a girl that is the village bicycle should realize that she can't expect a guy that dislikes this kind of girls to fall in love with her, as said sometimes our actions have consequences. so i guess we have to keep in mind the " long run " before we make any move and lifestyle choice. just saying.

 

[TexanStar]

well it's a matter of choice , people can do whatever they want, but there are some men that don't want to date and or settle down with a girl who is the " village bicycle ". also there are women who don't want to date and settle down with the " playa " kind of guys.. all i'm saying is that we as people can do whatever we want , but sometimes our actions have consequences. i'll speak as a man and share my opinion, a girl that is the village bicycle should realize that she can't expect a guy that dislikes this kind of girls to fall in love with her, as said sometimes our actions have consequences. so i guess we have to keep in mind the " long run " before we make any move and lifestyle choice. just saying.

Setting aside the bias you convey by referring to a woman who's slept with a lot of men as "the village bicycle", that's not some huge obstacle when deciding to settle down. For every guy who's bothered by that, there's one or more who don't care. There's a poll somewhere in ask a straight man and most guys responded that they don't care. If you care, that's totally fine, you're entitled to your own opinion, but not everyone thinks like you.

You are making @lurker23 's case though... that some women might not feel the freedom to have sex outside of committed relationships because of pressure from certain people in society that they'll ruin their prospects if they do this.

 

[soren10]

Setting aside the bias you convey by referring to a woman who's slept with a lot of men as "the village bicycle", that's not some huge obstacle when deciding to settle down. For every guy who's bothered by that, there's one or more who don't care. There's a poll somewhere in ask a straight man and most guys responded that they don't care. If you care, that's totally fine, you're entitled to your own opinion, but not everyone thinks like you.

i searched for a term and urban dictionary gave me this one.. i wasn't aware of it to this day.. also i never claimed to be the representative of men, i only speak my mind. also it would be hard to ignore the fact that a woman had sex with many guys, but not impossible, love can makes us change our minds about some things..