What's the deal with anal sex? Does it really hurt?

[eastbaydude]

First, let me start by saying that I'm not looking for anyone to fuck me. I'm just curious about the whole anal sex thing.

My exposure is pretty limited.

When it comes to anal, I've tried fucking girls in the ass couple of times. Although I thought it felt great, none of them liked it and none of them gave it a second chance. With a couple of of the women - we "finsihed". With others, it was over before I got all the way in. And, for the record, we used lots of lube and I was very gentle.

I've also seen it in porn - both str8 and gay. In the str8 porn, the girls seem to really get into and enjoy it. In the gay porn (at least what I've seen) the guy getting fucked is alway wincing and cringing in pain. So what's the deal? Male and female asses can't be that different, can then? Who's doing the acting? The girls or the guys?

Does it really hurt that much? Which porn stars are doing the real acting - the guys or the girls? Is it possible that the girls I've been with were tight asses or was it me? (and again, for the record, I'm bigger than average but not feakishly huge - about the same size as yoru average porn actor.)

 

[rickygNOLA]

I think it feels good. Why don't you come over and let me show you who's acting:wink:

 

[mcrw]

It's not my favorite! With a small toy it feels okay, but my husband is so thick that it hurts and I actually have bled, so no desire to do that when the other feel much much better!

 

[cravincock]

the first time it hurts
after its loose it feels VERRRRRRRY good

 

[itsa'it]

nice thred im curious too

 

[buddy629]

It's fucking fantastic. No, really it is. I guess it either comes naturally to someone or it doesn't. Does it hurt? ...yeah, a little when it first gets in there, it does hurt. But, after a minute or so your ass acclimates, and then...it starts to feel really really good. Just remeber 3 things; hygene, lots of lube, and fingers first.

When I was a virgin, my first BF wouldn't bottom for me, he had a bad first experience..pain, blood, all that....so, I learned to bottom...and he was a big boy too....maybe 8x6 or so. I just layed him on his back, lubed him up, lubed myself up, and sat down very very slowly. He was patient. God he was a good fuck. and that's all we ever did...2 19 year old guys just fucking our brains out....ugh, makes my ass wink just thinking about it.

No one ever taught me.....maybe I'm just a natural

 

[gayguy777]

For me at first it hurts, but if there is some fingering and he gos really slow or lets me control how much I take it it feels really good. I mean like REALLY REALLY GOOD! After you get a little looser it feels better and better and by the end you dont wanna get off it.

 

[EFH33]

First, let me start by saying that I'm not looking for anyone to fuck me. I'm just curious about the whole anal sex thing.

My exposure is pretty limited.

When it comes to anal, I've tried fucking girls in the ass couple of times. Although I thought it felt great, none of them liked it and none of them gave it a second chance. With a couple of of the women - we "finsihed". With others, it was over before I got all the way in. And, for the record, we used lots of lube and I was very gentle.

I've also seen it in porn - both str8 and gay. In the str8 porn, the girls seem to really get into and enjoy it. In the gay porn (at least what I've seen) the guy getting fucked is alway wincing and cringing in pain. So what's the deal? Male and female asses can't be that different, can then? Who's doing the acting? The girls or the guys?

Does it really hurt that much? Which porn stars are doing the real acting - the guys or the girls? Is it possible that the girls I've been with were tight asses or was it me? (and again, for the record, I'm bigger than average but not feakishly huge - about the same size as yoru average porn actor.)

No matter that you're saying that you're not looking for anyone to fuck you.. you just opened up a Pandora's Box worth of comments bro! LOL!

I am not saying you should explore, but if you're curious to how it feels, maybe you should try sticking a finger up your ass, or maybe even a dildo, even if it's just to satisfy your curiosity. Plenty of straight men like ass play. You might surprise yourself and be one of them.

 

[KIKEMAN29]

If it's properly lubed doesn't have to hurt.
I use toys too and it's great

 

[Nala]

The first time the girth was a real challenge, once in and comfortable it feels great.

 

[Hellboy0]

It's fucking fantastic. No, really it is. I guess it either comes naturally to someone or it doesn't. Does it hurt? ...yeah, a little when it first gets in there, it does hurt. But, after a minute or so your ass acclimates, and then...it starts to feel really really good. Just remeber 3 things; hygene, lots of lube, and fingers first...

