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It's no secret that tons of jerks have swarmed this place and it makes many of you here and anyone else with a healthy aversion to toxic behavior want to post less. A popular retort to this are replies like, "but you're on a big dick forum, why else are you here?" which carry implications that anyone who doesn't like their style of casting couch/creepy truckstop sex talk should leave.
This is interesting to me because the people saying it seem to care enough about women's perspective to not want that to happen (or they're...y'know... one of the incels here trying to will into existence a dead end subjectivities...but sometimes there's still enough civility that makes you want to give some users the benefit of the doubt), and the fact that several women users still post here of course speaks to a desire to keep using this forum as a sexual outlet of some sort (which I would think is obv the point of a forum like this)?
So I was hoping to use this thread to curate perspectives on topics, style of communication and a culture you might want to see here as opposed to the current one. Since LPSG has become increasingly sex negative, it doesn't take a genius to deduce that a more sex positive environment might be expected. How would that be for you? What attitudes do you wish more users in discussions here had? Questions you were asked? Standards expected of you and anyone you would be interested in talking to on a forum like this? What do you wish the vibe of this forum was like? Wants, expectations? etc.
TLDR: Didn't notice a thread like this yet, so wanted to make one for anyone here who felt like talking about what this site initially meant to them to make them post here, what they prefer it was like vs how it is now, and anything else you feel would make it less unsexy/uncomfortable for you
This is interesting to me because the people saying it seem to care enough about women's perspective to not want that to happen (or they're...y'know... one of the incels here trying to will into existence a dead end subjectivities...but sometimes there's still enough civility that makes you want to give some users the benefit of the doubt), and the fact that several women users still post here of course speaks to a desire to keep using this forum as a sexual outlet of some sort (which I would think is obv the point of a forum like this)?
So I was hoping to use this thread to curate perspectives on topics, style of communication and a culture you might want to see here as opposed to the current one. Since LPSG has become increasingly sex negative, it doesn't take a genius to deduce that a more sex positive environment might be expected. How would that be for you? What attitudes do you wish more users in discussions here had? Questions you were asked? Standards expected of you and anyone you would be interested in talking to on a forum like this? What do you wish the vibe of this forum was like? Wants, expectations? etc.
TLDR: Didn't notice a thread like this yet, so wanted to make one for anyone here who felt like talking about what this site initially meant to them to make them post here, what they prefer it was like vs how it is now, and anything else you feel would make it less unsexy/uncomfortable for you