I was just wandering when it is to soon to say that you love someone??? Does it class as stalking if someone says it to soon?? Nearly every boyfriend I have had including my current one have all said I love you after a couple of days (current is the first one I have said it back to). Just wandered what time scale most people think is a good time to say those 3 words? And is it only a gay thing to say it so soon into a relationship?