What's the appeal with have sex with 2 or more men at once?

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Well, those are the immediate reasons obvious to me, though I don't know if anyone shares my take on it, hence the question mark.

There are more reasons why I could see someone engaging in such a behavior (or not) like culture, ideology, past sexual history and whatnot.

Any way you slice it, I think the willingness to carryout a threesome of any kind is going to land you in the minority just because of its taboo nature.
 

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Well, those are the immediate reasons obvious to me, though I don't know if anyone shares my take on it, hence the question mark.

There are more reasons why I could see someone engaging in such a behavior (or not) like culture, ideology, past sexual history and whatnot.

Any way you slice it, I think the willingness to carryout a threesome of any kind is going to land you in the minority just because of its taboo nature.

OK. Nice. Thank you.

I agree. I feel that its great to practice your freedom to do what you want with your body. It's almost like the first time I had sex. When I did it the first time, I felt like I discovered myself! Like a kid who realized that they have an awesome toy hidden underneath bed and can't what to play with it and show it off to their friends, I feel like we are like that but with our bodies and sexuality.
 

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For me, there is no appeal.

There used to be, years ago, but for me as I now know, it was more that I knew I desired something else, didn't know what it was, and went through years of assuming different things were said "something else"

I finally found out what that something else was, and now I have it, all those other silly notions have gone away.
 

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i would like to point out that, especially for women, enjoying the fantasy doesn't mean you really want the reality.
 

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i would like to point out that, especially for women, enjoying the fantasy doesn't mean you really want the reality.

This is something a lot of people could do with listening to!

I enjoy watching horror movies, and things like Saw... That doesn't mean I want to star in the real life versions of them :eek:
 

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i would like to point out that, especially for women, enjoying the fantasy doesn't mean you really want the reality.

Beat your sorry ass to that punch on page 1. :wink:

Please remember that what a person may have a fantasy about and what a person wants in reality are 2 very different things. I've always had fantasies about group sex but when I actually consider the reality of doing it I'm not turned on at all. Quite the opposite.

Neener, neener! :tongue:
 

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This is something a lot of people could do with listening to!

I enjoy watching horror movies, and things like Saw... That doesn't mean I want to star in the real life versions of them :eek:
i've ended relationships over it before.

just because the fantasy turns me on,
just because i'm not ruling out the possibility of it ever happening,
does not mean i want to arrange to do this.
not now, and probably not ever.
 

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I can imagine it (and have fantasized about it) in terms of being the center of attention for two guys. My fantasy is more about them wanting to double my pleasure, though, whereas a lot of porn MFM 3somes are more about the woman servicing two guys - not that that's surprising.
 
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Great ! Now I have a fantasy about two sammiches !,and No, I don't know why
 
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mayo is one of those sog proofing condiments.. like you want tomatoes on your cheese/mayo sammich, well, the mayo would protect one slice of bread, and keep the tomato from sliding around, while the cheese would keep the other slice from getting soggy.

ketchup on the other hand is pretty famous for sogging out bread product.

i am thinking Ms. Dolfette maybe layers the ketchup between two slices of cheese?

is the science of sammiches.

Hmmmm... I believe it's because of the old oil and water thing. Oil is anti-sog (or rather, sogs in a way the human palette appreciates). Water is pro-sog.

The basis of mayo is oil. The basis of ketchup is water.

Long live mayo!! (And I'm not even a Chinese national!) :biggrin1:
 

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How do we know this isn't secretly a post meant to brag about losing your virginity in a threesome?

OK, here is how a threesome fantasy is for me with two men. The thing is, a typical man doesn't last very long. So to have two men, one after the other, would make the experience last twice as long. That would be great.

But like Dolf said, reality is harsh.

Sometimes erections disappear in public situations. Get my drift?
 

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now i want a sammich *nibbles on Mr. MoT*

what kinda bread are you using? something more artisan, rusticky? for straight up wonder-white bread?

i don't mind sammich drip so much, is usually a sign of a really good sammich.
ya are correct, the bread holding together is the most important part. cuz when the bread goes, the sammich is now a salad plus :

Ewww.. I hate regular old white bread. Its too damned soft. I can eat it if toasted, but I'm a sammich artist. I need symmetry in my sammiches. Same amount of cheese same place, placement and amount are all very important. I prefer a nice dark pumpernickel depending on what the sammich is for. Best one so far is muenster, turkey(roasted), a little spinach for greens, lite mayo mustard smather, toasted lightly pumpernickel with very thin slice of tomatoes. Usually 2 cause of the symmetry thang. Then heat it up ever so slightly in the toaster. Cut diagonally. (If I'm making one for the missus I'll cut It into 4s or make a lil heart out of it.) Sammich making is so much fun.

Another great bread to use is artisan rosemary bread from Wholefoods. Its awesome sliced up as sammich bread.
 

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Somewhere the God of Cheese is weeping tears of whey. Over the years, ketchup has become vastly less appealing to me as a foodstuff. I'll eat it on fries now and again, but that's about it. Can't even stomach it on a burger these days.