What would you do if your partner continually looks at naked pictures of the oposite sex yet doesn't ever look at you naked, dressing or undressing and only touches you to hug or kiss you? Lots of affectin is there but nothing else. I'm going crazy wanting to make love to him but nothing. We did make love a few weeks ago but nothing now. I feel like sh*t, like he doesn't want me even though he says different. His actions just don't show it. My self esteem is at an all time low. It doesn't matter how many times I tell him it bothers me, he just continues to download them onto his memory stick and onto the computer. Some of the pics are very graphic and I don't want the kids to find them. What do I do?