What's the biggest turn offs / deal breakers in a woman?
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Well I'm in a relationship, but turn offs would include:
Self centred, bitchy, disrespectful women, women who like to talk down to other people, jealousy, stuck up or shallowness, women who try to change who I am, someone with no sense of humour, loud talkers, non-talkers, insecure or fake women who can't love themselves for who they are or those who try to be someone they're not, botox, heavy smokers (actually smokers in general), heavy drinkers or drunks, wild party lifestyles, bad hygiene, anorexic chicks or any woman who can't take care of herself, lazy women, feminists
Self centred, bitchy, disrespectful women, women who like to talk down to other people, jealousy, stuck up or shallowness, women who try to change who I am, someone with no sense of humour, loud talkers, non-talkers, insecure or fake women who can't love themselves for who they are or those who try to be someone they're not, botox, heavy smokers (actually smokers in general), heavy drinkers or drunks, wild party lifestyles, bad hygiene, anorexic chicks or any woman who can't take care of herself, lazy women, feminists
Mean to strangers, generally being unkind. Also, flat butts. I need a butt I can grab.
sodominsane
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funny....i have never minded clingy or need gf.....but then again I'm a sociopath with narsacistic tendenciesThanks guyshas given me a lot to think about. I think most of the issues I have are due to my relationships being long distance...and the guys generally taking more than they give! But I have things I can work on too (neediness is probs the biggest one).
"I love you baby"
"I love you to babygirl"
"we should do everything together..we should be best friend..and be lovers everyday...i want to give you wake up kisses and i love you texts all day..i want to
spend all my time with we you"
"of coarse you do babygirl ...ofcoarse you do"
I hate when they drop hints and blame you for not catching them
if you drop a plate and it breaks it's your fault for dropping it it isn't my fault for not catching it
same thing with a hint
if you are direct and I don't listen that's my fault if you drop hints and they don't get caught yu have only yourself to blame
if you drop a plate and it breaks it's your fault for dropping it it isn't my fault for not catching it
same thing with a hint
if you are direct and I don't listen that's my fault if you drop hints and they don't get caught yu have only yourself to blame
Being fat. Being a bitch. Using me as your emotional tampon. Too skinny. Being dishonest. Being unfaithful and disloyal. Not having sex with me. Being judgemental and critical of others and me. Making excuses. Being pessimistic. Being negative and having a bad attitude. Always being up my ass. Being a slut. (I don't want a woman who did nothing but ride the cock carousel through out her teens and twenties, and her sexual partners are in the high single digits.) Single mothers. (I've had nothing but bad experiences with them.) Divorced women. Stupidity. Drug addict. I think I named just about most of them. If you are a woman and think I'm too picky, than you are not the one for me.
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It's what I could think of at the time. Some could say I'm too picky and even bitter, and I'm am.
It's what I could think of at the time. Some could say I'm too picky and even bitter, and I'm am.
RamblingCock
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I am intrigued and attracted to women who are strong and independent. Intelligent and not afraid to be themselves. Self confidence without arrogance is a biggie. No matter how attractive a woman is I am turned off if she either pretends to be less than she is (less intelligent, giggly, etc...unless that's who she really is) or has a degree of arrogance, self-importance. (Don't like arrogance in men, either.)
I like women who are sexually open and - again this word - confident. They are active participants and give as much as they get. And not afraid to have an open discussion about it. They dress (or undress) to enhance their bodies and their self-esteem. They need to feel good about themselves. Taking care of themselves is always a turn-on.
I *don't* like women who are artificially seductive, like they're some sort of porn star. They've got to be real about it. (And, for reasons I describe here in the blog, I am NOT attracted in any way to naivete. I know we all start out that way, but in adults of legal age it isn't attractive.)
I love openness and honesty. Directness without being brutal.
I guess it call comes down to self-confidence. I know and like women who are needier, but from an attraction and relationship standpoint I've always been drawn to women who stand on their own two feet.
My dos centavos - and been happily married to the same woman for 32 years FWIW.
I like women who are sexually open and - again this word - confident. They are active participants and give as much as they get. And not afraid to have an open discussion about it. They dress (or undress) to enhance their bodies and their self-esteem. They need to feel good about themselves. Taking care of themselves is always a turn-on.
I *don't* like women who are artificially seductive, like they're some sort of porn star. They've got to be real about it. (And, for reasons I describe here in the blog, I am NOT attracted in any way to naivete. I know we all start out that way, but in adults of legal age it isn't attractive.)
I love openness and honesty. Directness without being brutal.
I guess it call comes down to self-confidence. I know and like women who are needier, but from an attraction and relationship standpoint I've always been drawn to women who stand on their own two feet.
My dos centavos - and been happily married to the same woman for 32 years FWIW.
Smoking cigarettes or vaping. Not being smart. Being too jealous. Not being her own person. Not being kind. Agreeing with everything I say or suggest... that's annoying and leaves me thinking that I have no idea what she really likes/wants/enjoys to do.
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Wow I wondered when I posted this and I see it’s from 2013 lol. I believe I started this after some douche bag cheated on me.
I did see that it was a long time ago. But I hoped my thoughts would be helpful in general.
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