What's It Really Like Being Hung? Honest.

[platinumswagger]

For me, lot of people in general just kinda assume that because I'm black that having a big dick is expected. At some of my previous jobs, whenever people joked about sex, i was a black guy with a big dick. When I was in college, girls would automatically assume I had a big dick because I was black. The stereotype sucks.

There are also the embarrassing erections that come out of nowhere. Especially in high school. Clothes can also be challenging. Dress pants by Express Men for example...I might as well be naked. Lol! Compression shorts and compression underwear keep everything in place though.

On the flip side, my fiancée absolutely loves when I wear grey sweatpants and I like that it turns her on. Sex is great, oral sex not so much. Sex with my exes was a challenge because I was too big, but foreplay goes along way. I've had a few one night stands with mixed results. Having sex with lights off before they get a chance to see what I've got was a big surprise for them lol!

There are challenges, but overall, being hung is pretty cool.

 

[deleted13888921]

FWIW,
I am not 10 inches, I'm at 8. Have I experienced the "You have a big dick" comments, yes. Also, I have experienced the "My last lover was bigger than you". As many have said it's HOW you use it that matters. Big cock or not, 'most' women can care less. Really. Its the tongue that will get their juices flowing faster than your dick. Remember, there will always be someone who is bigger than you. That is a fact. Having a 'big' cock does have many advantages...girls talk, eg: "He's a big boy!" (gay guys also) and your reputation just went up a few notches for the better!

 

[deleted1138933]

FWIW,
I am not 10 inches, I'm at 8. Have I experienced the "You have a big dick" comments, yes. Also, I have experienced the "My last lover was bigger than you". As many have said it's HOW you use it that matters. Big cock or not, 'most' women can care less. Really. Its the tongue that will get their juices flowing faster than your dick. Remember, there will always be someone who is bigger than you. That is a fact. Having a 'big' cock does have many advantages...girls talk, eg: "He's a big boy!" (gay guys also) and your reputation just went up a few notches for the better!

So you are saying you would want/prefer being small? Being big has EVERY advantage. It is not HOW you use a penis that matters. No matter what you do a 4" X 3.5" dick will never fill, stimulate, and hit all the spots that a 7" - 8.5" X 6"- 6.5" cock can. Women do care. They say it all the time. NONE ever idealize, want, crave, fantasize small (outside of SPH and fetish. NONE ever mock a big one. NONE ever verbalize go crazy over small. Tongue is only a bonus. Tongue plus big will always be better than tongue and small. It is not about being the biggest, it's about not being small. And there may be bigger guys she has had, but at least you are not the smallest. You said it yourself: "Having a 'big' cock does have many advantages...girls talk, eg: "He's a big boy!" (gay guys also) and your reputation just went up a few notches for the better" So it is better and more advantageous to be big.

 

[deleted13888921]

So you are saying you would want/prefer being small? Being big has EVERY advantage. It is not HOW you use a penis that matters. No matter what you do a 4" X 3.5" dick will never fill, stimulate, and hit all the spots that a 7" - 8.5" X 6"- 6.5" cock can. Women do care. They say it all the time. NONE ever idealize, want, crave, fantasize small (outside of SPH and fetish. NONE ever mock a big one. NONE ever verbalize go crazy over small. Tongue is only a bonus. Tongue plus big will always be better than tongue and small. It is not about being the biggest, it's about not being small. And there may be bigger guys she has had, but at least you are not the smallest. You said it yourself: "Having a 'big' cock does have many advantages...girls talk, eg: "He's a big boy!" (gay guys also) and your reputation just went up a few notches for the better" So it is better and more advantageous to be big.

Dude, I never said I want to be small. Btw, on your profile you stated; "Regular (mostly) straight guy (95%/5%). Was not blessed or born lucky, never had relationship with woman. Mostly into masturbation, toys as I really have no other choice. Cool with mutual JO, frottage, bro-jobs, respect and worship."
So, my question to you is: your giving advise you clearly have no experience with. That is not a put down or a bag, just quoting what you said.

 

[deleted1138933]

Dude, I never said I want to be small. Btw, on your profile you stated; "Regular (mostly) straight guy (95%/5%). Was not blessed or born lucky, never had relationship with woman. Mostly into masturbation, toys as I really have no other choice. Cool with mutual JO, frottage, bro-jobs, respect and worship."
So, my question to you is: your giving advise you clearly have no experience with. That is not a put down or a bag, just quoting what you said.

