What's more important for girls or gay men: height or cock size?

[trackjock13]

I'm legit wondering about this and would like to hear opinions..

At 6'4" I am tall, and most think hung. NEITHER is important to me in being sexually aroused by another guy. GUESS hung is nice, but sine I am a top, not that important. 1st thing is personality/attitude. Nice guys win w/me, arrogant guys loose. 2nd sexy hair, like long, or blonde, or shaggy surfer look (like me).. 3rd thing is body incl a bubble butt. Pecs are a plus too, but not a deal breaker. Been with a lot of slender guys w/o pecs who are hot. 4th is smooth vs gorilla body hair. LAST is age. Been with guys my age, or younger, (over 18) or older. Just a number. Oh yea, they should be into the same stuff as me. A guy wearing sexy clothes or naked except sox/sneakers/underwear is HOT HOT HOT...sexier than just nude to me for some reason.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Oh I absolutely don't know everything. I'm young and fairly stupid. What I was saying to her is mostly like you're here for a reason. From what I've gathered, and you've been here much, much longer than I have so please correct me if I'm wrong, this is a community of predominantly men who are well-endowed. If you seriously have no preference and came and remained here for that long just to keep the wildly inflated egos in-check of guys who aren't familiar with the fact that the size of their own body part isn't everything, I think that's kinda weird.
Putting yourself in a certain community instead of others means something. If the shared feature of 90% of that community is that it consists of gentlemen with a statistically rare penis-size, you've probably stuck around or more likely joined in part because of that. You've been here for 10 years, and so I'd make an uneducated guess that you've probably made a bunch of friends here and all that, but like there's a reason everyone's here. I've been here for like not even a month, so you know more than me, but like that's my opinion. Size does matter, it's definitely, definitely not everything, but if you're going around just to correct a bunch of guys that it's meaningless or barely significant or set us straight, it's kinda annoying. I doubt that's what you're here for, or probably anyone on this thread, I saw something and I jumped on it, I apologize.

Long enough ago that I'm not sure when, I went out with a guy who had electrified my mind. I barely knew him, but we had already developed the intimacy to have private, inside jokes, and had shared fantasies and stories of our adventures. He was rebellious and sensual, and I was all about it. Long before we set up a date I had decided to visit him and fuck him. I wanted him badly.

However, he wasn't all that he seemed. He was stingy and cheap. He was sloppy. I had made it clear that I would likely go home with him if the date went well, yet he'd not cleaned his apartment, which wasn't just messy, but actually dirty. He was the worst kisser I've ever encountered, hands down. I was still so attracted to him from our many hours of conversations, that I wasn't quite ready to give up. However, in one of those conversations, he indicated that he wouldn't ever be willing to perform oral sex. Eager to stop the violent mauling that was his kissing, I helped him undress, revealing a tiny, oddly shaped penis. I assumed he was soft, but his erection was magnificently sturdy. At that point, with dreadful kissing and no hope of cunnilingus, I could see no point going further with his weird little dick.

A few months later, dissatisfied with how I'd handled rejecting him (though I was very gentle) I found a site for the smaller endowed, hoping that if I had to bail similarly in the future, I would have a more diplomatic exit planned than the one I'd employed. While there, I came across a funny list of websites, and I came here to see what the people were like. I liked them, so I stayed.

Ten years ago when I joined, this was a very different place. The forum was more active, funnier, flirtier. More of the men knew how to get past women's defenses to the fun person beyond the guarded exterior. As a result, a racy question could elicit intriguing answers instead of cold defensiveness, for example.

I stayed long enough that the way I used the site changed. Then again, so did the site. The people I befriended in my early days are all gone. All of them. In their stead are newer friends, some of whom are old friends now. I would be reluctant to remove myself from their company, and the longer I stay, the more connections to the real people behind the screen names I make.

