It may sound boring to some people when I say this, but personally I think people need to just have sex the normal way. Not dull and boring sex but just normal. There's nothing wrong with experimenting and trying something new but it can be done without making it weird and uncomfortable.
No matter if you're gay, straight, bi, or whatever else. But doing all this crazy experimenting by taking pills, using chemicals, using the weird awkward so-called sex toys, beating and cutting each other and whatever else is more trouble than it's worth.
Even if it's just you by yourself masturbating and trying all of those things. But there have been stories where people have seriously gotten hurt or things have resulted in death because of all of this craziness.