what's sexy to a woman???

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With the porn industry so heavily dominated by men us males can sometimes get a strange (and very wrong) idea as to what is sexy to a woman.

This can be problematic because some may take the (miss)information home and expect our girlfriends and wives to act like the same way the girls do pronos.

So, maybe in an effort to clear this up I'd like to ask the very general question:

Women, what is sexy to you?
 

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I don't know if this will be helpful, but my list goes something like this...

loyalty
privacy
respect
masculinity
gentleness
tact
modesty
cautiousness
interesting mind
communication
affability
customization of romantic characterizations (this is oh-so-important!)
truthfulness coupled with tact (truth is not a weapon)
learning tons about each other, indulging each other, serving each other
compassion
cleanliness
self-sufficiency
independence



This is, I understand, a rather general list.
 

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I don't know if this will be helpful, but my list goes something like this...

customization of romantic characterizations (this is oh-so-important!)

Could you elaborate on this one?

truthfulness coupled with tact (truth is not a weapon)

That last one is a biggy... and could be applied to any relationship. That is one of mankind's biggest pitfalls. Fuckin' A... you hit it on the head with that one.
 

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Let's see, well by customization I mean tailoring the way you respond to someone romantically. Responding in a way that fits that particular person's needs/desires and makes them feel special. I hope that makes sense.
 

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I'm not a woman, but confidence (but not arrogance) is the only thing I have seen pretty much every woman I've even known react to...
 

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I imagine my list is a bit unorthodox:

- a certain saucy kind of cockiness
- the ability to spell well and use proper grammar
- abstention from drugs/alcohol/cigarettes
- veganism (for serious relationships this isn't negotiable for me)
- the ability to be tender without being corny
- a passport full of stamps (I'm working on it!)
- not owning a car (+ if they bike everywhere)
- casual dominance (leave the leather at home, thanks)
- kinky/open-minded/GGG
- the sound of the Finnish language (not just saying that to impress finlandboi, either...)
- Jaco Pastorius' bass playing

As for physical attributes,

- good teeth (crooked can be charming on the right guy; plaque-covered is not)
- bright eyes
- long, thick uncut cock (duh)
- freshly showered, but not deodorized - I like a bit of pheremone!
- scrawny to sinewy body, with visible hipbones
- a full head of hair (curls a +)
- minimal/tasteful tattoos & piercings, if any
- natural/undyed hair color, preferably dark
- firm ass
- veiny forearms
 

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A man who can cook and clean is sexy. :wink: There is nothing a woman likes more after a long day than to come home and find her man has already prepared dinner and set the table. If he offers me a glass of wine while he rubs my feet, even better. :smile: