What's the best lube for a tight hole?

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  1. mthomson2020

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    I'm desperately wanting to have sex with my bf but i can't hardly get my head inside him. I've used astroglide lube but it doesn't really get much more than the head in. There's just no where to push.

    What kind of lube can I get?
     
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    Dpends you might just need to lossen him up a bit maybe finger him a little just till he's relaxed
     
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    I like cold pressed coconut oil... perfect stuff... google it.
     
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    Your problem isn't lube. It sounds like he's too tight and you need to start with smaller toys before you use your penis.

    When TheBF can't get it in like that, I have this horrible fear that he's just going to push harder and harder and it's going to pop right in, too hard and too fast, and I'm going to scream my head off because it hurts so much. OUCH!!!

    I consider "not being able to get it in" to be a sign that I'm not ready for his cock yet, and we need to dilate more using toys.
     
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    right 3 finger rule for me
    if you can take 3 fingers then you can take me
     
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    All sound advice - not the lube but the workup. You don't go to the gym and begin pressing 300 pounds.
     
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