You stated being big has no advantage, so if that really was true, then it would make no difference, therefore, why do you want something that is a burden and has no advantage? So you would want/prefer being small?


I have more real experience as to what women want because I hear it from them all the time. You on the other hand are oblivious to it as you never will experience any negative experience for your endowment. I am not giving advice. I never suggested or recommended for anyone to do or not to do anything. I merely pointed out fact based on experience that you will never have to deal with.

 

[deleted13888921]

Dude, I never said I want to be small. Btw, on your profile you stated; "Regular (mostly) straight guy (95%/5%). Was not blessed or born lucky, never had relationship with woman. Mostly into masturbation, toys as I really have no other choice. Cool with mutual JO, frottage, bro-jobs, respect and worship."
So, my question to you is: your giving advise you clearly have no experience with. That is not a put down or a bag, just quoting what you

You stated being big has no advantage, so if that really was true, then it would make no difference, therefore, why do you want something that is a burden and has no advantage? So you would want/prefer being small?


I have more real experience as to what women want because I hear it from them all the time. You on the other hand are oblivious to it as you never will experience any negative experience for your endowment. I am not giving advice. I never suggested or recommended for anyone to do or not to do anything. I merely pointed out fact based on experience that you will never have to deal with.

I suggest you re-read what I said. STOP making comments that are not correct on my behalf. Btw, a woman's vagina cavity entrance is where all the nerve endings are, and pleasure points. It's a man's ego that 'thinks' only a big cock will pleasure a woman. Ever heard of a clit? Lastly, a small penis does and has made babies. The sperm will find its way to the eggs, no matter the size of a man's cock. I wish you all the best my friend.

 

[Jamie1111112011]

I’ve no complaints about being big. The main advantage for me is that my size has enabled me to work in the sex industry, as an escort, masseur and porn actor. So it’s mainly been a financial benefit.

I don’t think it changes much else, yes perhaps it gives me a bit more confidence when I’m naked and it’s nice to have sexual partners compliment me but I think size doesn’t equate to being good at sex. I’ve been with extremely hung guys, bigger than me and I’m 8 inches, yet they’ve been clumsy in bed.

I’m bisexual and my experience with women is that they like bigger guys but if you don’t know how to arouse a woman no amount of inches will make any difference. Sometimes they tell me hung guys just rely on their size to impress rather than working on how to pleasure their partner. I think this is true. Working as a sex worker has taught me what clients like, so my size opened that door but it takes something else to be successful in the job.

 

[deleted1138933]

I suggest you re-read what I said. STOP making comments that are not correct on my behalf. Btw, a woman's vagina cavity entrance is where all the nerve endings are, and pleasure points. It's a man's ego that 'thinks' only a big cock will pleasure a woman. Ever heard of a clit? Lastly, a small penis does and has made babies. The sperm will find its way to the eggs, no matter the size of a man's cock. I wish you all the best my friend.

Yes I have heard of a clit. The vaginal entrance is not the ONLY place whee women have sensation. They also like to be stimulated on the sides and fell full, They also say they like vaginal orgasms, have the fornix stimulated so if their is no length/girth it will never be the same. So it is not about only the male ego, but about what women explicitly say they desire, idealize, want, and lust. What does getting a woman pregnant have anything to do with pleasure?

 

[deleted13888921]

Yes I have heard of a clit. The vaginal entrance is not the ONLY place whee women have sensation. They also like to be stimulated on the sides and fell full, They also say they like vaginal orgasms, have the fornix stimulated so if their is no length/girth it will never be the same. So it is not about only the male ego, but about what women explicitly say they desire, idealize, want, and lust. What does getting a woman pregnant have anything to do with pleasure?

Dude, your lost. Give it up. Now you are blocked and ignored.

 

[Cdkcdk92]

I like being hung. The compliments I get on grindr turn me on, when I'm getting head "wow it's so big!" makes me even harder, when bottoms are taking it and moaning and saying "I wish I could take this every day"....it's just great for the ego

 

[Capitolhillguy]

I had 8.5" most of my life till Peyronies took away 3 inches about 15 years ago. I definitely don't feel as confident now and when I am with others I never really feel like my current dick is my dick. I was quite handsome but I am aware that a lot of the trouble I got into at the baths was because I had a porn star dick. I can not longer top with my cock but people would beg me to fuck them when I had a giant dick. I had the best boyfriend of my life after getting Peyronies but never came with him because he refused to suck dick like I did, which he loved. Oh, well. It was 6 wonderful years and it wasn't my big dick that kept him, which is something.

