What would you do if your partner told you they were bored with sex?

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use your imagination

-dress up, go on a formal date that ends with "date style" sex
-go do some physical activity together that preferably ends in a hotel room/tent/cabin/sleeping bag
-go to a sex shop together
-watch some tutorials from Kink University together (or alone and surprise your partner)
-work out together, exercise gets most people horny. shower together.
-be more aggressive and dominating in bed. have you spanked her yet?
-let your partner be the dominant one in bed. you may be surprised at what this brings out of the shyest people
-tie your partner up, or have them tie you up
-have sex (or just be naughty) someplace risky like an elevator or doorway or park bench
-each of you pick out some porn and watch it together (this might give you some clues about what your partner wants)
-send risque texts to each other, especially when you know they're in a meeting, at their parents, etc
-titillate your partner and then leave them wanting more (so many ways to do this)

Most people are pretty uninspired in bed, but it's not a terminal condition

My oh my little Ms nailz, you have such a large imagination you do.

All the better to...

This is what we talkin about, don't sympathize, go to the extra ordinary Evolve.

Thanku nailz

I do stuff all the time, sometimes it may be a little lopsided, but she soon becomes aware when the scales tip

My fav is out of the blue, place a number of objects on the bed, those relating to romance, flowers, champagne etc...for sexual...vibrators large, small in between, etc Imagination in any part. Hence, place a whip Watch and learn. it's a case of bare your butt. If she don't like it. She is not for you.

If you fuck up. Well, you fuck up. we are hooman.

 

[moparmike]

@AlteredEgo
Weeping for your pain. I experienced the flip side of some of that in 2007. We were able to fix most of ours, but it was almost lost. 9 years later, it is never mentioned, but the pain is still real. I love my wife. She just rarely wants sex, even though we both climax, she multiple times. I could literally go 4 or 5 times a day, she wants it once a month or 2. We are best friends, but i do sometimes seek FWB release as a result. I hope your pain is comforted. Thank you for sharing your heart. I will tell you what a friend told me. She said that i cannot control my wifes desires no matter what i do, but that is not my fault. I cannot help what i was born with any more then i can naturally change my height or color. Just be the best you can be and move forward as best I can. She was here for me until she moved. We enjoyed each others "company" when possible. I know you will find someone who will be as wonderful to you as you onviously are. All the best and thank you for baring your soul. Bless you.

 

[AlteredEgo]

@AlteredEgo
Weeping for your pain. I experienced the flip side of some of that in 2007. We were able to fix most of ours, but it was almost lost. 9 years later, it is never mentioned, but the pain is still real. I love my wife. She just rarely wants sex, even though we both climax, she multiple times. I could literally go 4 or 5 times a day, she wants it once a month or 2. We are best friends, but i do sometimes seek FWB release as a result. I hope your pain is comforted. Thank you for sharing your heart. I will tell you what a friend told me. She said that i cannot control my wifes desires no matter what i do, but that is not my fault. I cannot help what i was born with any more then i can naturally change my height or color. Just be the best you can be and move forward as best I can. She was here for me until she moved. We enjoyed each others "company" when possible. I know you will find someone who will be as wonderful to you as you onviously are. All the best and thank you for baring your soul. Bless you.

Thank you for sharing in return. I'm glad you've found a sort of peace, and sources of comfort. I am optimistic for myself. I am moving forward as best I can with someone new.

 

[moparmike]

I hope he is as good to you as you deserve. I am still looking for a trustworthy FWB. Found my last one here on this site. She hasnt been back on here for a couple years, but moved away.