Right, I need somewhere to let off some steam so please give me some honest advice guys, I need it from people I dont know! If your partner was currently out at a pub (in the middle of no-where) with his x and a few mutual friends, then went back to stay at his place (drunk), how would you feel? Ill add that this isnt the first time, and this only occurs mid-week when Ive to be in work at 8am the next day, 40 miles away. Oh, can I further add that his ex recently told him he is still in love with him. Christ my head is spinning cause of this. Ive been seeing the lad for 8 months now and we just got back together, after I couldnt decide if I wanted the relationship or not (thats the short version). Now he will always be a very special mate, and ill always be there for him to talk to etc, but Im getting the feeling that im going to have to end it for good this time. I hate thinking about it but at the end of the day Ive said to him before its not on, but he just doesnt consider how it makes me feel! To be fair the relationship has gone sour over the last few months, I used to really love him and wanted to do everything with him, but now I just dont get that same feeling I used to, and this whole thing really isnt helping. Advice?