Whats Stopping You?

[barbunz]

To all of you bi curious. Whats stopping / holding you back from finding out what its like? Whats keeping you from exploring with your curiosity?
I've been curious for many years and have had a lot of opportunities to explore but just could not bring myself to follow through with it. Gone to a couple of bath houses and enjoyed them but just couldn't do anything. Had several possible chances at the beach but didn't take them. Regretted turning most of them down later. I just cant seem to take that step.
So for you that are curious but haven't done anything about it, whats holding you back?

 

[NautiRogue]

Nothing's holding me back anymore, but my first bisexual experience didn't happen until all the stars aligned. Society's attitudes and judgments held me back until the situation arose that made it all work.

In a previous relationship, my GF and I had dipped our toes into the world of swinging. We had met one couple that seemed cool, but my GF couldn't do it. It went no further than her feeling up the other girl's amazing boobs in the bathroom of the restaurant we met them at. Fast-forward, and that GF and I didn't work out, but I stayed in touch with the couple. We did a few MFM threesomes, and he invited me over a few times to watch porn and jack off together.

During one of those times when he and I were alone together with no one else around to judge, no one there to even know that it had happened, we sucked each other's cocks. After that bridge was crossed, it was no big deal to suck his cock in front of his wife when the three of us played, and from there, it just became a common thing when I my new GF who would later become my wife played with single guys or couples.

 

[Reg]

Being repressed about my sexual nature. Finally couldn’t hold it back anymore.

 

[deleted5698211]

While I am highly sexually active now (bi), for the prior however many years, was def down to insecurity and unwillingness to “make it real”. As expected, it all comes to a head at some point, the curiosity, hornyness, whatever. For me, it was just simply too painful to ignor. Literally, physically, mentally and spiritually. It was the strongest urge one can ever experience, for me anyways

 

[DiamondJoe]

Nothing.

Not society's norms, expectations nor structures, not personal inhibitions nor demons, in spite of my situation and with cavalier disregard for going to work work, going to bed, mornings or the impression it may foster in others. I am me.

My name is DiamondJoe.

I do what I like. Do you understand?

 

[daftman]

loyalty to my bi wife and convenience...gimme a good beach and another couple...all smooth!

 

[HorseHung40's]

I am glad to say that there are many young people, who don't have their parents' sexual and psychological baggage, when it comes to sex.

Where the previous generation would only do it in the shadows, but, scorn it publicly, the current one has few to no issues, when it comes to experimenting.

While some long for the "good, old days", I say that that thinking may be old, but, was by no means good.

 

[WidgeonSF]

I’m in a committed relationship. If for some reason that ever ends, I’m likely to satisfy my curiosity.

 

[flyboy]

Finding the right person that I’m attracted to is the biggest challenge for me. Not really interested a one time thing which so many guys are. Maybe I’m just too picky.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Finding the right person that I’m attracted to is the biggest challenge for me. Not really interested a one time thing which so many guys are. Maybe I’m just too picky.

To an extent it is a numbers game. You have to be prepared to get it wrong a few times and bare in mind that perfection is an illusion.

 

[Elixir]

Its an area that has interested me lately but tbh I wouldnt really know where to start and I guess alot of it is down to finding the right person/people

 

[latinluva]

I spent twenty five years having sex with whom ever I wanted. Nothing ever held me back, I had no hang ups. Bath houses, threesomes, adult video booths (gloryholes), Women, Men, Men and Women, strap ons with Women, Leather at the Folsom Fair, nude swinger resorts, nude beaches, and men who asked me to dress up in lingerie with wigs and make up (not my thing, but worth the dick). I always wondered if I could be faithful to one, it was challenging at first, hard to leave that sex life behind.