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By the way, here it is the issue, I have had a few dates with a girl a couple years ago, she was very firm at not jumping through the sheets before we had quite a few dates even tho she told straight in my face she couldn't resist me and I did appreciate her being firm on the decision but then time came and we got in bed a few times but even tho we had some satisfactory sessions I did not come to a conclusion, to say it in a non polite but clear way I didn't come and it was due to a few factors, first it I try and am good at keeping it because I like sex sessions to be the longest because I do really like it, a factor I recall in this instance was being very physically tired and one more time having a flu I wasn't aware (yet) of; by that time our dates were over due to other issues but we met again for just once and again same issue, I was in the worse part of a very busy work week with few hours of sleeps and again a failure...
No, I don't think I have any problem with my sex drive, a historical ex used to enjoy the regular to abundant cum shots, back in time it took me quite a while to find out if women like being wet with sperm and when I started to have fetishes (porn does a free sex class but in a totally wrong way till we realize those are movies with a plot and with a goal...), to mention one I so much wanted to cum over my back in time GF face and it took a while to convince her, I was so shy that many a times I retracted and when I recall she wanting to taste it I felt so really bad because I thought she only wanted it to please my and to satisfy my fetishes.
Later on I realized girls too have fetishes (not just a man domain, isn't it?) and they might have liked it the same way as well as in a different way, in my experience one always wanted me to cum inside her (I was damn scared no matter tablets and so on...), another had no preference at all so anywhere would suit, another one was literally in love with sperm, it was fun because the very first time we had sex she finished blowing me (after my usual procrastinating she couldn't stand the friction any longer so she wanted me to finish...) and whilst sucking she took a break to tell me she doesn't swallow so she had me to come in her mouth but then spit it all (in my opinion she just wanted to look/feel not that much of a sex lover yet, later on she has been swallowing it all till last drop), this one would spread cum all over her body like a body lotion, slide it on her lips, over her face...
One thing which really pulled me down once was having a date with an ex and before going to sleep she wanted to have sex which only later on I realized because she thought of it as a duty in the way like "I am your woman, you are my man, as a man you want sex and here you go" and when I realized I was on the verge to come, pulled out and was going to the restroom, she asked me what was I doing and when I told her she said I have to cum onto her, next day we spoke about it and I showed my disagreement but she stood her point by saying that even tho I didn't like her to behave as a pleasure object (not to use unpleasant adjectives) she, on the other hand, believed that it was her duty...
So, to the conclusion, I understand that as well as my goal is for my partner to enjoy it to the full and to come (I love when a woman gets orgasm) what is it like for women, is it to be satisfy their man, the fetish of it, the assurance that they are attractive enough to bring a man to pleasure...?
Sorry for being so long, I hope you got the point
Thank you
By the way, here it is the issue, I have had a few dates with a girl a couple years ago, she was very firm at not jumping through the sheets before we had quite a few dates even tho she told straight in my face she couldn't resist me and I did appreciate her being firm on the decision but then time came and we got in bed a few times but even tho we had some satisfactory sessions I did not come to a conclusion, to say it in a non polite but clear way I didn't come and it was due to a few factors, first it I try and am good at keeping it because I like sex sessions to be the longest because I do really like it, a factor I recall in this instance was being very physically tired and one more time having a flu I wasn't aware (yet) of; by that time our dates were over due to other issues but we met again for just once and again same issue, I was in the worse part of a very busy work week with few hours of sleeps and again a failure...
No, I don't think I have any problem with my sex drive, a historical ex used to enjoy the regular to abundant cum shots, back in time it took me quite a while to find out if women like being wet with sperm and when I started to have fetishes (porn does a free sex class but in a totally wrong way till we realize those are movies with a plot and with a goal...), to mention one I so much wanted to cum over my back in time GF face and it took a while to convince her, I was so shy that many a times I retracted and when I recall she wanting to taste it I felt so really bad because I thought she only wanted it to please my and to satisfy my fetishes.
Later on I realized girls too have fetishes (not just a man domain, isn't it?) and they might have liked it the same way as well as in a different way, in my experience one always wanted me to cum inside her (I was damn scared no matter tablets and so on...), another had no preference at all so anywhere would suit, another one was literally in love with sperm, it was fun because the very first time we had sex she finished blowing me (after my usual procrastinating she couldn't stand the friction any longer so she wanted me to finish...) and whilst sucking she took a break to tell me she doesn't swallow so she had me to come in her mouth but then spit it all (in my opinion she just wanted to look/feel not that much of a sex lover yet, later on she has been swallowing it all till last drop), this one would spread cum all over her body like a body lotion, slide it on her lips, over her face...
One thing which really pulled me down once was having a date with an ex and before going to sleep she wanted to have sex which only later on I realized because she thought of it as a duty in the way like "I am your woman, you are my man, as a man you want sex and here you go" and when I realized I was on the verge to come, pulled out and was going to the restroom, she asked me what was I doing and when I told her she said I have to cum onto her, next day we spoke about it and I showed my disagreement but she stood her point by saying that even tho I didn't like her to behave as a pleasure object (not to use unpleasant adjectives) she, on the other hand, believed that it was her duty...
So, to the conclusion, I understand that as well as my goal is for my partner to enjoy it to the full and to come (I love when a woman gets orgasm) what is it like for women, is it to be satisfy their man, the fetish of it, the assurance that they are attractive enough to bring a man to pleasure...?
Sorry for being so long, I hope you got the point
Thank you