B_subgirrl
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i ment those "little things" (not like i bought her a car)
eg. i didn't noticed for a very long time, that almost every single sms- or email-conversation we've had, was only because i started it. 90% of the time i was the one to write her first. she was mainly only answering, sometimes not even that. and it wasn't like i wrote her 10 times a day getting on her nerves, maybe 2-3 times a week.
you know that warm, nice feeling you get when you are sitting home at night, learning, watching tv or simly lying in bed, then suddenly your phone beeps and you receive a love-sms from your girlfriend/boyfriend? well, with her, i never experienced it.
or another example: i started a month before christmas figuring out with what present i could make her happy. i finally came up with an idea: i bought her a little wooden box she mentioned once she liked, painted the whole thing myself on the outside, glued our favorite pic together on the inside, wrote a self-made-poem under the picture and placed some funny&nice earrings (she didn't wore fancy jewelry but loved those funny ones) i hunted for days and finally bought for her on the ebay in the box.
she gave me a book from an author she liked. i was happy of course and even more happy when i saw the joy on her face when she opened my present. but her joy was caused by the present itself (the earrings, ...) and not by my work behind it.
her bithday? i'm not even starting to describe what i gave her (its on the same level as the chritmas present). my birthday? she gave me nothing, just said happy birthday.
maybe it sounds now like i would describe her as a bad person. totally not. she was really sweet, never cheated on me or betrayed my trust in any way. she was/is a really-really nice girl.
but it think she took these things (the attention and care) i gave for granted, like its completely normal, everyday stuff.
What a sweetheart!! That's a lovely Christmas present to give.