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My girlfriend and I just has a nasty break up, I really don't feel much to blame for the severity of it all, but that's neither here nor there. It basically has to do with her use of Xanax while drinking to me.
However, I went to pick up some of my things the other day, got into another fight, and when I went back to pick up the rest of my belongings they were outside in my duffel bag. I didn't think anything of it because the previous belongings turned out fine, and I went back home. I had a lot of things over there since I basically had lived there for the last three and a half months.
I get back to my place and am horribly shocked. My sports coat, favorite sweater and tie, dress shirt, and hat have all been either cut apart by a knife or really strong scissors. My mp3 player is smashed, my cologne is broken, about a dozen of my CD's have been broken into pieces, and she tore up lesson plans I was going to use for my portfolio. Ok, this seems just kind of crazy at this point, but it may have even happened to you. Here's where I get kind of scared.
The only CD not broken was a Nora Jones CD she made for me. However, on the back of the CD, she deeply etched with a sharp object "Fuck You !!" Then to top it all off, she throws the un-used condoms I just bought in the bag, but they are all poked full of obvious holes. The torn up pictures are just the icing on the cake.
I am deeply hurt, sort of scared (yes, by a woman) and really pissed off. I was thinking about exacting revenge or calling the police, but I think the high road may just be better if I can stomach it. In her mind, I think that if I call her or do something back, it will give her some sort of sick pleasure/validation. I dunno.......karma is a bitch, I've said some really bad things to her in the heat of the moment, and maybe I just got what was coming to me.
However, I went to pick up some of my things the other day, got into another fight, and when I went back to pick up the rest of my belongings they were outside in my duffel bag. I didn't think anything of it because the previous belongings turned out fine, and I went back home. I had a lot of things over there since I basically had lived there for the last three and a half months.
I get back to my place and am horribly shocked. My sports coat, favorite sweater and tie, dress shirt, and hat have all been either cut apart by a knife or really strong scissors. My mp3 player is smashed, my cologne is broken, about a dozen of my CD's have been broken into pieces, and she tore up lesson plans I was going to use for my portfolio. Ok, this seems just kind of crazy at this point, but it may have even happened to you. Here's where I get kind of scared.
The only CD not broken was a Nora Jones CD she made for me. However, on the back of the CD, she deeply etched with a sharp object "Fuck You !!" Then to top it all off, she throws the un-used condoms I just bought in the bag, but they are all poked full of obvious holes. The torn up pictures are just the icing on the cake.
I am deeply hurt, sort of scared (yes, by a woman) and really pissed off. I was thinking about exacting revenge or calling the police, but I think the high road may just be better if I can stomach it. In her mind, I think that if I call her or do something back, it will give her some sort of sick pleasure/validation. I dunno.......karma is a bitch, I've said some really bad things to her in the heat of the moment, and maybe I just got what was coming to me.