Not sure if many of you ladies have had kids, but are things down there permanently different for all women, or do some tighten up a bit afterwards? How can a guy make it more pleasurable for a woman who has had kids? I'm 6x6, so not huge but I wasn't sure just how much things stretch out down there. What can a guy do to make sure she gets off just as much as before? Other than tell her that nothing can change my desire for her or pleasure from her and overall reassuring her.