I don't mean posting a general ad. I mean asking a particular person. I wanted to webcam more in the last year, but I never got into it. It always seems like it would be pretentious of me to ask someone to look at me naked on webcam and possibly watch me jerk off. I'm not sure if I'd be doing someone a favor to webcam for them or if they're doing me a favor by watching. And, like I said, it seems cocky of me to think I'm doing them a favor. But if they're doing me a favor, then I have a hard time asking. I guess both me and the viewer would get something out of it. And I don't want to be one of these guys that begs women to watch him on cam. But I think there must be some women that would want to take a look at me. So what's the best way? Just send a message to someone and directly ask? Send a message asking if they want to instant message, then after chatting a bit, ask if they want to see me on cam? Send a message asking if they want to instant message, then just turn my webcam on and start stripping? Some other way???