colleague, I tell you that just like a girl doesn't become a woman overnight, an accomplished bottom needs to collect some dicks in life. in my case I only get involved with 7.5 inches upwards, because the experience made me know that my pleasure happens from there. if it is too thick it can be 6.5 but it depends a lot on the guy, the experience he has in using. and it’s not in the first big one that orgasm can happen. the guy can come quickly, he can hurt you ... it is important to keep in mind that you are on a path in search of yourself, in search of pleasure, how to lose your virginity. if u come madly in your first sex with a big, great. but i believe that when you start this path you will leave behind several of your blocks, you will learn from stick to stick to be submissive, have discipline to understand the meanings of being under a real man. I've had about 5 monsters guys in my life 3, 9 inches and 2, 10 inches, they do exist! most are out there, on the beaches, gyms, malls, not on the internet. I am sorry in most of them that I did not have the anal maturity of having made the most of pleasure. it was wonderful, the complete filling brought me peace, my precum dripped, but in two of them I was still a boy, I didn't fully relax, I didn't understand much of submission .... I remember I promised one of them that I would take it all , who only needed it about 3 more times so I could know what it feels like to hit the balls. but he's gone! you just need sexual and anal maturity to have the best of an opportunity like this. my first anal orgasm was with an 8 inch and very thick. I can't really describe it but all my anus contracted I remember it was crying mixed with a cry of pleasure. it was something new and it didn't involve my ejaculating cock. it seemed like a convulsion. a different pleasure. he really knew how to do it and had the right size and thickness to make my prostate and sphincter explode. that day i really knew what a big cock does! he never stopped, I exploded, lost consciousness, I felt like a baby. I was wondering after a while how it would be with a 10 ', 11' ... after I reached that level of relaxation and total surrender. after that I had a couple of 9 'I think none more than 10'. It is always intense because I only like big and thick people and I learned that I must give myself body to soul in sex. answering: being 9 'brings fullness, peace, makes you forget around, brings extreme pleasure and sincere moans, brings tranquility after sex that only a big size can give you. but it will probably not be automatically the first time. it is a path to follow with the most intense sensations and discoveries.