News flash! I lost my virginity in a 3some (with 2 close friends who were very attractive) a couple years ago. It was very confusing, tiresome, and years later come out to be meaningless, but at the time it was fun! I was so happy! I felt like a man, a stud, and an alpha male finally. I felt like, with that under my belt, I can wave that in the face of the men a women who belittled me an emasculated me growing up. It almost felt like I reached my potential! I know its foolish.... but hey :tongue: Bottom line is, after that night, I felt in control of my sexuality. I felt secure. I felt sexy, for the first time ever!...... I know thats dangerous, but thats how I feel.