A guy who is 22 and has had four sexual partners? Would you think that is too much? Too little? Average? Ideal? Not ideal? Don't care?
Kind of a selfish question, but this has been bothering the fuck out of me lately and I'm curious what the women on the board think.
And while I realize guys can answer this too, I don't care too much for their perspective hence why I posted in this section. Feel free to contribute if you want though.
You're fine. I'd say it's ideal, and average.
I have some girl friends that by the time they were your age, they were off in their 20's. Actually...that was when they were younger, even. So around twenty years old they were already there...
For me, personally, that was way overboard.
It just depends on who you are sexually, though.
The amount of people my partner has slept with would only concern me if they weren't getting regularly checked, and if the number was way high...I might ask them to come get tested with me before we decided to be physical with one another.
This is why it's so dangerous to lie about how many partners you've had, and to lie about getting tested. My girl friends would always lower the number when they told their boyfriends, and they also weren't getting checked. I was still a virgin at the time, and I was begging them to go get blood work because it was irresponsible, dangerous, and flat out gross.
I finally convinced them that they should both go together (we were all best friends at the time), and eventually they did. Luckily for them they were fine, and now they both go regularly.