What's the appeal with have sex with 2 or more men at once?

[galaxus]

*I'll be fair and post a complementary question in the sex with a large penis forum*

*I should have replaced "have" with "having". Moderators, could you please fix that? thank you*

Have you ever had that fantasy? Do you watch porn like this?

I ask because I'm trying to get my fiance to open up and tell me what she likes and thinks about sexually. It took her awhile, but she eventually told me she has a fantasy about this type of stuff. She is very introverted so she doesn't want to try it yet, but she does watch porn like this every blue moon and gets excited when she sees me or another man in a porn cum.

The thing is, she is ashamed to talk about it. :frown1: She shouldn't be though and I make sure that I tell her that.

She hates when I ask her "why do you like that?"... I guess because she really doesn't have an answer yet. She has trouble communicating sexual and I understand.

So I'm asking you ladies, if you have similar feelings or thoughts, what do you like about it?

 

[B_subgirrl]

I saw this, thought 'Not a Women's Issue', went off to check the other forums and thought I might answer the one that was put in the correct forum.

Then I find out it isn't even the same question. WTF?

 

[MickeyLee]

ewww.. and the second thread is so sketchy. :biggrin:

OP - you realize women are able to read both threads, right? that we might get a bit miffed at ya obvious pandering here, in Women's Issue?

boo this thread!! booo!!!

eta: the "i want this for her, even if she doesn't want it for her" approach.. attractive.

Galaxis, stop harassing your woman. she's not a porn star.. she doesn't wanna be a porn star. she doesn't wanna have porn star sex for you. *note i didn't say with you.. cuz you don't come off as a very with type person.*

take the kid for a weekend so she can have free time. she'd like that.

 

[galaxus]

ewww.. and the second thread is so sketchy. :biggrin:

OP - you realize women are able to read both threads, right? that we might get a bit miffed at ya obvious pandering here, in Women's Issue?

boo this thread!! booo!!!

eta: the "i want this for her, even if she doesn't want it for her" approach.. attractive.

Galaxis, stop harassing your woman. she's not a porn star.. she doesn't wanna be a porn star. she doesn't wanna have porn star sex for you. *note i didn't say with you.. cuz you don't come off as a very with type person.*

take the kid for a weekend so she can have free time. she'd like that.

I know they can read both threads but they usually don't. A lot of people just come to the Women's Section because the other threads are filled with dick worshiping fluff.

Who's harassing her? I'm certainly not. Talking about sex and sexual fantasies is harassing now?

What is a "with" type?

 

[helgaleena]

You say she gets excited watching you with another man in porn, G? Are you a porn star yourself?

I hope you take all precautions not to share any STDs you might run into with that job.

 

[galaxus]

lol no I don't have sex with other men.

I'm not in porn.

She like to watch me cum. She also likes to watch cumshots and creampies in porn.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

She hates when I ask her "why do you like that?"

How does knowing why she likes something help you or her?

Is it not just enough that she does?

Please remember that what a person may have a fantasy about and what a person wants in reality are 2 very different things. I've always had fantasies about group sex but when I actually consider the reality of doing it I'm not turned on at all. Quite the opposite.

 

[Chaotica]

I like the fantasy appeal of two men who know what they are doing, making me feel good all at once, but damn it is hard enough to find ONE man who knows what he's doing.

 

[ladygaga1977]

that is a fantasy i will fulfill some day..........

 

[galaxus]

How does knowing why she likes something help you or her?

Is it not just enough that she does?

Please remember that what a person may have a fantasy about and what a person wants in reality are 2 very different things. I've always had fantasies about group sex but when I actually consider the reality of doing it I'm not turned on at all. Quite the opposite.

The actual answer may not be interesting, but seeking the answer is the fun part.

 

[Incocknito]

Maybe "what turns you on about it?" would be a better question than "why?". Why is a little confrontational and difficult to answer. You can ask why to infinity and no one really knows the workings of the human mind even though some psychologist might say that her 'kink' is the result of an earlier "incident" or event.

It's like a guy who likes big tits. If you ask him "why?" he will probably say "I dunno, I just do."

But if you ask him what he likes about them then he can say: the size, the femininity of it, the way it denotes womanhood and maturity, the softness, the way they bounce, the way they look in a tight top, cleavage, etc.

You see the difference.

 

[dolfette]

The actual answer may not be interesting, but seeking the answer is the fun part.

i like cheese & ketchup sandwiches.
i can't explain why, i just do.
someone bugging me for my reasons why would piss me off.

she is not a science project, doll!

it's cool that you're interested in her kinks.
it's uncool that you're putting her mind on the dissecting table.

 

[MickeyLee]

i like cheese and mustard sammiches.
doesn't ketchup get the bread all smishy?

 

[dolfette]

*shrug*

 

[MickeyLee]

that wasn't a "why"

that was a "how"

 

[galaxus]

Maybe "what turns you on about it?" would be a better question than "why?". Why is a little confrontational and difficult to answer. You can ask why to infinity and no one really knows the workings of the human mind even though some psychologist might say that her 'kink' is the result of an earlier "incident" or event.

It's like a guy who likes big tits. If you ask him "why?" he will probably say "I dunno, I just do."

But if you ask him what he likes about them then he can say: the size, the femininity of it, the way it denotes womanhood and maturity, the softness, the way they bounce, the way they look in a tight top, cleavage, etc.

You see the difference.

No I don't see the difference. Why do I like ass? its soft and warm.

If I keep asking why, why, why, I know that she won't have all the answers. I know I don't have all the answers to my feelings. But it is good to learn as much as you can about yourself.

 

[galaxus]

i like cheese & ketchup sandwiches.
i can't explain why, i just do.
someone bugging me for my reasons why would piss me off.

she is not a science project, doll!

it's cool that you're interested in her kinks.
it's uncool that you're putting her mind on the dissecting table.

I'm not trying to dissect her. I'm asking the women in the forum a question.

 

[B_Nia88]

having 2 or men loving and adoring you.

 

[MickeyLee]

what if they're not adoring you?
what if it's more about their egos?
their feelings of inferiority or of having been emasculated by other folks

 

[Chaotica]

The thing is, she is ashamed to talk about it. :frown1: She shouldn't be though and I make sure that I tell her that.

She probably thinks you'll think she's a whore.