What's it like to have a big cock

[ShannonH]

Lots of men grow to their full size when they are 15. I was what I am now when I was 15 years old.

Yep, I certainly did. I had a little chart I printed off of the Internet (it was probably the Kinsey study, but I've lost track) of a graph of the distribution of dick length, and plotted myself across it from 12 to 15. My current measurement is the same as mine back then. I remember noticing how nearly all the space under the graph was to the left (smaller) than me. Since it was early in my sexual (mental/emotional) development, I think it really screwed me up in a lot of ways early on. I basically completely defined my sexuality by my dick, which is really backwards. I lost my virginity at 15, but didn't have sex based on a real connection with another person until I was 26. It was incredibly eye-opening when I finally felt that closeness to someone, and sex since then has been way way better than it was before.

btw I don't mean that I only have tender 'love-making' now -- I've gotten way rougher since I was a teenager, since I think rougher sex involves a kind of trust to really let go that you only get when you open up to someone.

you get less sex unless your with the right girl
u get attention for all the wrong reasons
people fink your good for one thing only
guys get jealous and try to bully the fuck out of you to bring you down
you can only ever fit half of it in most of the time
you cant get head, because all you feel is teeth
you can forget about deepthroating
much much more

Agree with a lot of that, except for guys getting jealous (I don't know what any other guys' dicks are like, and they don't know what mine's like.) Girls definitely act like penetration is way more of an investment, and I have no idea how other guys can just "ram it in".. unless we start slow it feels like I'm hitting a brick wall down there.
As for fitting it half-in most of the time, my way to avoid that is to just sleep with girls with nice big butts. It looks really hot, feels great in my hands, and gives a nice place to bury the rest of my dick so I'm not just out in the cold air. I think a lot of bigger-dicked guys know this, since my size is usually the first thing mentioned by skinny girls, but the big-booty girls know how to handle it.
Yeah the toothy BJs are a big problem, as are the BJs where you feel like you're just brushing the front of their mouth (one of those put-it-in-the-side-of-her-cheek ones.) I was with one girl who had an enormous mouth -- could fit her whole fist in there. Really miss getting a BJ where she sucks on it, instead of just scraping it. That same girl could also deepthroat, but really had to prepare and was only able to do it successfully maybe 1/4 the time. Even dated a girl who did porn and told me she could deepthroat, then just choked on me and threw up a little. Not pleasant.

 

[326807]

since ive never had a small cock..all I know is this!lol
judging from my partners responses,women really do love an athstetically pleasing long thick tool.

 

[D_Johnson Withernads]

*Looks slightly embarrassed*

I'm afraid I have no idea!

On the other hand I have heard anecdotes from "blessed" friends giving the impression that it can be more of a curse than a blessing at times.

Happy with what I've got. Never had any complaints. Anyway, it's not like there's much I can do about it, is there?!? (Don't point me in the direction of the PE section please!)

 

[Frnkd213]

I'm average, not in mind but based on facts. What's it like to be big? When my wife-to-be first saw me she said "wow, your big". That told me 2 things. She's only seen "smaller" dicks and at that moment realized how powerful that statment really are for guys.
What does it do? Your ego becomes inflated, you actually perform better- unless you feel you have to meet an expectation, stand taller. Until you join LPSG and really see big, nah only kidding on last comment. Lol

 

[D_Johnson Withernads]

Don't get me wrong - I'm not small by any means. Well, maybe if you took the mean size of members of this site, but this place is obviously skewed compared to the rest of the populace.


I too have been called big by previous lovers. Whether they were serious or not isn't the point. I know better myself and would just take it as a compliment rather than a piss take. It's not the sort of thing that makes for a good discussion when you've got to that stage. You really don't want to be lacking in confidence when your cacks are around your ankles. However, being obsessed with the size of your cock is surely not a sexy attribute in anyone, even if you're hung like King Kong. (Maybe I'm just jealous?!?)

I find I really have to agree with what drabman writes in other threads. It's not good for the psyche at all. I speak from personal experience in that I thought my knob was small and lived through hell for well over a decade. I do think that I came out of it a pretty well adjusted person though and understand that the size of your dick is but a "small" part of who you are.

So I know better now. And I maybe have an idea of what some of the studs out there feel like as Miss X is very petite so I need to be quite careful with her.

Anyway, I've drifted way off topic but I felt I should post it. Probably not in a thread about huge cocks on a large penis forum though... ;-)

 

[ShannonH]

I think if an experienced woman says you have a small dick and just assumes you know she's joking because of how ridiculously untrue that is, that's the biggest confirmation that she really thinks you're big.

 

[SR_Ethan Hunke]

Its annoying trying to hide it sometimes. Its also pretty embarassing when you are trying to hide it. More of a curse than a blessing.

 

[twoton]

Except for when I'm on LPSG, I don't really think about it much.