 

[deleted1025121]

For me, lot of people in general just kinda assume that because I'm black that having a big dick is expected. At some of my previous jobs, whenever people joked about sex, i was a black guy with a big dick. When I was in college, girls would automatically assume I had a big dick because I was black. The stereotype sucks.

There are also the embarrassing erections that come out of nowhere. Especially in high school. Clothes can also be challenging. Dress pants by Express Men for example...I might as well be naked. Lol! Compression shorts and compression underwear keep everything in place though.

On the flip side, my fiancée absolutely loves when I wear grey sweatpants and I like that it turns her on. Sex is great, oral sex not so much. Sex with my exes was a challenge because I was too big, but foreplay goes along way. I've had a few one night stands with mixed results. Having sex with lights off before they get a chance to see what I've got was a big surprise for them lol!

There are challenges, but overall, being hung is pretty cool.

Why was it bad that it was assumed you would be well-endowed because of your race? When it turned out it was true! haha.

 

[deleted1025121]

I’ve no complaints about being big. The main advantage for me is that my size has enabled me to work in the sex industry, as an escort, masseur and porn actor. So it’s mainly been a financial benefit.

I don’t think it changes much else, yes perhaps it gives me a bit more confidence when I’m naked and it’s nice to have sexual partners compliment me but I think size doesn’t equate to being good at sex. I’ve been with extremely hung guys, bigger than me and I’m 8 inches, yet they’ve been clumsy in bed.

I’m bisexual and my experience with women is that they like bigger guys but if you don’t know how to arouse a woman no amount of inches will make any difference. Sometimes they tell me hung guys just rely on their size to impress rather than working on how to pleasure their partner. I think this is true. Working as a sex worker has taught me what clients like, so my size opened that door but it takes something else to be successful in the job.

Good for you. I always said if I would have had a big dick (and been more handsome) I would have been a go-go boy dancing on a box somewhere! Its kinda cool some guys are able to have that goal, or like you as an escort, because of how you were made. I think it definitely helps with confidence. You probably dont even think about your dick when you undress in front of partners or clients...or having to get naked in gym showers, etc. Thats something that looms over my thoughts 24/7 and sadly its inhibited me from relationships and stuff too. So confidence booster is a definite plus (if not the main benefit) in my book.

 

[Jamie1111112011]

Good for you. I always said if I would have had a big dick (and been more handsome) I would have been a go-go boy dancing on a box somewhere! Its kinda cool some guys are able to have that goal, or like you as an escort, because of how you were made. I think it definitely helps with confidence. You probably dont even think about your dick when you undress in front of partners or clients...or having to get naked in gym showers, etc. Thats something that looms over my thoughts 24/7 and sadly its inhibited me from relationships and stuff too. So confidence booster is a definite plus (if not the main benefit) in my book.

Whatever your size though, own it and be confident. I bet you have other qualities that people would be attracted to. Honestly if someone is wanting to get to know you just because of your dick size then are they really someone worth the effort?

 

[deleted1138933]

Dude, your lost. Give it up. Now you are blocked and ignored.

Of course. Only recourse when there is no substantial and argument

 

[VIIby5]

Whatever your size though, own it and be confident. I bet you have other qualities that people would be attracted to. Honestly if someone is wanting to get to know you just because of your dick size then are they really someone worth the effort?

Easy to say when you don't have to live in someone elses shoes. I have accepted my size. But its kind of difficult to be happy about it considering there are plenty dicks out there double my size.

 

[deleted1138933]

Easy to say when you don't have to live in someone elses shoes. I have accepted my size. But its kind of difficult to be happy about it considering there are plenty dicks out there double my size.

Exactly. It is not about YOU accepting it, or anything, it is about what everyone else desires.

 

[deleted1138933]

Easy to say when you don't have to live in someone elses shoes. I have accepted my size. But its kind of difficult to be happy about it considering there are plenty dicks out there double my size.

Dude, I just saw your pucs. What are you complaining about?

 

[VIIby5]

Dude, I just saw your pucs. What are you complaining about?

Just about anyone can make an average or even below dick look bigger if they take pics the right way. Take a few closeups yourself and you will see what im talking about. The fact is im still pretty small compared to what most women experience and are expecting nowadays.

 

[deleted1138933]

Just about anyone can make an average or even below dick look bigger if they take pics the right way. Take a few closeups yourself and you will see what im talking about. The fact is im still pretty small compared to what most women experience and are expecting nowadays.

Im not talking about the look, but about the measurement. You are not small