What's It Like To Have A Load In You?

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I've never been bred before and tbh I'm kind of scared because idk how it feels/what happens if it's in there for too long.

Please help!
Awesome, and two loads one after the other is even better. Dont worry about it being in there too long either - just enjoy the guy shooting his load in you.
 

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Literally nothing happens. It's all psychological. One load you won't even notice. I've had multiple loads a night and gone to bed full of cum - it doesn't make a difference.

Psychologically, it's pretty fucking amazing. I find it incredibly hot when a guy blows his load in me
 

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Literally nothing happens. It's all psychological. One load you won't even notice. I've had multiple loads a night and gone to bed full of cum - it doesn't make a difference.

Psychologically, it's pretty fucking amazing. I find it incredibly hot when a guy blows his load in me

Hmmm do you know what happens if you bleed from sex and also have cum inside you?
 

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Why the hell are you bleeding ?!?!

If you bleed, STOP! Practice with small toys, spend more time getting ready and relaxed, use more lube.

Anal bleeding & cum is not a concern. The STI risk doesn't change, but there are a myriad of other concerns with fissures, infections, and and and.

But to the question - makes no difference. Cum wouldn't do anything to the bleeding area. And if you're letting a guy blow inside you, then you've presumably ensured that he's STI free...
 

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Why the hell are you bleeding ?!?!

If you bleed, STOP! Practice with small toys, spend more time getting ready and relaxed, use more lube.

Anal bleeding & cum is not a concern. The STI risk doesn't change, but there are a myriad of other concerns with fissures, infections, and and and.

But to the question - makes no difference. Cum wouldn't do anything to the bleeding area. And if you're letting a guy blow inside you, then you've presumably ensured that he's STI free...

Because i'm always so tight :weary_face:

also he's my partner and we've been monogamous. i'm also his first and only sexual partner.
 

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Because i'm always so tight :weary_face:

also he's my partner and we've been monogamous. i'm also his first and only sexual partner.

Being "too tight" in most cases is a myth.

I'm most cases it's either not enough sphincter foreplay or not enough lube or both.

As you get more experience, you won't need as much but from the sounds of things you aren't using nearly enough of either.

My suggestion is to get a series of toys increasing in size up to the size of your partner. Practice fucking yourself until you are confident. Also only do anal foreplay with your partner to teach him what you like and how long it takes to get you up to three fingers inserted.

Once you are confident with that, only ever start in cowboy position with your partner, never one that he is in control until you learn to take a cock with ease and he learns to progress you for entry himself.
 

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As Brodie888 says, "too tight" just means you haven't warmed up enough, relaxed with foreplay, the top has gone too fast (lack of experience? lack of empathy with the bottom knowing when it's too much, too fast?), and not enough lube.

Pro tip: there's no such thing as too much lube.

If you're bleeding, a) you will likely know it because you'll be in some amount of pain. Bleeding occurs at the sphincter, not deeper inside you unless you've put something sharp up in there. Second, unless you've ruptured a major blood vessel, even the most aggressive painful sex will only produce a few drops of blood... which can be disconcerting but isn't ultimately dangerous. What's more problematic is that if you're bleeding at all, you are doing something wrong and need to learn how to do it better.

You don't have any sensory nerve ending in your ass past the sphincter, so you don't "feel" anything really. You may feel the pulsing of his dick as he cums, or if he shoots close to your hole you might feel it go in. But once inside, you really don't feel anything going on inside unless he's very long (in which case you may feel movement deeper inside), or unless he's a massive shooter, in which case you may feel some increased volume... which again is about the only sensory feedback that comes from inside your anal cavity... the sensation of needing to use the bathroom. But otherwise most of the sensation of being fucked is just your hole and your horniness is filling in the rest.

Also, after someone cums inside you, lots of people do go to the bathroom a short time later because the cum is often accompanied by lots of lube (did I mention you should be using lots of lube?), and air gets pushed in there too. That makes for the risk of a fart that is messier than you might expect. So pushing it out into the toilet is often the way to avoid cleanup later. But if you leave the cum inside you... surprise! The mucous membrane that lines your anal cavity will usually absorb it and by morning there's nothing much going to be left.