No one ever taught me.....maybe I'm just a natural

I agree...no one ever taught me, but it's what I wanted to do from the very first experience. The guy wasn't massive (straight/bi, married hot Tibetan tennis coach) but that was perfect for a 1st one, and he really knew his way around a bum. It's where I also got my first experience of rimming... damn did that help.

Cuz my ass is so nice, I have always tended to get pegged as a bottom over the years. And I am very good at it. But the past 4 years, I've made a big turn-around and now am getting them lining up to be topped. Must be my age, my size or my sexual aggression, but I'm enjoying the 'payback'.

However, I really do prefer to get fucked. I never cum as much or orgasm as hard or as fully as when I'm being plowed by a man's cock. Even a dildo doesn't have the same affect (though it's not half-bad of an option if there is no dick around to do the job!!!). It's that prostate stimulation that just shoots me over the edge (pun intended), and no amount of arguing will change my stance on this.

If someone doesn't like it, it's probably because of a mental issue or the cock is too big or the partner is way too fast. I why a woman might not enjoy it (not made the same)...but I most CERTAINLY do. I hate the 'oh it's dirty' argument. Fuck that, folks. Clean the damn thing and it's great. A pussy can be just as nasty if it's not cleaned yet you straight guys go in there quite readily!!! Lastly, the 'it's not made for that' argument is just more crap on crap. Loads of the animal kingdom have anal intercourse, and homosexual to boot, so stop being so uneducated.

Anyone need lessons, give me a call. Anyone need practice fucking an ass, give me a call.

Just call! LOL

 

[Diesel2215]

Thanks for the info Hellboy. Don't mean to hijack this thread. I'm off the opinion that if I want my wife to try it then I should. So I bought some anal beads to start off with. They weren't a very good quality bead though. So I used them on my self. I guess I enjoyed inserting them. And having them inside me. I read up on it and they said you should pull them out slowly just as you are about to come. I found that instead of enhancing my orgasm it distracted me from coming intensely. As you said it can be messy.( this put me off a bit.) Please advise on how to clean. Sorry a bit naive on this subject. But not scared to try until i perfect it. Also any way to simulate your prostrate your self without a dildo.

Thanks

D

 

[Diesel2215]

There has to be more comments on this topic!!:dunno:

 

[Sir Royal]

Well, What I would do is just make sure you relieve yourself before attempting to do so, as not to get a Shitty Deal, and try lubricating the beads prior to insertion. That's just me dude. Good Luck:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

 

[Diesel2215]

Thanks for the info.:biggrin1:

 

[B_dxjnorto]

I say not everyone is made for receptive anal sex. Some people can do some coke can shits, but not everyone. When I was in high school I worked cleaning the elementary school. One day me and the lady I worked with found a shit in the elementary school bathroom that had to be broken up to be flushed. I don't think an adult did it. There were staff bathrooms. These were little tiny kid height toilets.

In porn you can see some people have little difficulty even with sizable members. And some enjoy it very much. But I say there is anatomical variation. I suppose the sphincter can be stretched over time, and one can search for more compatible partners, but this may not be for everyone.

I like a finger in my ass - a lot - prostate massage. But a dick is pretty large for me to insert. I've done it before with a lot of lube, but caused some minor bleeding and was as painful as pleasurable.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

I always wondered why the G-spot of the man is in the ass... Does this had a purpose/meaning... who know? Should we all get fucked in the ass to get ultimate pleasure ? ? ? :dunno:

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Well if you have someone rub that little walnut in there it feels pretty good. Maybe not for everyone. You can do it yourself, so it's easy to experiment, but a bit awkward.

 

[conchis]

If I would be so curious about anal (MY anus. With something inside of it) I 'd buy a zucchini and some butter (did you see that notorious italian movie, Last Tango in Paris?) and I would try it. simple, isn't?

 

[ruggero]

Now of course that would have to be a firm zuccini wouldn't it?
The reports from friends working in casualty and the ridiculous explanations
for how "it" accidently got up there!
(poor bastards explaining "Brut" (aftershave) bottles and heaven knows what else,
lost up their bums.
Just think, if the bottle breaks you've got broken glass and alcohol poisoning.)

Oh dear, the ingenuity involved in those excuses alone . . .

"I slipped and landed on it!"