Morover, while I have a keen interest in nudism, voyeurism, penises, and men in general, I can't say I care at all about the size. I like that there is a penis on a man. I like it to appear typical. For example, I do not want it to be shaped like a dreidel, like the dude I mentioned earlier had. Beyond my own perception of normalcy, I require little of an erection, and I care not a jot about a flaccid dick. Balls are even less interesting. They should be there. Beyond that? No fucks given.

If my opinion annoys you, fuck right off. My world will continue to spin.

 

[gagaohlala]

thanks for the response guys!

I'll add my 2 cent and I hope no one takes it offensively..
I'm a 5'8 bi guy, I admit I do have a fetish for guys are tall guys, anyone above the 6'1+.. It's not a deal breaker as the two best guys I've been with were 5'7 and 6' ( although this one had size 12.5 feet and I kinda have a big feet fetish as well).

It's weird I'm still hung up on it but everytime I was with someone 6'4 or 6'3 or even 6'6 ( the tallest so far for me) it just felt weird and didn't nearly enjoy it as much as the shorter guys...

The thing is, I hate about myself how when I approach a girl and get rejected for my height even if I have good facial aesthetics or a good physique, and I do that on many occasions for guys around the range of my height.

As far as cock size, well tbh I've never been with a guy over 7.5inch so never really really experienced it..

 

[Galloper]

Girls rejected you for your size? they wanted basketball players?

thanks for the response guys!

I'll add my 2 cent and I hope no one takes it offensively..
I'm a 5'8 bi guy, I admit I do have a fetish for guys are tall guys, anyone above the 6'1+.. It's not a deal breaker as the two best guys I've been with were 5'7 and 6' ( although this one had size 12.5 feet and I kinda have a big feet fetish as well).

It's weird I'm still hung up on it but everytime I was with someone 6'4 or 6'3 or even 6'6 ( the tallest so far for me) it just felt weird and didn't nearly enjoy it as much as the shorter guys...

The thing is, I hate about myself how when I approach a girl and get rejected for my height even if I have good facial aesthetics or a good physique, and I do that on many occasions for guys around the range of my height.

As far as cock size, well tbh I've never been with a guy over 7.5inch so never really really experienced it..

Girl

 

[Galloper]

that pic could mean "Summer is here"

View attachment 582218 At 6'4" I am tall, and most think hung. NEITHER is important to me in being sexually aroused by another guy. GUESS hung is nice, but sine I am a top, not that important. 1st thing is personality/attitude. Nice guys win w/me, arrogant guys loose. 2nd sexy hair, like long, or blonde, or shaggy surfer look (like me).. 3rd thing is body incl a bubble butt. Pecs are a plus too, but not a deal breaker. Been with a lot of slender guys w/o pecs who are hot. 4th is smooth vs gorilla body hair. LAST is age. Been with guys my age, or younger, (over 18) or older. Just a number. Oh yea, they should be into the same stuff as me. A guy wearing sexy clothes or naked except sox/sneakers/underwear is HOT HOT HOT...sexier than just nude to me for some reason.

 

[bravesoldier]

I'd have a hell of a time saying on this one. I truly have a fetish for both tall and short men. There are two perfect examples of this at my work. I had the privilege of shaking the hand of the tall guy yesterday. He was incredibly handsome, young with a seemingly very sweet disposition. His extreme height, probably 6'6 or 6'7 was what gave this guy the appeal he possesses. The other smoking hot sexy little fuck I could kidnap, put in my backpack and take home with me just as quick as the tall guy.

I like big cocks, but to me, hands down the guy makes his cock hot, no matter how big it is. That is something I can honestly say I have learned. A man or woman's personality can make sex with them mind blowing. Size is hot but not everything in my book.

