The very best illustration I can give is one from my own life. Many years ago I had my personal "requirements" for people I dated. I was very attracted to bodybuilders and I mean really big ones. I was very successful at getting what I wanted and I had many dating relationships with men of this description or type.
I also for a time had a rather extreme size fetish in that when plowing a bottom I loved the feeling of a really huge hard cock between my belly and his. The bigger and the harder the better, AND, if I could, by thrusting, and rubbing belly to dick in the right way "get him off" from the anal intercourse, it was nirvana.
I had many men that would have been classified as centerfold material. There was something missing that never seemed to be complete. What was missing as I later learned, was that I was in love with physical characteristics and not in love with the person.
Over a decade ago, in a total fluke, I met a 6'5" tall hairy cowboy type from Eastern New Mexico. He had only a few physical characteristics that would have normally fit into my "type". There were no 20" biceps, no monster pecs, and the butt was a little softer and smaller than I was used to.
The one difference was that by the time I got to him I did not rate sex as the first consideration in my mind. I wanted a partner, lover, and soul mate for life. I can look back at an assortment of men, some of whom had in fact modeled for Rip Colt, and I look at my life partner of well over a decade now. I married the one I was in love with as a human being, not the one that I was in love with in bedroom sports.
Bedroom sports are part of a relationship, but, when one weighs life against bedroom sports, it is life that we have to survive and endure. Bedroom sports are a learned behavior. Based on feminine construction it may take him some time to learn you as a sex partner, but if he is even at the low end of the normal end of the size range he is capable of brining you to a full orgasm. The other thing about your smaller friend is that as he ages he is less likely to suffer from E.D. barring injury or accident.
Make the relationship with the one you love as a person, and the sex will take care of itself.
Good Luck
I also for a time had a rather extreme size fetish in that when plowing a bottom I loved the feeling of a really huge hard cock between my belly and his. The bigger and the harder the better, AND, if I could, by thrusting, and rubbing belly to dick in the right way "get him off" from the anal intercourse, it was nirvana.
I had many men that would have been classified as centerfold material. There was something missing that never seemed to be complete. What was missing as I later learned, was that I was in love with physical characteristics and not in love with the person.
Over a decade ago, in a total fluke, I met a 6'5" tall hairy cowboy type from Eastern New Mexico. He had only a few physical characteristics that would have normally fit into my "type". There were no 20" biceps, no monster pecs, and the butt was a little softer and smaller than I was used to.
The one difference was that by the time I got to him I did not rate sex as the first consideration in my mind. I wanted a partner, lover, and soul mate for life. I can look back at an assortment of men, some of whom had in fact modeled for Rip Colt, and I look at my life partner of well over a decade now. I married the one I was in love with as a human being, not the one that I was in love with in bedroom sports.
Bedroom sports are part of a relationship, but, when one weighs life against bedroom sports, it is life that we have to survive and endure. Bedroom sports are a learned behavior. Based on feminine construction it may take him some time to learn you as a sex partner, but if he is even at the low end of the normal end of the size range he is capable of brining you to a full orgasm. The other thing about your smaller friend is that as he ages he is less likely to suffer from E.D. barring injury or accident.
Make the relationship with the one you love as a person, and the sex will take care of itself.
Good Luck