What's better? Anal or Vaginal Sex?

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I'm a gay male, so I've never yet nor do I ever intent to have sex with a girl.

But I've been curious what you guys that have done both think about this.

What feels better?

Anal Sex?
Does it feel one way when done with a dude?
Is it any different when done with a female?

Vaginal Sex?
Of course this can only be done with a female.
 

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I'm a gay male, so I've never yet nor do I ever intent to have sex with a girl.

But I've been curious what you guys that have done both think about this.

What feels better?

Anal Sex?
Does it feel one way when done with a dude?
Is it any different when done with a female?

Vaginal Sex?
Of course this can only be done with a female.

They both feel good... and for different reasons.

In my opinion, Vaginal sex is better because your cock is fully surrounded snuggly.

Anal sex with a chick is good, lots of friction... but only snug on about an inch or so of your cock.

Anal sex with a guy is also good... the friction is there, but in my experiences men tend to be more relaxed and there-for not as snug.
 

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Sex, as defined by the Pope, Bill Clinton and Charles Darwin, only occurs when the male of the species delivers viable sperm to a female of the same species' fertile sexual organ. Everything else is fun and games.:cool:
 

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It depends on the experience of your partner. Anal actually feels better to me_drives me crazy.
 

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The pussy is self lubricating and gets very heated up and swells during intercourse, not so with anal sex. But sometimes a pussy can open too much and it feels like your cock is just sloshing around, where as with anal the degree of tightness is generaly the same.

As long as my cock has somewhere to go...I'm happy, but pussy first for me.
 

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You are really cheating yourself if you have never had vaginal. Not from a prostitute either. Get a female friend or some other woman you can rust to help you. Some women like the challenge of turning a gay male straight. If she is at all into it when you get it, you will be more confused than you are now. Women are awesome.
 

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You are really cheating yourself if you have never had vaginal. Not from a prostitute either. Get a female friend or some other woman you can trust to help you. Some women like the challenge of turning a gay male straight. If she is at all into it when you get it, you will be more confused than you are now. Women are awesome.
Uhm, the OP is gay, that means though he may be curious about some aspects of hetero sex he does not have an actual desire to have sex with a woman. Any woman that likes the challenge of turning a gay man straight is emotionally unstable and should be avoided at all costs.


Both are great, but I think vaginal feels slightly better.
If both are so great why are you listed as 90% gay? :confused:


I'm a gay male, so I've never yet nor do I ever intent to have sex with a girl.
Thank God! Finally a gay male who isn't wavering on some silly spectrum. :cool: B
ut I've been curious what you guys that have done both think about this. What feels better?

Anal Sex: Does it feel one way when done with a dude?
Is it any different when done with a female?
I'm curious about this as well. I know men like to have their prostate massaged, but women don't have a prostate. I LOVE anal sex so I'm not sure how it differs for a man who has done both. Can the fucker feel the prostate during the act?

Vaginal Sex: Of course this can only be done with a female.
As a female who has done both vaginal and anal sex, I have to say I prefer vaginal. :wink:
 

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As far as pure sensation - Vaginal by far. I've had both and there is nothing like a tight hot wet pussy. It was made for fucking and made to feel good - self lubricating, warm and completely surrounds your cock. Always reached orgasm by it - not so with an ass. Some guys have better feeling asses than others but none come close to pussy. It's just that pussy doesn't get me off mentally...unfortunately cuz it feels so damn good otherwise.
 
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Tried both and definitely vagina sex for me because it 's feel so much more natural with a woman. Self lubrication from a woman feels much better than a synthetic lubrication even using lube like Gun Oil.
 

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Sex, as defined by the Pope, Bill Clinton and Charles Darwin, only occurs when the male of the species delivers viable sperm to a female of the same species' fertile sexual organ. Everything else is fun and games.:cool:

I didn't ask for a definition of sex, but thanks. I think anytime a part of my body goes inside someone else's body, or a part of someone else's body goes inside of my body that it counts as sex, no matter if it's via oral or anal sex, I only mention these two, since I haven't ever participated in vaginal sex and don't intend to.

With your definition this means that there is no such thing as gay sex, and there most definatly is.

The definition of sex can not be made this simple.

Uhm, the OP is gay, that means though he may be curious about some aspects of hetero sex he does not have an actual desire to have sex with a woman. Any woman that likes the challenge of turning a gay man straight is emotionally unstable and should be avoided at all costs.

If both are so great why are you listed as 90% gay? :confused:

Yea I wondered that to. Why is he 90% gay and telling me that I should have sex with a woman. I mean there really is no point in doing something that makes me want to vomit in my mind, and I know if I ever did do it I would have to be so drunk that I wouldn't enjoy it at all.

Thank God! Finally a gay male who isn't wavering on some silly spectrum. :cool: But I've been curious what you guys that have done both think about this. What feels better?

Yea I've never really had a spectrum I don't think, I've just never been sexually interested in girls. I mean I think they can be beautiful at times, but that doesn't mean that I have ever thought of them in a sexual way at all which I have not. I mean I went to prom with a girl four times (same girl) but it never even crossed my mind to kiss/hug/touch her in a sexual way. I'm' surprised that she didn't tell me that I was gay and she was super shocked when she found out that I was.

I'm curious about this as well. I know men like to have their prostate massaged, but women don't have a prostate. I LOVE anal sex so I'm not sure how it differs for a man who has done both. Can the fucker feel the prostate during the act?


I have topped and bottomed, I definatly get more pleasure from bottoming, but I could never be an exclusive bottom as sometimes I like to top and feel what its like to partake in the more dominate role.

Back to the question:

When I top no I can't feel the prostate during the act, you just feel the tightness and other sensations and see the expressions on the face of your partner and can see how my pleasure they are having and how they are enjoying what you are doing to their internals.

When I bottom, I can't necessarily know exactly when there touching my prostate, but I can definatly feel when they are close to it. As when this gets rubbed internally that gives a sensation that I'm going to be able to cum without touching my cock. Once I totally shot without touching it it was so hot made me feel like i'd lost all control, and he liked how he thought it empowered him. On one other occasion A guy was touching it and it made me precum alot, but he didn't touch it enough to make it actually shoot, it just dribbled out ALOT.
 

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The old line is still on target: DON'T KNOCK IT IF YOU HAVEN'T GIVEN IT A TRY! You may find that you aren't as "gay" or as "straight" and you imagined yourself to be.