 

[phillo12345]

View attachment 582218 At 6'4" I am tall, and most think hung. NEITHER is important to me in being sexually aroused by another guy. GUESS hung is nice, but sine I am a top, not that important. 1st thing is personality/attitude. Nice guys win w/me, arrogant guys loose. 2nd sexy hair, like long, or blonde, or shaggy surfer look (like me).. 3rd thing is body incl a bubble butt. Pecs are a plus too, but not a deal breaker. Been with a lot of slender guys w/o pecs who are hot. 4th is smooth vs gorilla body hair. LAST is age. Been with guys my age, or younger, (over 18) or older. Just a number. Oh yea, they should be into the same stuff as me. A guy wearing sexy clothes or naked except sox/sneakers/underwear is HOT HOT HOT...sexier than just nude to me for some reason.

Dick size/appearance. It doesn't have to be giant but it has to be pleasing to the eye and touch. I rarely, rarely do any kind of anal stuff so it's purely for aesthetics... a nice dick has no real importance but it's very important.
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[talkthetalk]

For me, there are a lot of factors way more important than either height or cock size, but between the two, I would definitely have to go with cock size. I've never given much thought to whether or not a guy is taller than me, but I distinctly remember the impression made by each and every cock I've handled. In the scheme of a relationship, the heft of a guy's package is not all that significant, but I do take a little extra pleasure in the bigger ones.

 

[EllieP]

My best friend and I were discussing this very post. Her response: "Cock size, cock size, it's always cock size. No one ever mentions tongue length."

 

[Shackleford]

My best friend and I were discussing this very post. Her response: "Cock size, cock size, it's always cock size. No one ever mentions tongue length."

Well, damn. All this time I thought tongue width was more important....

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

I guess it all comes down to the question.

Would you fuck a Midget with a 12X8 inch cock?

 

[Exbiker]

I'm 5'7 with a 7" penis.

So I have to hope that height isn't the defining thing for most people. Relative height does play a role though ...so many guys I've been with have been within a few inches of my height.

I have fucked a few over 6 ft though. Knees do bend.

My fear is meeting a tall, submissive guy with arthritis.

 

[gagaohlala]

Girls rejected you for your size? they wanted basketball players?


Girl

haha well online dating and the club scene is much harder for guys on the shorter side of average, it's much easier to get with a girl meeting her in Uni or in a coffee shop where I can talk more freely.. but online dating and nightlife is rough!

 

[AVx22]

If I had to choose...it'd be height. 5'11" - 6'1"' would be ideal

 

[902369]

I think height might win. A man can be ugly in the face but if he has height on him, he's automatically a bit more attractive. Can you say the same for a short, ugly man? No.

Tall and hung for the win!

 

[LilJock]

You are most welcome to disagree @doc465 I'm saying that I have never encountered a tall guy with a small dick... Haha!

I'm 6'3". . . and hung like a chipmunk. But, then, 6'3" ain't that tall. . . or maybe you're just a stay-at-home.

 

[wavejock]

I dont want to answer for the women lol but day 2 day I think most women like a guy who is definitely taller then them. dick size may or may not be important but when you are in public I think most women like guys who have some height lol

 

[AlteredEgo]

Girls rejected you for your size? they wanted basketball players?


Girl

You say that like 5'8" is tall. That may be average in Europe or other parts of the world, but where I'm from that's just a little short for a man. Not that good things don't come in short packages too.

 

[aqua-illusion]

In men, I will look for height. If he's going to be 6'1 and have a 5 inch penis, I'm okay with that.

I want to be the little spoon...I think I am tall for an Asian, 5'10, on OkCupid or POF the Gay/Bi men in my city are SMALL...always 5'9 and shorter...it's kind of a turnoff for dating wise. I don't mind being friends of course...lol, no height requirement there. If I do find a tall guy on a dating site he's not into me, so lol, strike out.

Yes what if the 5'5 guy messaging me had a massive penis?...that's alright, its not about sex all the time, if we're in bed sleeping...I just want to be the little spoon.

I'm okay with the traditional 6/6/6 - 6ft tall, 6 inch penis, 6 figure salary LOL!

 

[Brodie888]

The great thing about dating a guy the same height is doubling my wardrobe!