Whats ur opinion on anal, ladies?

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  1. biguy8773

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    ive always wanted to have anal sex with a woman but idk how to propose that lol. i was wondering what the ladies on lpsg thought about it. btw if anyones interested gimme a private message ;]
     
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    I've got a one-way asshole... I have no desire for anything to be up in there or for my hole to be licked. I know some people that like it but it's not my thing.
     
  3. UpwardCurve

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    I just read an article comparing penetration of the vagina to the anus, and it is pretty enlightening, since it shows the anus as being MUCH more fragile to penetration ("i.e. one way street")

    i can see why women would want to never take part in it, especially after reading this:

    "The rectum is significantly different from the vagina with regard to suitability for penetration by a penis. The vagina has natural lubricants and is supported by a network of muscles. It is composed of a mucus membrane with a multi-layer stratified squamous epithelium that allows it to endure friction without damage and to resist the immunological actions caused by semen and sperm. In comparison, the anus is a delicate mechanism of small muscles that comprise an "exit-only" passage. With repeated trauma, friction and stretching, the sphincter loses its tone and its ability to maintain a tight seal. Consequently, anal intercourse leads to leakage of fecal material that can easily become chronic.

    The potential for injury is exacerbated by the fact that the intestine has only a single layer of cells separating it from highly vascular tissue, that is, blood. Therefore, any organisms that are introduced into the rectum have a much easier time establishing a foothold for infection than they would in a vagina. The single layer tissue cannot withstand the friction associated with penile penetration, resulting in traumas that expose both participants to blood, organisms in feces, and a mixing of bodily fluids. Furthermore, ejaculate has components that are immunosuppressive. In the course of ordinary reproductive physiology, this allows the sperm to evade the immune defenses of the female. Rectal insemination of rabbits has shown that sperm impaired the immune defenses of the recipient.23 Semen may have a similar impact on humans.24 "

    Pretty scary for the recipitent i would think;;; lol
     
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    FYI, source and credit your article or the mods will be all over you for copyright.

    Otherwise, that's very interesting. Thank you for posting that. Now what does it have to do with sex?
     
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    :lame:
    There's been plenty of questions like this before, and plenty of women who've come back and said they DO like it. Do you think they're gonna change their mind based on that? Tell you what, there's a thread going on sex during menstruation, I'm sure you could go out and find an article that says how risky that is. Or in the circ/uncut argument that having a foreskin is dangerous....


    http://www.lpsg.org/112473-what-percent-women-do-like.html
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  6. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    There is no comparing anal and vaginal sex!
    Heterosexual intercourse involving the vagina is less risky, in terms of tissue damage mainly due to lubrication. Heterosexual anal, is often an infrequent activity, done spur of the moment, with little preparation and therefore may lead to damage/contact with feces.

    In contrast, homosexual male anal, no vaginas there :rolleyes:, involves individuals that "specialize" in preparation (kegels, lube, dilation, irrigation (reduces, some claim eliminates, fecal matter in the rectum), relaxation techniques, etc.) and training to bottom. Now, not all gay or bi men engage in anal sex, however, of those that do, most are experienced in reducing the risk of damage to their bodies.

    As a heterosexual woman, I love anal, and was taught how to do it without pain or creating anal fissures. (http://www.lpsg.org/85746-anal-sex-how.html) It is not an all the time thing, but when I desire anal I prepare appropriately, as I do for vaginal, and have not experienced any damage.

    Regarding disease, bacteria, and fluid transmission, it is my opinion that anal, and vaginal sex (as it can also involve blood, mixing fluids, and tears), should always involve condoms.

    However, I have never heard of immunosuppression due to anal, so I wonder if this is first, a fact, and also a significant risk or not. As Jason mentioned, please do cite your source as I would love to read the material.
     
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    Fantastic as long as its done right.
     
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    no option for me. It turns me off thinking about it. And as far as myself is concerned: once a girl put her finger near that area and I lost the appetite.
     
  10. B_Jennuine73

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    I love anal as well.

    Ask her if she is interested first of all. If she is, start slow by one session using your finger, let her be comfortable as it does hurt if rushed.
     
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    Why are so many guys into anal? I don't know how many stories i've heard of man trying to convince their significant other to take it up the butt. Always seemed a little unhygenic to me...
     
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    Love having one or two fingers in my arse; tried anal sex once and quite literally panicked from the pain once he got his glans up inside. It hurt A LOT and he wasn't even thrusting yet. I'm pretty sure I won't be trying that again. I have a girlfriend that tongues it fabulously. I specially love when she tongues me while I am sucking my husband; I feel like the luckiest, nastiest, little bitch and it drives me fucking mad.
     
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    I hate to have it fingered during regular sex (I find it distracting and annoying), but love to have it licked during oral. As far as anal sex is concerned, I've only managed to do it a couple of times and like it as a sometimes thing. But I have to be in the mood.
     
  14. Principessa

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    Yup, :yup: me too.
     
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    I love being rimmed and fucked anally too just like some of the other ladies here...gosh I've even had orgasms that way with my body shaking violently and ecstatically..the best way for me is always if I climb on top and guide the cock in at my own pace...just love it can't get enough but learned to do without it when it ain't available or happening ;)
     
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