What's a girl to do?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by silverqn, Mar 1, 2006.

  1. silverqn

    silverqn New Member

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    Hi Peeps!
    I have a problem with a new lover.
    We've only had sex twice and both times, same thing!

    He is hung huge and I so dig it I could prolly go for a few days no problem.
    But he can't,, he's a once and done.

    I've not been able to get him to go more than one round!
    Oh, we tried
    Which leaves me starving for more.
    He's got me so countinuously wet, no lube is nessasary.
    Is it his age? he is 47
    How old are men when that starts to become an issue?

    What's a girl to do?
    :mad:
     
  2. lifewillkillyou

    lifewillkillyou New Member

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    Sounds like he just needs to do his exersises to me. If he really gets good at it, he'll be able to keep it at it's hardest for along time with out a cockring. Good luck.

    This should have also be posted in womens issues or healthy penis.
     
  3. RideRocket

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    Some things in life are inevitable - death, taxes, and being a one-hit wonder in the bedroom...

    Maybe before actually having intercourse, he should bring you to orgasm via fingering or oral sex. You could also introduce some toys into the mix. That way you get your urges satisfied as well.

    I was going to suggest going to a doctor for some viagra, etc. but if he's getting an erection already, chances are he won't get a prescription.

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    or you could always come see me afterwards...:smile:
     
  4. Love-it

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    Is he physically tired or mentally exhausted? There are a lot of things that could be affecting his recovery period.
     
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    In his formative years he probably acclimated his body to a single ejaculation when he masturbated. He's not got anything wrong, he's just doing what comes naturally to him: his brain is just used to telling his penis that it's over until the next time.

    In order to change that, you're going to have to get him to agree to unlearn it. It can be done if you both are willing to work at it.

    One method would be a short wait after he ejaculates, then fellatio. It will take patience - remember that he is unlearning an old habit - but you'll agree it will be worth it.
     
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    How is his health otherwise? Is he fit? Is he on any medications? Does he have high blood pressure? Those are factors that can affect performance, including refractory time.

    As far as getting something like Viagra, Levitra, Cialis etc. while that may assist in shortening his recovery time he should be in good health before taking them.

    With the easy availability of Internet pharmacies that are only too happy to have you pay to fill out a questionnaire from a "doctor" before they issue and fill your prescription, he doesn't have to see his warm-ware physician about it. However, he shouldn't take it unless he knows he's not at risk, taking contra-indicated drugs, etc.

    OTOH, if he gets hard, can go a reasonable amount of time and gets you off, there's an old Broadway saying, "Always leave 'em wanting more."
     
  7. D_Elijah_MorganWood

    D_Elijah_MorganWood New Member

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    I've done an informal poll with my friends and most of them don't go for round two. Many are surprised when I tell them I do. You got great suggestions, I can't add a thing.
     
  8. mintjulep

    mintjulep New Member

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    If he's new boyfriend and you've only been together twice, maybe he just needs to get to know you better.

    I don't know that there is a certain age things change sexually. Obviously the body changes and the hormones deplete, can't stop most from happening. We're not really into the viagra etc. Not sure what long term or health repercussions of those drugs are.

    Try some different locations, or watch a bit of porno together, get some warm oil and rub the cum off, and keep rubbing. Keep the environment scintillating. My 50s+ husband really surprised me recently by cumming twice in a matter of an hour or so. I just kept my attention on him and his tasteful penis after he came the first time, and while watching some porno he couldn't hold it down!

    Is your lover an adventurer?
     
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