Hey LPSG Been here a while but never had the balls to post/put up pics but am being driven crazy enough to do the former which will hopefully make me brave enough to do the latter!! First apologies for whinging about my personal life I'm just looking for advice so don't read any further if that bores you I met a guy about 4 years ago through my girlfriend. We hit it off from the beginning and were really good 'social friends' we would always team up when we were at the same parties and have a ball Over the last year or so we have become really close, even best friends We share the same interests, tastes, world views even general life outlook. We are so close all our other friends zone out when we talk to eachother because we finish eachothers sentences and nothing we say makes sense to them. Some of them have even said more than once that we would make a great couple if one of us was female! For most of the time I've known him he has been single apart from the occasional one night stand. I on the other hand was in a long term relationship with a girl he developed a crush on. During this time he kissed me 5 times at least two as a dare and 3 when we were alone and drunk. I never reciprocated as I'm pretty monogamous and also wasn't sure if I felt like it to be honest. He was always trying to get us to expose ourselves to eachother too trying to dare me into it sometimes in public sometimes in private. We shared a bed one night because of lack of space and he hugged me I had to prise him off me. We always play fight with eachother very physically If I'm on a couch he makes a point of sitting next to me and making body contact we also share blankets when we are on the couch but nothing ever happens under them. He has been going out with a girl for a while now and this kinda thing had slowed down alot until recently. I broke up with my girlfriend and now it has all started again in earnest He has even told me his girlfriend isn't stating forever and we are going to be seeing alot more of eachother after summer when he gets out of college Thing is I know I am bi. I have always been attracted to girls and guys just alot less guys than girls. I have only ever had one experience with a guy which I was forced into and very drunk doing which I really regret as I think it has tainted my view of the guy side of things. But I think I like this guy and would like to go further with him even if it was just experimenting and not a full blown relationship because I don't know if I could handle another one of those right now! How do I find out if he wants the same without ruining our friendship if he doesn't?