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Just would like to hear past stories or times where a man may have acted a little too creepy but you he was being romantic)
If it's creepy, it ain't romantic!
like writes you a sweet note plays you a song or brings you some flowers unexpectedly because he's too shy or doesn't know the right words to say
Oh yes, I've gotten the message on the car thing. From someone I KNEW (tangentially) but didn't see in that store at that time. It was weird and creepy, but ok I guess. But only because he didn't seem to be around when I came out and he didn't follow me as far as I know and he never contacted me again
I don't date creepy lame ducks who use it as an excuse to be creepy.
NOT so much because they are disabled but the idea of approaching you writing singing flowers etc... and they didn't realize it was inappropriate at the time. Im not looking to get attacked in this discussion okay
I'm not sure some men understand the magnitude of the creepiness we absorb and almost are pressured to normalize on a day to day basis.
However, I can see what you might be saying and perhaps something tailored to her that is fun and light would be best. Does she like clowns? Order her a clownagram. I'm sorry. I'm being snarky. Just find out what she likes and do a small friendly thing with no pressure and above all, be cool.
Honestly shy and sweet isn't creepy. It's just shy and sweet.
There's a difference. Some people don't see the difference, but it's there. The same way you shouldn't assume that you *aren't* coming off as creepy, you shouldn't assume that you *are*. Does that make sense?
thats pretty much how i was addressing the question but forgive my learning disabilities i was only asking if only someone thought they were being shy and sweet by doing something but it actually turned out that it was creepy to you making it not shy and sweet and you feeling uncomfortable