Heh. Quote from a drag review, in the early '80s:
"This dress is like a cheap hotel: no ball room...."
Panties aren't my thing. I've never had an itch to wear 'em, and being Bi, if I want femininity in a partner (which is usually the case,) I'd prefer to go all the way and be with a woman. (I can't say much regarding transgendered partners, as I've never had one. If I ever do, I'll get back to you all with updates as necessary.) That said, I've nothing against a man wearing panties. To each their own. If they're comfortable, enjoy them.