Other than when I go pants shopping, when I have to take my cock into account when looking at sizes.

Or when my wife winces if I'm not gentle.

Of when people at work make sly remarks that I pretend not to get.

Nope, can't say I think about it much at all.

 

[Ryan10]

I'm average (3 inches erect) so I woulnd't know what it's like to have a big cock. I've seen people with big one's though and most seem to want to hide it and hate the attention, one even said they'd rather be average like me.

 

[D_Johnson Withernads]

lmao Ryan!

 

[XCentralCasting8in]

Your posts attract flame wars and the site has to hire mods to keep the peace. :biggrin1:

 

[B_lykaner]

It's like being really rich, but with your penis.

 

[elgrande]

Really, it's ALL about the ego boost.

 

[BigInBellevue]

I really like it! When I was young and very inhibited, I still liked it A LOT! I liked the sensations I could get out of it. I hid it as much as I could then. I had to carry books or something in front of me a lot. I'll skip the middle years to make this shorter. Now that I'm old, I still get hit on a lot from guys who either like old men or more likely like big cocks. I think if it weren't for this aged appendage I wouldn't be having nearly the fun. Having a cock-worshiper is not only good for your ego, but sessions for up to or over an hour, coming close and coming close, and then CUMMING! are great. Some of the sensations are perhaps the best I have ever had. I have the impression that extreme size might not be quite as beneficial.

 

[macho8]

I really like it! When I was young and very inhibited, I still liked it A LOT! I liked the sensations I could get out of it. I hid it as much as I could then. I had to carry books or something in front of me a lot. I'll skip the middle years to make this shorter. Now that I'm old, I still get hit on a lot from guys who either like old men or more likely like big cocks. I think if it weren't for this aged appendage I wouldn't be having nearly the fun. Having a cock-worshiper is not only good for your ego, but sessions for up to or over an hour, coming close and coming close, and then CUMMING! are great. Some of the sensations are perhaps the best I have ever had. I have the impression that extreme size might not be quite as beneficial.

so true... i have hooked up with some hung guys that i would never even look twice if passed him on the street.

now i wait for their call if they are free.. must have a line of btms waiting for them to touch that deep spot no one else can.. haha.

 

[deleted161054]

What an awesome post...

I find the attention "addictive".
The feelings I get when other guys react (however subtle or not) to seeing a big dick hanging out a urinal or swinging about in communal showers is a mixture of pleasure, fear and embarrassment. I'm sure these emotions are hangovers from my childhood / youth (plenty) and I hope they will always remain with me.
The fear of arousing hatred.
The embarrassment of ridicule / becoming the focus of attention by strangers.
The pleasure of realising you have the biggest dick.
Can create a very heady mix of excitement.

Joe

 

[london_dude]

A feeling of pride and a touch of arrogance, of how much easier it is to get a girl to cum.

 

[lafever]

ever considered the possibility, that the girls were indeed making fun of you and you didn't got the job for another reason than your bulge?

The girls who giggled as I walked by them in my 7th grade class asked me if I wore underwear so yes they noticed my cock before I did, I guess it jiggles or atleast that's what my wife says.
And yes, I get alot of penis envey from people, especially with my bulge as it does get in the way at the most awkward times. If women can notice it then so can men, so I can say without a doubt that it's cost me a job or two in my younger days.
I've had women purposely rub up against my bulge as they squeeze by me, they even touch it sometimes with a finger or even slide an open hand over it.
But I don't mind because when they rub their butt on me one of several things happens, one is my cock bounces from cheek to cheek, another is when my cock is slightly hard and the head slaps their tight cheeks together and then also when my head follows the contour of their ass, Mmmmmmm!
Sometimes as I'm swelling up they'll rub up and down it with their cheeks grabbing it in between like a big fat hotdog in a tight bun.

 

[deleted518773]

The girls who giggled as I walked by them in my 7th grade class asked me if I wore underwear so yes they noticed my cock before I did, I guess it jiggles or atleast that's what my wife says.
And yes, I get alot of penis envey from people, especially with my bulge as it does get in the way at the most awkward times. If women can notice it then so can men, so I can say without a doubt that it's cost me a job or two in my younger days.
I've had women purposely rub up against my bulge as they squeeze by me, they even touch it sometimes with a finger or even slide an open hand over it.
But I don't mind because when they rub their butt on me one of several things happens, one is my cock bounces from cheek to cheek, another is when my cock is slightly hard and the head slaps their tight cheeks together and then also when my head follows the contour of their ass, Mmmmmmm!
Sometimes as I'm swelling up they'll rub up and down it with their cheeks grabbing it in between like a big fat hotdog in a tight bun.

nice lol

 

[deleted518773]

A feeling of pride and a touch of arrogance, of how much easier it is to get a girl to cum.

Wouldnt know lol