WHats the recipe for having a wank with a close but 100% straight friend?

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  1. D_Canno_Whippass

    D_Canno_Whippass New Member

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    I dunno if this has been posted like a million times inhere, but how the heck do you reach the point where you can drop your pants while watching porn with a clearly straight friend?

    Ive seen p0rn with my friends lots of times, but i just never managed to get over the line and help them, as some of them know i am bi, and i dont wanna cross anyones line, so i dont take the initiative..

    Can anyone give a 'recipie' on how to get over that thresshold, and make him comfortable with the situation of wanking with a friend, even thou hes straight?
     
  2. Pitbull

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    Well being 100% straight.
    What would it take for me to wank with a bi guy.:eek:
    A woman who says - "Whip it out boys and spew it on my tits & face!" :rolleyes:
     
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    Alcohol and porn.
     
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    Most guys are just looking for trust. Once that point is reached everything is pretty much fair ground. I have a few close straight buddys they give me back rubs etc and vice versa.
    These pals also know that its not so much sexual as it is being a man hanging with another man. I know witch ones wanna touch my junk and I know which ones want me to blow and go. I’m in my 30’s now and relize its 10 time more hot when the other guy is into as much as you are. My advice, mess with the straight boys if you like, but come home to a homo that knows how to treat a man like a man.

    Much luv, D..
     
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    I had a straight friend once that was 100% attractive in 360 degrees and I had become extremely sexually frustrated around him because he enjoyed watching porn as much as I did. That was one of our favorite pasttimes. So one night, after a whole summer of frustration, we're at my house (homecourt advantage) sitting on my couch watching porn as usual. With my pants tented and I just turned to him and said very quickly, "I've gotta rub one off. I CANNOT sit here and do this anymore without rubbing one off. If you've can't it, then you gotta go & I'll see you tomorrow."

    I whipped it out and acted like he was invisible. I was at home and I do what I like to do what I want to do in my own house. Within a minute he said, "I gotta blow one too" and whipped his tool out. We only did it that once. We had fun...in our space and never kicked it like that again. We remain cool to this day. That worked for me that night. Not to say that's a recipe but that's my experience with your current desire. Peace:cool:
     
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    As simple as this sounds, I think you just need to be honest. Probably he's thinking something similar.
     
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    The magic word is trust. There is no recipe. This is not something you plan and execute at your own will. If it's you and one friend then there's two persons there, it is important to respect each other.

    When two straight guys get to this situation it just happens. They don't plan it. Maybe you shopuld do the same. Stop thinking of how to do it. Be yourself and it will happen before you realise.
     
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    i agree with this trust is the most important thing if I trusted a guy I would wank with them becuase I wouldn't want to ruin a relationship with friend or make things awkward with a friend.
     
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    THanks for you responses, feel free to come with more clues! :D

    Well i am really straightacting (not hiding, but im not gay'ish) i just had the same fustration about it as 8060 had with his friend.. Well - i think i am quite good at making my friends trust me, and alot of them come at my house to game Warcraft III for a whole weekend, and stuff.. We have really been watching porn, but usually we are just having a laugh commenting the movies quality and stuf.. Hmm - i actually think i should try just to say "cant hold it - gotta wank" and lets see what happens, if the situation is right..

    Well - I am kind of traumatized about that situation - i once told a hot friend of mine who was sleeping over, that i was youknow - into guys, and he totally chikened out.. Took me over a year to gain his trust in me again.. We are quite good friends now, but it totally screwed everything for both of us at that time.. Just dont wanna do it again, because I take the initiative to do it with a friend sleeping over you know. hehe.. :)

    oh, another thing - im a horrible actor when it comes to sexual achievements.. lol.. :p
     
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    slow and easy.

    start with a couple beers watching tv or a dvd.
    flip through the tv channels and 'happen' to come to some adult programming.
    laugh, and say, 'ah, what the hell, lets see something'.
    offer running commentary on the action, talking about the babe and how well she blows the guy(s) --

    then, start the 'geez, I'm horny and i could almost rub one out; and it looks like you've got a boner, too'.

    by then, the beers have kicked in, and he'll maybe let you rub his thighs through his clothing; the rest is just nature taking its course......;)
     
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    In a word, yup.
     
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    A lot of these scenarios sound like they come from porn films. When it comes to mixing friendship and sex, you can always run into problems, IMHO. My conclusion? Some fantasies you should just leave as fantasies.
     
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    You already watch porn with the guy. Talk to him about it - tell him that the problem is you end up so desperate for a wank sometimes - see what he says in response. That might give you an in to suggest that if either of you wanted to wank then you should just get it out as you would both be ok with it.

    Alternatively go for the 'I'm hard as anything', 'I really need to sort this out, do you mind if I do?' lines. Once your both horny he is likely to go for it anyway.
     
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    and some good mushrooms, maybe? lol
     
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    yup; if you whip it out and start to jack he'll either do the same, maybe let you help out. or, he'll leave. you'll have your answer one way or the other.
     
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    Worked with me and my friend. =p
     
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    What's the recipe for fucking the most beautiful girl you know? :biggrin1:
     
  18. BigDallasDick8x6

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    I agree with the alcohol and porn. But you also need to get the conversation turned to sex. You can't just watch the porn in awkward silence. If you say "Oh wow, that's hot" you can judge a lot by his reaction. If he makes comments also, he's a lot more comfortable with you that if he's totally ignoring you, eyes forward, and no words.

    This vid clip has been posted before. Ostensibly tongue in cheek, but pretty accurate nevertheless >>

    YouTube - How to Seduce a Straight Jock in 10 Easy Steps
     
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    lol...that video is hilarious; but kinda true also.
     
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    So THAT'S it! I always mess up on step 8. I thought I was supposed to say, "Miss Thing" or something. :biggrin1:
     
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