What's the deal with spit?

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What's the deal with spitting?
I've had it happen a few times now that during sex, out of the blue, the guy I'm with spits on my face, in my mouth or somewhere else... I mean I get it for extra lubrication or whatever but in the face area? Without any warning?
Can anybody explain to me why this turns guys on...

Seriously perplexed.
 

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The spitting is putting you in your place. Take it boy and be proud. Submit to the top's power and let him control you. You need to get to the place you beg for it.
 

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Yes, it's to do with degradation. I expect some people like being treated like that, but it would be sensible to check first.

I also don't like to see spitting during blow jobs in porn. Like when the girl takes the guy's cock out of her mouth, spits on it, then sucks on it again. What's that all about?
 

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I blame porn. 3 or 4 years ago everyone started hocking lugies, especially if the setting is supposed to be "macho."

It's gross. My dick goes limp instantly if the hocking lugie thing happens.
 

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yeah, I mean I get that it is disrespectful but its just weird that a guy who seems to be nice in every other way and is actually a considerate lover all of a sudden does this. I'd never have sex with a guy who I thought flat out disrespected me, it would just be really boring sex but this has much more of a porn-fantasy-flavour to it, like saying "your pussy is so tight" (to a man), slapping someones ass and calling them a bitch or slapping them with your dick. I'm all for living out your fantasies but seriously... have a chat with your sex buddy first... I'm not so grossed out by it (as gay men we get used to worse things than spit on your body... all accidental I hope) but it really throws me off my rhythm.
 

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I never understood the spitting thing either. Just nasty. Now, passing cum from one's mouth to another, well that's a different story.....
 

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I've had a girl ask me to spit in her mouth before, we were really going at it so I did and didn't think much of it at the time. Another time a guy I let blow me asked if I'd spit in a glass before I left, he was a friend of mine so I didn't mind. I guess if I had a strange kink I'd want someone to help me out too.
 

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It’s to humilate you and make you feel less of a person. You are considered dirt, scum and not worthy of respect. Spitting is a reminder just in case you feel like an equal or a human being.
And if they are calling your asshole a pussy that’s also a reminder that you are not a man and you are a woman who they consider lesser in value.
Remember it’s a game of power. Not a very nice game but who’s to judge. If you don’t like this type of treatment and not willing to play the game then you should tell the person how you feel. If it does not stop, get up and leave or bite their cock off and stick it in their mouth.