What's the most creepy but romantic thing a man has done for you?

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Just would like to hear past stories or times where a man may have acted a little too creepy but you he was being romantic)
 
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like writes you a sweet note plays you a song or brings you some flowers unexpectedly because he's too shy or doesn't know the right words to say
 

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like writes you a sweet note plays you a song or brings you some flowers unexpectedly because he's too shy or doesn't know the right words to say

It's all about delivery. Don't leave a note on her car when she had no clue who you are. This has happened to me, and it wasn't just creepy, it fucking scared me. Whoever that guy was, he followed me and watched me get in my car so he would know which one to leave the note on. Fucking. CREEPY.

If you are shy, and don't know how to approach a woman that's completely understandable. Just don't go creeping around trying to fit yourself into her space in a way that's convenient for you but completely unnerving for her. She's not a unicorn. She's a person. Talk to her like one.

My advice, just don't be a creep.
 
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i guess I addressed the question wrong Im not saying i am trying to be creepy but has any man's attempt like TNJ happened to anyone else and maybe was blown out of proportion when the man was just trying to show you he was romantic even though he was disabled.
 
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NOT so much because they are disabled but the idea of approaching you writing singing flowers etc... and they didn't realize it was inappropriate at the time. Im not looking to get attacked in this discussion okay
 

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Oh yes, I've gotten the message on the car thing. From someone I KNEW (tangentially) but didn't see in that store at that time. It was weird and creepy, but ok I guess. But only because he didn't seem to be around when I came out and he didn't follow me as far as I know and he never contacted me again
 
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Oh yes, I've gotten the message on the car thing. From someone I KNEW (tangentially) but didn't see in that store at that time. It was weird and creepy, but ok I guess. But only because he didn't seem to be around when I came out and he didn't follow me as far as I know and he never contacted me again


Ahhh
 
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I don't date creepy lame ducks who use it as an excuse to be creepy.

it was my fault for not addressing the question correctly In NO way was i saying just cause someone is disabled they can be creepy
 

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I'm not sure some men understand the magnitude of the creepiness we absorb and almost are pressured to normalize on a day to day basis.

However, I can see what you might be saying and perhaps something tailored to her that is fun and light would be best. Does she like clowns? Order her a clownagram. I'm sorry. I'm being snarky. Just find out what she likes and do a small friendly thing with no pressure and above all, be cool.
 

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NOT so much because they are disabled but the idea of approaching you writing singing flowers etc... and they didn't realize it was inappropriate at the time. Im not looking to get attacked in this discussion okay

Honestly shy and sweet isn't creepy. It's just shy and sweet.

There's a difference. Some people don't see the difference, but it's there. The same way you shouldn't assume that you *aren't* coming off as creepy, you shouldn't assume that you *are*. Does that make sense?
 

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The boy gave me a bobcat skull he found while trekking through the woods. He also will bring home owl pellets.

He once left a snake shed on my pillowcase.

I loved all his morbid little treasures. To me it's romantic. To others, it might be creepy as fuck.
 
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I'm not sure some men understand the magnitude of the creepiness we absorb and almost are pressured to normalize on a day to day basis.

However, I can see what you might be saying and perhaps something tailored to her that is fun and light would be best. Does she like clowns? Order her a clownagram. I'm sorry. I'm being snarky. Just find out what she likes and do a small friendly thing with no pressure and above all, be cool.

And do it in person.

None of that covert horseshit.
 
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Honestly shy and sweet isn't creepy. It's just shy and sweet.

There's a difference. Some people don't see the difference, but it's there. The same way you shouldn't assume that you *aren't* coming off as creepy, you shouldn't assume that you *are*. Does that make sense?



thats pretty much how i was addressing the question but forgive my learning disabilities i was only asking if only someone thought they were being shy and sweet by doing something but it actually turned out that it was creepy to you making it not shy and sweet and you feeling uncomfortable
 
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thats pretty much how i was addressing the question but forgive my learning disabilities i was only asking if only someone thought they were being shy and sweet by doing something but it actually turned out that it was creepy to you making it not shy and sweet and you feeling uncomfortable

No worries, I'm just trying to be helpful and honest.

Writing a letter or sending flowers isn't creepy unless you do it in an anonymous/stalkery way. If it's done in a respectful, tasteful way it can be perfectly lovely.
 
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