whats the best advice if you're too big?

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  1. verywellendowed

    verywellendowed New Member

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    Hey all.

    Whats the best advice you would give to a person who has always found sex difficult because of his size?

    I'm in this situation and I'm sure some of you lpsg'ers have too.

    Thanks :smile:
     
  2. Mr. Snakey

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    Learn to live with it Be proud of what you have. Be caring with your partner Be aware of your size Other than being uncomfortable Im happy with who i am and what i have Good luck to you!!:cool:
     
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    i found that it works best to put a hurting on who ever you have sex with. but that is just one mans opinion
     
  4. naughty

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    Horrible Person,

    I didnt want to laugh at that but it really took me there!




     
  5. verywellendowed

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    I totally agree!
     
  6. Ummagumma

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    Oral sex - Learn it. Love it. Live it.

    As for oral/anal... um... yeah... good luck with that. :smile:
     
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    There isn't much you can do except grouse about it on boards like this one.

    Hey, works for me!
     
  8. Heather LouAnna

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    For advice click here.
     
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    Man i feel bad. Being 9.5 inches ive never had serious problems. Am I lucky or something? Plus, the only times the problems DO occur is on the first time, and its not like it happens all that frequently. All i can say is keep lube around, its saved me on some occasions.

    ORAL IS FOR SMALL DICKS!!! (not really you can be good at both i just felt like being angry)
     
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    verywellendowed,

    Consider cutting some of it off.
     
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    Heather,

    You read my mind. It's like we're the same person.

    :heart:
     
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    Pussies vary same as cocks. Keep looking. Sooner or later you'll find the grand canyon.
     
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    :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
     
  14. Heather LouAnna

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    Aw <3
     
  15. MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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    Just remember, you're alot bigger than the rest of the kids, and you could accidently hurt someone if you're not careful.
     
  16. robert617

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    I have to say that the key is patience and it works in more ways than one.
    First - when you find a woman interested in you and then she balks at sex because of your size, I have found that this is definitely not the final word on the subject. Just seeing your size will work on her curiosity. It may be a day, a week, a month or longer but there is a good chance that her curiosity will bring her back, sometimes just to reaffirm that she saw what she saw and then you go from there.
    Second - once she decides that she wants to give you a try, often "just for fun", I usually encourage her by letting her be on top. This lets her have control so she takes what she can handle at her own pace. Be patient. I also let her know that "no one says you HAVE to take it all" but I find that when they have control of things women do try to see how much they can take and the more fun for them then the more they will return "just to see" if they can handle more.
    Third - whether its home renovations, picking furniture or clothes for their wardrobe, women like projects. If you are lucky enough to become a project (ie- "I want to take it all"). You can help with suggestions of lube or "toys" that will speed the process. Being helpful in such ways only works once the woman has decided that this is something they want.
    Fourth - women do seem to "tell tales" and it may take some time but again, be patient, women's curiosty is often a good thing and they have excellent memories. What they have heard about you will be passed around somewhat discretely and those that hear will put it down to memory for verification at what they think is an appropriate time (ie - if you break up with their friend or they break up with their boyfriend)

    I guess all in all I'd have to say "time is on your side". Patience is a virtue.
     
  17. Lordpendragon

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    Don't become attached before you have sex - then it's easier to move on. Swings both ways.

    If you are not talking about your cock - go on a diet.
     
  18. Love-it

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    Uh, oh! Too much!
     
  19. zaza

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    Be adaptable, try all sorts.
     
  20. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    - Lots of lube
    - Let her be on top to begin with so she can control how much she can take
    - Be gentle
    - Be aware that a large cock is scary when considering anal, so it may never happen or very rarely
    - Experiment with different poisitons and see what she finds more confortable
    - Deep throating may also never happen
    - More lube and lots of patience and understanding
     
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