What's Up With Porn Today?

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I wanted to get people's thoughts on this.

So, first, background. I learned about sex (and porn) of course from the internet. The porn I used to watch was videos that had some kind of story but you'd just go to the sex parts. The sex was more, like, romantic, I'd say. The men and woman looked like they were really into each other. They were shot like movies with nice photography. Maybe it was too much acting, but from a females POV I thought it was good.

I don't watch THAT much porn but every now and then I feel the urge, so if I go to PornHub or where-ever, I see so much anal, fast rough sex and it feel so angry much of the time.

Do they still make the kind of porn I used to like, I guess I'll use the word "romantic"? And what do you all like about the kind of porn made today? It makes me want to turn if off, honestly. It seems like it must be very popular but I don't really understand it.

I hope I'm not being offensive with this post but hopefully I'm making sense.
 

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I’d recommend “naughty America” and “shape of beauty.” they still have fairly vanilla, story-centered video. Also xhamster has a female-friendly category.

The thing I can’t stand in porn is the whole step-family genre which seems Ever present.
 

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The closest you can come to old school porn is the true amatuer stuff out there today. Mainline porn is all scripted the same.. couple meet, kiss,undress, oral, reverse cowgirl, on her back, facing him, doggy, now on her back..cum on face or tits...rinse repeat..... Nothing erotic about it and the actress's are so over the top vocal yet you rarely get to see the woman have an orgasm. Only PureTaboo has decent story lines and acting
 

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porn hasn't changed. it's still the same. you just have to look deeper and learn how to filter out the stuff you don't like. if you have no history with a site then they will show you what is most popular. just because you are not into the popular stuff doesn't mean what you like isn't still there.

porn is still porn. the only thing that has really changed is the camera angles and the video quality. the rest is still the same and most, if not all, of the genres are all still there. just search for what you like and i'm sure you'll find it.
 
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If you were referring to Playboy from when they had the magazine before it sadly went away at the start of this being the worst pandemic of our lives, they have an excellent Playboy Plus website.

The ladies do very playful and sometimes flirty poses. It might be a bit on the pricey side, but if you subscribe to Playboy's emails--watch for possible deals that come up from time to time.

As for which sites to check out, I usually look at Freeones (who has a fabulous forum filled with dozens of topics, and the chance to chat with adult stars and other interested fans) and xhamster.com.
 

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My collection dated back to 1996 until they briefly stopped showing nude pics. When they reversed course, the issues were not published every month, but rather every 3 months. Very sad.
 
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To much anal and it’s hard to watch if the girl is not truly enjoying it.
 

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I'm not a fan of a lot of the rougher stuff. But I actually appreciate the modern deviation from romantic storyline and such, after all these aren't videos I'm looking to snuggle up under a blanket on the couch with my wife...honestly given how much we know how porn can be damaging to real world sexual expectations, I think the deviation from realistic romantic portrayals helps cement the genre into a much healthier compartmentalization. I'm watching porn to masturbate, not make love.
 
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I wanted to get people's thoughts on this.

So, first, background. I learned about sex (and porn) of course from the internet. The porn I used to watch was videos that had some kind of story but you'd just go to the sex parts. The sex was more, like, romantic, I'd say. The men and woman looked like they were really into each other. They were shot like movies with nice photography. Maybe it was too much acting, but from a females POV I thought it was good.

I don't watch THAT much porn but every now and then I feel the urge, so if I go to PornHub or where-ever, I see so much anal, fast rough sex and it feel so angry much of the time.

Do they still make the kind of porn I used to like, I guess I'll use the word "romantic"? And what do you all like about the kind of porn made today? It makes me want to turn if off, honestly. It seems like it must be very popular but I don't really understand it.

I hope I'm not being offensive with this post but hopefully I'm making sense.

I've had the same reaction. If you watch old school porn, there's very little of the humiliation/questionably consensual/gaping/ridiculously hard stuff. The sex is almost all playful, consensus, and I've actually pondered the social ramifications of porn becoming more widespread and society becoming more feminist-friendly, and yet porn transforming into . . . this.

There's still plenty of erotic stuff out there -- you might check out SexArt and the related stuff, especially the mid-10s entries.

Lingerie has definitely gotten a lot better though! :)
 

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@sarahm9711 yep the same here. as said in another topic...
i really hate such humiliation and violence in porn. ok i shoudl accept that porn is for all tastes... but that's the point : it is all the same.
the only way is find some amateurs videos.
i am watching some women simulation videos sometimes because they have a nice voice and are tender . sometimes i like some fantasm stuff but even there... even anal for exemple it is not even "kind " practice of anal.
so it is good to have amateur videos.

and by the way for pornhub and co... these people didn't care to have young girls doing porn there
so it is good now they make security to avoid it... it will take time so things become more normal but now they need to take zero risk to have another such story.

agree with @lbj15 being single i like lingerie pics or videos
sometimes i wonder if i keep liking it so much i 'll never be with a gf :D
 

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Porn becoming more violent and more depraved is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Once you show the most intimate act two humans can do with each other that evokes a lot of emotions and desires, you are steadily desensitizing people, who will then crave more and more extreme content to evoke those feelings.
 
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With the rise of cam sights and amateur home based porn production sites I think the days of traditional porn are numbered….. alongside that as performers realise that they can earn more from their front room as oppose to spending the day travelling to a set to get 100 bucks I think the quality too will shift

what will remain is the niche stuff, the more taboo stuff which is mainly fantasy based

and with it our relationship with sex will once again shift
 

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I might be in the minority but i really like the dirty ,rough, sex porn and all the dirty talk ,swearing and stuff that they do in porn today sorry it's just my opinion but i think it's so hot and i dont need a storyline or dialouge all i need is to see a big dick fuckin a woman's.. piussy and her screaming and moaning and lots of oh shit's if i want to see dialouge or acting or storylines ill watch a movie or tv show porn is for jerkin off and watching people fuck just my opinion.
 

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My wife and I used to have issues with the one sided dominance thing. For us, we were looking for pegging (strapon) porn. 90% of them were dominant women "giving it" to the unsuspecting man writhing in fake pain. But one day, I found a blog on Tumblr (before they joined the church) called "Pegging With A Smile". Lots of photos, gifs, and videos of smiling couples using strapons like "normal" folks might do it. Maybe there's a "Fucking with a smile" out there somewhere? :)