Ballsoplenty, I'm 100% in your corner. I didn't put up pics because I don't show and I don't care to know. I came here looking at LPSG as a support group, because hell, that's what I thought it was. I now realize it's a mixture of things, and my least favorite part is the showing off.
I'd rather relate my trials, tribulations and triumphs. I never called myself big to begin with - somebody else did. I just believed them because I really don't care to compare. My size has actually hurt my social life quite a bit while in high school. And then when I realized that my difference was desirable I went on a rampage and used it without regard. Now that life has settled down I still know I'm big, but I don't give a damn so much.
Still it's good to hear from folks going through similar episodes in life, and it's just kind of comfortable to be with guys to whom I'm not a freak. Don't know if that sounds right, but there it is. On this site I'm not big. I like that.
So basically you're big if somebody says you're big. I don't think you can classify yourself. Those tables and charts don't mean a whole lot but if it makes some guys happy that's cool.
Anyway, in my life I have one person to please and she always says it's not the size that counts, but as long as I've got it well, that's ok, too.