whats considered big

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    HI there. I was wondewring whats considered a big dick. Im 4.5 soft and 7x5 hard
     
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    You would be considered big (but not huge).
     
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    From what I gathered thanks to this site is anything 7 and above is considered large or big so youre there bubba
     
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    this is always a good debate, what makes you big is the girl or guy you are with, I am 7x6, but that doesnt make me big when my gf's last bf was 9" long, most girls will call you average, not big, nice, but not big
     
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    Big is -- above average. Average usually stated about 5" - 6" or so.
     
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    No, at that size, most normal girls will call you big or huge. Size queens exempt, and most are NOT size queens.

    7" in length is on the upper end of above average, and the lowest end of hung. That is why "they" always say 7" or better. (even though 6" is plenty big for most)

    6" in girth is way above average. Unless you are dealing with a size queen, you will be considered really thick. Let me put it this way. I dont want to be 6" in girth. To me, that is already too thick. I dont want to go past 5.5" or maybe 5.75" on a really good day. But that is just me.
     
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    stop kidding ourselves. big is 8 or more, anything less is average to most women. less than 6 is small.
     
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    Well, I guess the word "Big" is subjective. Maybe where you are from, the law of averages does not appy and everyone is so big that 7" is the average.

    And the only thing I could ask is how you base that opinion. Did you hear that from women themselves? And if you did, I should add, if they ALL did not take out a tape measure for every occassion, according to some threads here, women tend not to be the most accurate at guesstimating sizes. They tend to be generous and exaggerate.

    7" seems to be average on this site. This site does not reflect the world.
     
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    What Wish-4-8 said is correct.

    Most people male or female can't even really visually tell the difference between 7 and 8"... let alone 8-9". Even if the measuring device is there they can't always tell the true size. People generally think something is bigger or smaller than it really is.

    By your reasoning 6" or less is small and 8" or more is big? So what, you can only be average if you are 7"? I don't see how that makes any sense. :confused:
     
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    • If you can easily tie you cock in a knot and it stays that way when your flaccid, you're big.
    • If others can easily see your dick hang down past your balls when looking at you from behind at your ass, you're probably big.
    • If you have to hold your dick in such a way as to keep if from getting wet in the toilet while you take a shit, you're probably reasonably large.
    • If you have a hard time finding loose and long boxers, or have to adjust yourself by doubling your cock inside your shorts, you're reasonably large.
    • If everyone stares at your dick because it's larger than anyone else's in the gym or public shower, you're definitely packing something reasonably big.
    • If you've only been able to get half the entire length of your erection inside a vagina or up some guy's ass, you've definitely got a clown-sized penis.
    • But if you're so concerned that you have to measure and then defend the size of your penis by regaling that it is so many inches/centimeters long by so many inches/centimeters in circumference -- you're simply a loser.
     
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    Wish-4-8, you live in LA too, you aught to know what i am talkin about, a 7 inch cock is average to most women, i have been with black girls that have turned down big cocks, and that means my cock wasnt big, just average, i am working on that though, hopefully PE works! I just think it is funny that we say anything above 6 is big just because the law of averages. NO, its just smaller, average to most women is 7 or 7.5, seriously......Fuck, ideal to most women is 8x6, that's another good study, so if ideal is 8, how does that make 7 big???
     
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    Wow I never realized how significant people think 1" difference in length is. That's seems like an overdramatization to me especially when people can't even tell the difference half the time like I said earlier. Multiple inches of length difference is significant, not a measly 1". Girth inches mean way more than length inches.

    And it's not anything above 6" is big, it's anything above 7" is big.

    7-7.5" is in no way average length to women, that's ridiculous to even purport. That's why 8x6 is seemingly ideal because it's 1" inch bigger than big, whatever you want to call it.

    By your own logic, how can a half or 1" below what YOU are saying is big, be average? That is nonsensical.
     
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    I agree with most of you. I think. 7 is big. Anything 8 and up is huge, especially if it's thick. Most porn stars are in that range.
     
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    I think to look big you have to have girth. A skinny long dick doesn't look big, it looks long. To look big flaccid, balls also count.

    7X5.5 looks big. by the stats that puts a guy in the 93 percentile for both length and girth. So big starts at 7X5.5.

    I don't know if photoshop is fucking the aesthetic up but when I see a huge dick they often look somewhat comical.

    From the amateur porn I've watched, most women seem to take dick/dildo's 6 to 7 inches deep (bottoming out?) but in girth they don't seem to have no limit. They are definitely pleasured most by girth. Stiff girth in particular.

    Another thing. Many big dick pictures have a shaft thicker than the head, they are likely using a dick pump and then taking the dick pick before the pump subsides.
     
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    Um, that can be a natural variation too though. Especially intact guys. The shaft tends to be plump.
     
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    Its a common porn thing to penis pump fluff. When the head looks like it has shoulders, in my opinion thats most likely a pump effect.
     
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    Yes, I am from LA and I have done most if not all of my fucking here. My own experiance is where I base some of my info from.

    But no, I have never had sex with black girls. IT just hasnt come up.

    By your account, the big is big because its big threory, almost ALL men have small penises because the true average is really around 5.5", the range being between 5" thru 7". That means if a girl has had enough partners, that is the range she will see. 7" is big, but still managable. Even 8" could be managable but you start running into problems. But you are talking about these monster cocks that women, of any race, wont touch for fear of getting hurt. You are telling me that is the reaction you want? You want girls to turn you down? Because PE does work. Here, read this:
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    My gift to you my fellow Angelino. Just becareful what you wish for. lol

    Pull out a ruler and look at 7". Then think, how much of this can go inside a girl comfortably.

    The last thing I will say is you are new here. I would suggest you spend time reading in the women's issues section. Or just read a lot here in general. You will see that 8 x 6 is the ideal for some men, but not most women. Some can take that size, others cant. And some of the women are here because they can, and want to talk about these issues. After all, this is a site that deals with large penis issues believe it or not. lol.
     
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    Are you trying to say that a shaft can't naturally be thicker than the head? Obviously I don't consider myself large, so I'm not what you're talking about, but dicks come in various shapes, not just sizes, and my head is considerably smaller.
     
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    More often than not I believe that to be true.


    It's just opinion. I base it on the fact that most amateur porn cock doesn't show this characteristic. That is to say really thick cock and much smaller head (regardless of size, a question of proportion). This fact doesn't take away from size. Size is size. And if you read carefully I'm not stating my observation as fact. Just really good conjecture.
     
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    i like the sound of that. lol! :cool:

    i'm 7 long and no one has ever called me small or average.