For me it has become all about the whole combo of sex/kissing/talking/joking, when is with a person i love.
If it is someone i only want as my "lover" (that adjective should be changed for me) then in the last few years, I have or not kissed at ALL or just the bare minimum to get the sexual encounter going.
Being a very cold, non-physical person during everyday's activities, most women i get intimately connected, get surprised how intimate, intense and warm i can be during sex, because i kiss a lot.
Whereas with "just sex partners", even if i know women love to be kissed, i just can't do it too much.
Conclussion: a real kiss is more intimate than sex IMO, besides, passionately kissing gets me harder and more excited.
If it is someone i only want as my "lover" (that adjective should be changed for me) then in the last few years, I have or not kissed at ALL or just the bare minimum to get the sexual encounter going.
Being a very cold, non-physical person during everyday's activities, most women i get intimately connected, get surprised how intimate, intense and warm i can be during sex, because i kiss a lot.
Whereas with "just sex partners", even if i know women love to be kissed, i just can't do it too much.
Conclussion: a real kiss is more intimate than sex IMO, besides, passionately kissing gets me harder and more excited.