So I have been after this guy for months - he's really sweet - and a big chicken! I really think he's the one for me - forever. Well, I finally got into his pants, and he's awfully small. I mean, maybe he's average, but he's quite a bit smaller than the other men I've been with. He's somewhere between 4-5" I think, with nice girth. We didn't actually sleep together yet, just did other stuff, but I'm worried. I don't mean to sound ridiculous here, because he is really wonderful other ways. But I'm just wondering if I could live with this "shortcoming" forever if things do, in fact, progress in that direction. I mean, I could definitely love him, I think I do already. I just don't want to live with sexual frustration for either of us - for the long term. I don't want to make him feel inferior in any way, and I don't want to lust after other men. But will I eventually? Maybe once I do sleep with him, it will be fine. But I can't help but worry, because I do love a man in the 7-8" range.