So... a) BOTH you and your partner need to learn how to do anal sex in a way that doesn't risk damage because if you're worried about bleeding, you're doing it wrong; b) you probably need more lube; c) cum inside you may be hot, psychologically, but physically it is a non-event.

Good luck!
 

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All of the above is great advice. If you are feeling pain when your partner is inside you, you need to speak up and stop. Sex shouldn’t be painful. And you shouldn’t be afraid to speak up when something doesn’t feel right, especially when you’re the bottom. Bleeding is not normal and a sign something isn’t working right. Using dildos etc for practice will help figure out what works and what doesn’t for you.

As for having a load inside you, it doesn’t feel that different depending on how much is shot inside you I guess. Most of it ends up dripping out eventually. Remember your butt is meant for things to come out not stay in lol, so if you don’t clean right away it’ll just leak out on its own eventually. I personally prefer to clean up shortly after, but everyone has their own preferences. For me, my turn on isn’t the thought of cum inside me, but the feeling of my partner’s dick throbbing in my hole as he shoots inside me. Seeing his face and hearing him moan in pure pleasure as he cums inside me is enough to get me off at the same time :D
 

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TW - Frank Speech ;)

If you're walking around with a load in you, probably not a good idea to casually fart in public. It feels like it's going to be fine, but you stand a good chance of sharting your shorts with the guy's load. Its a minor inconvenience, but if you're on the go and dont have anywhere to clean up, you could end up walking around with a messy load in the back of your shorts all day.
 
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TW - Frank Speech ;)

If you're walking around with a load in you, probably not a good idea to casually fart in public. It feels like it's going to be fine, but you stand a good chance of sharting your shorts with the guy's load..

very true but putting it out there on this thread made me laugh out loud at the thought - schadenfreude i know, but still funny !!
 
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Being "too tight" in most cases is a myth.

I agree and the other key reason for being/feeling 'tight' is a lack of trust of your top partner on your part too - that may be due to fear of what it feels like/what it will do to you etc.

you need to fully discuss and be frank and open with your partner about expectations, what you're going to do, that you know he'll stop or rest if you tell him to and so on. Set your boundaries, you are in control of what happens to your body not the top guy.

better to have that discussion up front than try to address it in the heat of the moment and it will help you trust him and to just relax and enjoy it too if you've not got all these crazy thoughts going through your mind.

good luck
 

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Don't worry much about how long it stays in unless you're injured, but you'll feel it in this case.
I have been plugged with my partner's load in for whole night's out and never ran into any issue. Practice safe sex though and never do that with partners who are at risk...
 
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Its more of an emotional feeling than a physical one. Personally the very act of a guy cumming inside me is a huge thrill, just knowing I was able to satisfy that primal need he has to breed is a massive turn on. I will always keep it inside me if I can. Falling asleep knowing a guys sperm is doing its thing inside me is very hot!
 

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Its more of an emotional feeling than a physical one. Personally the very act of a guy cumming inside me is a huge thrill, just knowing I was able to satisfy that primal need he has to breed is a massive turn on. I will always keep it inside me if I can. Falling asleep knowing a guys sperm is doing its thing inside me is very hot!

I agree with this, but also as a bottom I know within myself that I have an instinctive urge to have someone ejaculated inside my hole. It completes me as a person, my purpose in life, which is the vessel for gay men to seed into.
 

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The is something that touches your soul when you are being fucked by someone and they shoot their load into you.

Personally, I can't feel it as such...it's all how you handle it in your mind. Helps if your partner is vocal and you can touch his cock to feel it pulsate as he shoots.
 

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The is something that touches your soul when you are being fucked by someone and they shoot their load into you.

Personally, I can't feel it as such...it's all how you handle it in your mind. Helps if your partner is vocal and you can touch his cock to feel it pulsate as he shoots.
I read somewhere else where someone said "I see it like getting their life-energy out of them. Like a witch!"

I still chuckle every time I'm reminded of it.