what's the longest time you've been without a relationship?

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  1. D_Maurice Mountlilly

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    i'm not talking dates,or hook-ups,or one night-stands. a straight up relationship.
    what's the longest amount of time you've gone without one?
    for me it's been 3 years and counting.......
     
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    15 years. I'm picky! I've said it before and I'll say it again, I would rather live alone than with the wrong person.
     
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    What counts as a "relationship"? Are regular fuckbuddies a relationship? If you're dating and not exclusive is it a relationship? Or are you talking about monogamous relationships only?
     
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    Not counting the time before my first relationship, since that would be silly. My first relationship was in middle school, and lasted about 2 days. 5-6 years later I'm a senior and I have another 2 day relationship. Then about 4-5 years later my latest one.
     
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    35 years so far...
     
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    stupid question to ask people who go on a website for sex. we don't have relationships.
     
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    I don't come here for sex. :rolleyes:
     
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    This is a sex website? I thought it was facebook and I came to update my status.

    Audre's Aunt is in the kitchen baking chocolate chip cookies.
     
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    I get fucked by TheBF regularly and really well, so I'm not looking for sex. I have lots of great sex! And we're in a relationship. You shouldn't assume that just because you're here because you are single and looking for a big cock to have sex means that everyone else is here for the same reason.

    I'm here for the entertainment value. That and because TheBF has a big cock.

    The longest time I've gone between monogamous relationships is 2 years. I think.
     
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    I ended my last relationship after nine years in 2004. I've had a coupla close calls since, but nothing you'd call a real relationship since. That's by far the longest I've been single.
     
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    it's been....5 months for me....i was starting to feel pretty bad. I need to really learn to enjoy being single.
     
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    15 years. Some of us are just not made for relationships. I prefer to be alone, but to be honest, I really don't understand the dynamics of relationships. I see them as black and white. I just don't see all the colors of the relationship spectrum.

    I try to keep my life as simple as possible, because that's all I can handle. It's sad that society puts so much pressure on us to be married with children, straight, and narrow. Society looks down on anyone who doesn't fit the profile. It's basically bullying by adults. I'm tired of being treated like I am worthless because I don't fit into a piece of the puzzle.
     
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    5 years for me.
     
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    Right now, I'm going on 6 years.
     
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    Almost 26 years :(
     
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    amen to that!!!!
     
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    The longest gap was 3 years, went out with a woman for 2 months, then had a gap of 2 years. I still had sex during that time, but they were just casual encounters. So, I basically went through a 5 year period of just one very brief relationship with someone I didn't really care for, but was just so lonely I was willing to make a go of it. Everything got better after that!
     
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    The longest I've gone... let's see if I can remember... is about 2.5 years I believe? It was a much-needed 2.5 years as well. I had been in a relationship for 3 years that completely fucked me up in multiple ways. I needed the time to get my head back on straight!
     
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    Coming up five years.
     
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    Are folks really into relationship now a days? It seems all we are doing aim-lessly dating that just turns into just fuck buddies on demand. Reminds of the book Brave New World.
     
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